If the relationship is not mutual and receprocated, it's not a relationship.
Everything about the relationship has to be receprocated and mutual by both parties involved.
Don't love beyond the level which the other party shows you love.

Serve them what they serve you in the relationship in terms of everything.
This is how to create balance

To some people you are just an opportunity to be taking advantage of used and dumped.
Mostly guyz find themselves in this zone trying to impress a lady that is not willing to impress them. Same also applies to ladies trying to impress a guy who is not willing to impress them.


�It must be mutual and receprocated .. financially

�It must be mutual and receprocated .. respectfully

�It must be mutual and receprocated .. in the public

�It must be mutual and receprocated .. in terms of sacrifice, giving and loving

�It must be mutual and receprocated .. in terms of commitment and loyalty

Guyz shine your eyes don't allow any gender use you and trash you.
If you are dating him/her ensure they are dating you too. ..

Let's redefine the narrative...

True,most nigeria men are only after sex nothing more,that is why girls should shine their eyes.