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I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 2:13pm On May 31, 2022
Please pardon my grammatical error

I clocked 29 just last month and i am in a relationship of over 2 years with a girl i love and thinks she loves me too, but the problem right now is I'm seriously considering ending things with her.

My real worry is this has happened before, not once but twice. The first was in 2018 when i was in love with a girl i could risk things for, the relationship was in its 8th month when on a certain evening i picked up my phone and informed her that i needed some space. She called and texted me several times to demand for an explanation as to why i took that decision but refused to answer until after some weeks she stopped. Truth is i had no reason whatsoever.

The second one was the nicest girl I've ever known. She would visit me despite it was a distant relationship without asking me for a kobo despite she was in school then. She did almost everything a housewife would do and never conplain for once. She gave so much to me and our relationship and all i gave her was heartbreak. The relationship lasted 10 months.

Right now I've not picked the call of a girl i was hoping to marry for the last two days, she's been chatting me up and asking why I'm not answering her calls, but all i keep saying is I'm busy with work.
Worst part is i will be disappointing a lot of people if i break things up. This is someone (the only one) I've taken home to my parents, every of my siblings seem to like her, her mom has been really nice to me and accommodating, people who are very close to us already know we got something serious going, we've even both discussed marriage.

And now my mind seems out of all these.
I really don't understand why i keep doing this. Strange part is i do not cheat, might be hard to believe, but it's the truth

Could it be psychological?
I really want to help myself.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Jack005(m): 2:29pm On May 31, 2022
Maybe you have a spirit wife.

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Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by LadyRosa(f): 2:31pm On May 31, 2022
Jack005:
Maybe you have a spirit wife.



grin grin grin
That one dey.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Medianna(f): 2:33pm On May 31, 2022
Him whom the gods wants to kill, they first make him go mad.
You're not the 'say no to marriage type' no date your wife and marry your girlfriendiyoo.
You think in relationship butterflies will last in your tummy?
Its more about decision not feelings.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by LadyRosa(f): 2:33pm On May 31, 2022
grin grin grin

God go punish that lady wey dey give you BJ for dream angry angry
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Felimax(m): 2:35pm On May 31, 2022
@29, you are still a kid, Period!

Don't get it twisted bro, some guys can be 25 and they are already matured. Ok?

You simply don't know what you want. You tentatively lack the vision of what it takes to be a man.

Perhaps, you are just another variant of sex in a man's body, presently in America you can be referred to as an X sex.

You are 29 but your brain is 18, please pardon my been blunt with you. Sooner or later you will fight hard to look for the angels you are throwing away, then God may have given up on you. Then later you will equally rush to Nairaland and start screaming how there is no good girl to get married to.

The disease that will kill a dog will first take away it's sense of smell.

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Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by MadamOk(f): 2:44pm On May 31, 2022
You have to pray over it
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Jack005(m): 2:49pm On May 31, 2022
LadyRosa:
grin grin grin

God go punish that lady wey dey give you BJ for dream angry angry
Comrade easy grin grin grin

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Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 2:49pm On May 31, 2022
MadamOk:
You have to pray over it
Thank you.
I've given that a thought, but I do not even attend church and so lazy when it comes to prayers. I believe in God though
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Fanikoko: 2:50pm On May 31, 2022
MadamOk:
You have to pray over it
What God cannot do does not exist
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by LadyRosa(f): 2:51pm On May 31, 2022
Jack005:
Comrade easy grin grin grin


I repeat make thunder fire that woman wey dey give am cowgirl style non stop for dream!
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 2:52pm On May 31, 2022
Felimax:
@29, you are still a kid, Period!

Don't get it twisted bro, some guys can be 25 and they are already matured. Ok?

You simply don't know what you want. You tentatively lack the vision of what it takes to be a man.

Perhaps, you are just another variant of sex in a man's body, presently in America you can be referred to as an X sex.

You are 29 but your brain is 18, please pardon my been blunt with you. Sooner or later you will fight hard to look for the angels you are throwing away, then God may have given up on you. Then later you will equally rush to Nairaland and start screaming how there is no good girl to get married to.

The disease that will kill a dog will first take away it's sense of smell.
Well, thanks to you
I do not really understand what you mean by "i do not have what it takes to be a man"
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 2:53pm On May 31, 2022
LadyRosa:
grin grin grin

God go punish that lady wey dey give you BJ for dream angry angry
Do you think it's spiritual?
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by LadyRosa(f): 2:54pm On May 31, 2022
Martinola:

Do you think it's spiritual?


Do you remember your dreams?
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by ExtremeDot: 2:57pm On May 31, 2022
Felimax:
@29, you are still a kid, Period!

Don't get it twisted bro, some guys can be 25 and they are already matured. Ok?

You simply don't know what you want. You tentatively lack the vision of what it takes to be a man.

Perhaps, you are just another variant of sex in a man's body, presently in America you can be referred to as an X sex.

You are 29 but your brain is 18, please pardon my been blunt with you. Sooner or later you will fight hard to look for the angels you are throwing away, then God may have given up on you. Then later you will equally rush to Nairaland and start screaming how there is no good girl to get married to.

The disease that will kill a dog will first take away it's sense of smell.

Trash!

OP don't listen to that trash.

You are a man and you are completely normal. There's a reason for everything. Search within you, meditate in a serine environment, you will find out why you feel that way about relationships.

No be another Homo Sapien go decide for you weda you be Man or not.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Felimax(m): 3:02pm On May 31, 2022
Martinola:

Well, thanks to you
I do not really understand what you mean by "i do not have what it takes to be a man"

Ok, look at it! You could not find any tangible reason to your actions. You still will not deem it fit to explain to them the reason for your actions. You don't care how they feel with your total unexplained rejection. That is not a man bro, that is a weakling. A man takes responsibility regardless. A man is just on top of his situation or circumstances no matter what.

