I created this mod with a fake Id..here's my problem...I went to my partners fone for another mission (don't judge me),,and I stumbled on an sms that read BABY SEND ME SO SO SO THING,I called d number and d lady picked and called him BABY..I asked my hubby and he said dats what his female colleagues call him in his office,is he lying cos my heart is gradually leaving him,and heart broken,I never imagined he could cheat,,I have never cheated on him even dated a married man while young..pls I need ur advice,no insults plss�
Note:we have been married for 15yrs

Is like you have a good hubby oo
Fifteen years in marriage minus courtship and no single record of cheating.
That gender mtsw!

Op, your hubby is not cheating on you but he's on research and experiment. Chaii

A king I Stan

15 years is enough time for you to know him I guess, but worrying is "cos my heart is gradually leaving him, and heart broken", which kind of makes it seem like you are here asking us to justify what you feel and already want to do.

I just hope you realise that most of the advise you'd get here will come from those with indomie philosophy, and that the proper thing to do is within you who has all the relevant information.

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I think you are just finding out about one of his games, he must have been a smart player all these years. I’ll advise you call him to order and sort it out. Don’t leave a 15yr old marriage because of this, just get him to stop each time you catch him, they all cheat.

"Your heart is gradually leaving him" do you women have any heart?? Its another woman like you that knows his married but still calling him baby and begging for so so so thing.. .abeg!! Talk to your gender leave we men out of this.

No he's reharsing to cheat.

You were too fast to confront him without strong evidence, but maybe he's telling the truth, but you could have,set trap first

Cheating left right and center in Nowadays marriage.......Na so my bros wife take catch bros dey cheat a few days ago. Na d matter ee dey try settle since lastweek e never gree settle.

*Singing*
..............Na all of us be ashawo
If i cheat on you am sorry
And if u cheat on me no worry
No be my fault oh na shayo
Na all of us be ashawo.
If i cheat on u am sorry
And if u cheat on me no worry.............

Who even sing that music sef??

Guys, please retreat. We have a good and dedicated wife here so be careful with your comments or you can as well keep it like the picture below;.

Rozross:
I think you are just finding out about one of his games, he must have been a smart player all these years. I’ll advise you call him to order and sort it out. Don’t leave a 15yr old marriage because of this, just get him to stop each time you catch him, they all cheat.

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"They all cheat" makes you look unintelligent though. Don't you think your father is faithful in his marriage? Please don't be angry I mentioned your father, I am not trying to insult him, I just want to paint a picture that, it's not all men that cheat. I have not cheated in a relationship before too.

The fact that your heart is leaving him is enough reason to make you take unreasonable and irrational decision. You have to handle this with maturity and logic.

Rozross:
I think you are just finding out about one of his games, he must have been a smart player all these years. I’ll advise you call him to order and sort it out. Don’t leave a 15yr old marriage because of this, just get him to stop each time you catch him, they all cheat .

I can see u have embraced ur vawulent ways finally

Meanwhile Op

killmods:


I can see u have embraced ur vawulent ways finally

But I just said nothing but the truth

Rozross:
But I just said nothing but the truth

Yea u did... but with a touch of vawulence

killmods:

Yea u did... but with a touch of vawulence

� well, I’m from vawulence headquarters � � �

So, if you listen to singles here who are not even in relationships and leave your husband because of an unfounded allegations, so what will you gain? Will you get another husband that will even last up to 15 years without a trace of cheating? You better not push him into cheating, you have probably been known him for more than 15 years without infidelity and now your heart wants to leave. Just monitor him closely and warn him of the consequences but don't let devil use you and help you scatter your marriage o.