*Why is it that when a woman knows her man can never cheat on her, she stops spicing up the relationship, but when she knows the man may cheat or currently cheating on her, she does her best to please him everyday so he won't go out to cheat. does it mean good men dont deserve the.best from their woman as well?

Naso e dey normally na.. when ppl dey comfort zone .. den go relax but I think the best way to go about it is to just ask for whatever u want if she/he is slacking.. and if they are not ready reason with u, na to slack back in other ways as well ,if na wetin go correct dia head... Not necessarily to cheat, just figure out those things your partner really like you doing.. reduce them till they complain.. and tell them na d way u dey feel too

I personally take this topic seriously. It seems to me that it is always necessary to work on the relationship whatever the situation. Although my partner did not really share my interests and constantly hid who and how she communicated with. It is understandable that this caused me anxiety. I tried to find out about the text messages she sends to her acquaintances because frankly I became very jealous of her. With the help of certain applications I was able to do it. I made sure that nothing forbidden there and calmed my soul.

ettaetta:
*Why is it that when a woman knows her man can never cheat on her, she stops spicing up the relationship, but when she knows the man may cheat or currently cheating on her, she does her best to please him everyday so he won't go out to cheat. does it mean good men dont deserve the.best from their woman as well?

It's a human thing... When we're too comportable we become lazy...

True, for men, avoid being a yes man all the time and for women, avoid being manipulative.

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It's a human thing... When we're too comportable we become lazy...

such behaviour from our ladies is not the best, this can actually push a good man to cheat