I read your lines word to word and I don't think I am in the best position to correct you, I just feel I should mirror you out so you won't think it is smartness.

It's not I care though but right here on this forum we have men with mentality of boys and painful part they see themselves as smart guys.

Go and relax and think about your purpose to this world. Why are you here? What are you really doing here? When likely do you think you will expire from this world because surely that is a gift God has given to everyone. Take your time to discover your purpose and when you do come back and read this post of yours. You will clearly see that you are far better than don't be stupid.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Felimax(m): 3:06pm On May 31, 2022
ExtremeDot:


Trash!

OP don't listen to that trash.

You are a man and you are completely normal. There's a reason for everything. Search within you, meditate in a serine environment, you will find out why you feel that way about relationships.

No be another Homo Sapien go decide for you weda you be Man or not.

Another critical example!
I know they will appear. Lolz
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Ballzproblemm: 3:09pm On May 31, 2022
na the one way go abuse you na you they find , seriously what do some people want

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Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 3:10pm On May 31, 2022
LadyRosa:



Do you remember your dreams?
I think so
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by LadyRosa(f): 3:11pm On May 31, 2022
Martinola:

I think so

Do you usually find your self having sex in dreams?
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 3:15pm On May 31, 2022
Felimax:


Ok, look at it! You could not find any tangible reason to your actions. You still will not deem it fit to explain to them the reason for your actions. You don't care how they feel with your total unexplained rejection. That is not a man bro, that is a weakling. A man takes responsibility regardless. A man is just on top of his situation or circumstances no matter what.

I read your lines word to word and I don't think I am in the best position to correct you, I just feel I should mirror you out so you won't think it is smartness.

It's not I care though but right here on this forum we have men with mentality of boys and painful part they see themselves as smart guys.

Go and relax and think about your purpose to this world. Why are you here? What are you really doing here? When likely do you think you will expire from this world because surely that is a gift God has given to everyone. Take your time to discover your purpose and when you do come back and read this post of yours. You will clearly see that you are far better than don't be stupid.
I teally appreciate
But you see, it's something i do but i feel bad and never proud of it. I really wanted to help it, but in the end i simply just give in.
Truth is i really feel bitter for them because they never deserved such treatment from me. It's something i am desperate to mend
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 3:17pm On May 31, 2022
LadyRosa:


Do you usually find your self having sex in dreams?
Well not exactly but i once had something similar a long time ago
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by LadyRosa(f): 3:21pm On May 31, 2022
Martinola:

Well not exactly but i once had something similar a long time ago

There's only one way to find out.
Go intensive prayer and fast for three days.DO MIDNIGHT at least for 1hours.

The BITCH will _4ck you after your prayers.Trust me grin
You won't be able to resist her,very slim chances.
That's the best way to bring her out from her hiding.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Felimax(m): 3:27pm On May 31, 2022
Martinola:

I teally appreciate
But you see, it's something i do but i feel bad and never proud of it. I really wanted to help it, but in the end i simply just give in.
Truth is i really feel bitter for them because they never deserved such treatment from me. It's something i am desperate to mend

I swear, if you had summoned the courage to repeat this same lines you have said now to those girls, it would have made a lot of difference in their life.

Something may be responsible, you have to look inward, find it and destroy it if you can.

I once had so much disdain for women because of the orientation my uncle gave me about women generally but a time came I had to unlearn every nonsense he told me why I was growing up. Look inward bro, if you can pick a thing.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Simplelion: 3:27pm On May 31, 2022
currently in your shoe now, a bit older and I have be thinking abt how to tell her that I'm ending it since yesterday, she has been calling but the more I see the calls the more I think abt how to end it in my head.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 3:31pm On May 31, 2022
Felimax:


I swear, if you had summoned the courage to repeat this same lines you have said now to those girls, it would have made a lot of difference in their life.

Something may be responsible, you have to look inward, find it and destroy it if you can.

I was had so much disdain for women because of the orientation my uncle gave me about women generally but a time came I had to unlearn every nonsense he told me why I was growing up. Look inward bro, if you can pick a thing.

Thanks a lot bro
I appreciate
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Felimax(m): 4:49pm On May 31, 2022
Martinola:

Thanks a lot bro
I appreciate

Welcome!
I appreciate your understanding also. Thanks.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by begoniaa: 5:11pm On May 31, 2022
It is definitely the spirit of modernity and wokism with a sprinkle of redpill manifesting in you. Keep sending good women away, claiming you don't know the reason and then when you hit The Brick, lonely and alone, you turn to a woman-hater. See you see andropause and saggy balls and Shiloh. I know the man-cave demons will soon arrive to come and cheer you with destructive advice on becoming a baby daddy and recruiting you into their cult and shit.

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Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by techWriter3: 5:12pm On May 31, 2022
Maybe you do a soul wife
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by begoniaa: 5:13pm On May 31, 2022
techWriter3:
Maybe you do a soul wife

He doesn't have any soul wife, ffs. He's absolutely responsible for his actions. Put the blame squarely on him.
Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by begoniaa: 5:19pm On May 31, 2022
Martinola:
Any 9ja woman fit cheat

And you're wondering why you have commitment issues? grin Time don dey run out ba? Don't goan change your mentality. Stay there, you hear. Real life go tell.

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Re: I Keep Quitting Really Good Relationships With No Reason At All by Martinola(m): 5:42pm On May 31, 2022
begoniaa:


And you're wondering why you have commitment issues? grin Time don dey run out ba? Don't goan change your mentality. Stay there, you hear. Real life go tell.
You really do not get it
No correlation

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