Kobojunkie:
1. None of the claims you made are verified by the OP , so I am not certain why you feel such conjecture ought to matter in a conversation such as this.

2. Look, not every man out there thinks as you do and not everyone processes these things same way you do. The moment you are able to fully grasp that is the moment you realize you really have no right to assume anything on behalf of others but yourself even in this.

That's your view to the whole scenario, the OP himself knew what this could bring on her marriage, that's why he's here to seek people's opinion on whether to alert her about the sex tape or not, I responded to your assertions justifying her actions based on the time the sex tape was made public. You may be right with the fact that we process things differently, but I still reiterate, except for coming open to the husband before their marriage about all her previous love affairs, this might be a big issue for her. It may not mean anything to you, but it will mean a lot to many people.

Kobojunkie:
1. None of the claims you made are verified by the OP , so I am not certain why you feel such conjecture ought to matter in a conversation such as this.

2. Look, not every man out there thinks as you do and not everyone processes these things same way you do. The moment you are able to fully grasp that is the moment you realize you really have no right to assume anything on behalf of others but yourself even in this.

I totally get your point, let's leave it at that, there's no point taking analgesic on another man's headache.

IamV:


It is fun.

Look forward to seeing a video of your black ynash ,and your thin legs being spread wide like the devil's bedsheet,why you scream loud like an idiot in a poorly lighted room,with a dilapidated bed.

It is fun,nne.

come dont quote me again, just respect yourself

Advice up and down.

Even if the video was done against her will or before we met , she go collect.
I no fit be with woman wey get videos of herself fucking online.

How I go marry that kin thing. Tufuwaka.

You too dey rationalize nonsense. Rat on the bitch , only heaven knows what else she's done.

Acme45:
the chrisland stuff now

Chrisland everywhere, I wan watch the video too, link pls

Ken4Christ:
The earlier she knows the better. And let her tell her husband because there is nothing hidden that will not be revealed.

All they should work on is how to remove the said video online before it will have multiple shares and before their enemies will use it to destroy their marriage.

Is this the best Biblical advice that your spiritual mind can cogitate?

Hide, remove, delete etc. This is exactly what happens in your churches. Conceal the evidence and appear sanctimonious before men. You are not worried about her relationship with God. It is all about hide and delete. Shame on you. Your thoughts and meditations a bunch of taboo before spiritually sound people

CaptainFM1:


My opinion is if you are not directly in control of the video in a way to blackmail her, then you can tell her.

But something tells me, you have the video under your control and you somehow planted it or about to plant it online either directly or indirectly but just want to sample our opinions on what you've done or about to do with it.

Just to remind you that Blackmailing is a serious crime.

someone who has been a good friend for more than 13 years, and I got married 2014, and she just got married last year. So why will I do such Evil? Knowing fully well that he who stays in a glass house, must not throw stones. My major aim is to see how to save that marriage from hitting the rock. That's why as a girl don't ever allow any guy, no matter how you love him to film your unclothedness. Thinking after all his my boyfriend, You only know today.

Uchedizzy:
come dont quote me again, just respect yourself

You need that self respect more.
No self respecting person will be publicly talking about video recording themselves having sex.
Only the shameless & sluts does that.

bluefilm:


Just Send me the link so that i can send it to her husband so that he can send her away so that the whole matter can rest.

so if the husband push her out will you marry her or you think the next woman he will get as wife again will be a saint?

Acme45:
the chrisland stuff now

did you find it? I'm looking for it too. I read it was a gang rape I want to check it, so that I can draw my own conclusions.

ransomed:
Who knows if you are not the one who wants to scatter her relationship before marriage. Since you couldn't do it, now is the right time for you to scatter her marriage. God save us from wicked beings who claim to be friends.
I don't trust you, you definitely have link with how the video was made ab initio.

sorry I got married 2014 and she just got married last year

emmy9500:


You were checking for child porn…… you have to check yourself

I heard the news not knowing it was a sex video, all I was hearing was did you watch the video. So I began to ask myself which video and wanted to see it until I stumbled on that page

toprealman:

You are part of the crew that leaked the video.....most likely.

your father is the head of the crew

fullblast:
I had same experience too.
I stumbled on a female friend's s3x video titled with her name on the internet during the blackberry era.
She was about 6months new into her marriage.
I had to notify her. She raged with anger as she told me it was her ex.
Few days later the video was pulled down from the popular porn site.

thanks for your contribution, I really appreciate

Acme45:
someone who has been a good friend for more than 13 years, and I got married 2014, and she just got married last year. So why will I do such Evil? Knowing fully well that he who stays in a glass house, must not throw stones. My major aim is to see how to save that marriage from hitting the rock. That's why as a girl don't ever allow any guy, no matter how you love him to film your unclothedness. Thinking after all his my boyfriend, You only knows today.

Good man. I already reply you positively in the first paragraph.

Like you, I'm not innocent either. I don't take videos of my ex but I have 2 of them that did send me their naked pictures those days we were doing "phonecations" due to long distance thing.

Now one of them dey look me like say I will blackmail her. I know I can't infact I will delete the pics when I get home tonight. Cause sometimes, like we heard, when you go repair phones, those boys for computer village do save ppls media.

No offence bro with regards to my earlier comment. One love

posty56:
where are all this sex videos coming out from ?

From the pit of .....where it's has been stored for ages

Acme45:
your father is the head of the crew

He is late bro.....

Show her

Fuckaniza:


you carry wella?

This girl u too like fúck

All these things I dey see dey make me fear cause I've done sex tape with like 3 women.
I remember one took pictures of my diik but I'm sure my face wasn't there cause I was towering over her.
my church mind is telling me I will later regret my stupidity...the worst part is I don't even know those women.
But not to worry I also have a a few sextapes in my possession but it's all for insurance

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

Just tell her you will know the greatest mistake you have made in your life. You don't know that gender just try it

Acme45:
so if the husband push her out will you marry her or you think the next woman he will get as wife again will be a saint?

God forbid i marry a porn star.

My only relationship with porn stars ends on the screens of my TV and laptop.

If her husband chases her away, which i know he will still do, it then means that she's getting what she deserves.

You think you are protecting her now but the truth is that you are only delaying/postponing the d-day.

The whole will soon know about it.

So Please send me the link biko

Sixfiguresmart:
Is this the best Biblical advice that your spiritual mind can cogitate?

Hide, remove, delete etc. This is exactly what happens in your churches. Conceal the evidence and appear sanctimonious before men. You are not worried about her relationship with God. It is all about hide and delete. Shame on you. Your thoughts and meditations a bunch of taboo before spiritually sound people

The Bible said Joseph who wanted to put away her wife secretly thinking she has committed adultery was a just man.

God forgives but humans hardly. If your husband already knows, why keep the video. The wicked one like you will use it against them. People like you never forgive but your own sin is bigger.

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

This is the second time people will say they saw either their girlfriend or friends girlfriend sex video.
Please which site is that so that I can see if my girl no dey there o because these girls are green snake under the grass.

Send us the video so that elders can give out perfect advice comrade

Why even post here about it.

Why not just keep quiet or tell only her about it.

As a good friend,u can pay specialist's to remove it ,but bf u do.u film it with ur phone so u can show it to her,let her know what a great thing u have done for her and then delete it bf her.she can pay u back the money spent
If u show it to her,she might loose it bc of fear ,she might get heart attack,it might end her married.
So for me,I will remove it from d Internet.thats what good friends do

Miradamian:
As a good friend,u can pay specialist's to remove it ,but bf u do.u film it with ur phone so u can show it to her,let her know what a great thing u have done for her and then delete it bf her.she can pay u back the money spent
If u show it to her,she might loose it bc of fear ,she might get heart attack,it might end her married.
So for me,I will remove it from d Internet.thats what good friends do

thank you for your great advice, God bless

Pls give me the site name,I wan check something there.

Acme45:
the chrisland stuff now

[quote author=IamV post=112210982]

You need that self respect more.
No self respect person will be publicly talking about video recording themselves having sex .

Only the shameless & sluts does that.[/quote) oga rest, i told you not to quote me again , i made a post in which many people saw and passed but you carried it on your head like akara even when you dont know if i meant what i said and even if i do how is that your business , this is a public flatform i can say what i want to say i dont own anybody, i dont know you either do you know me so oga rest i dont care what you think, rest biko better person deputy jesus and dont quote me again

Just keepon with your own life and leave her alone. She might accuse you of complicity if you call her attention to it. Events will play out as time goes on.

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?