So, there's this trend with some (if not most) married men.

A man looks very well, sees a woman and marries her then turns around some years later to start calling up ladies they wished they ended up with (in their head) like they were forced to choose the one they married

Asides maybe going through emotional downtime in their marriages at the time they make these calls/contacts or looking for pity sex.

Are there other reasons why married men do this Biko, if you know, kindly furnish the house with information, we would like to learn from you

Human wants are insatiable due to some unforeseen contingencies in the environment and the society in general.

I can confortably give a bazillion reason why this trends is so rempant today. But that's not to say cheating is exclusive to the male gender. Married women also cheat, and more brazenly at that.

That being said,

Typing.....

Traits of human beings.

Its normal.. As in pretty normal. Humans were created like that

Interview with some married men in 2019. Some claim.... I no even knw wetin i dey do. I just call her, she respond, next thing, pants flying. I come regret after d game finish

U see. Its inbuilt in both sex. Coz some married men call other married women and it ends in a green light.

Most couples tend to change after marriage. Some accept the changes and live through it, while some regret the marriage

It happens both ways though. Some married women also reach out to their ex, whether the ex is married or not.

1. They might just marry their current spouse for other reasons aside love. Their ex might actually be their true love.

2. They are currently going through marital problems and they see the ex as someone they can talk to freely. In the process of pouring out their hearts to the ex, Okafor's law will be tested and reconfirmed.

3. Those that just can't let go of whatever they shared with the ex. Most especially if they happen to run into themselves after a long time.

4. Because of marital problems some are going through, they remember their ex and thought they made a mistake to have married their current spouse.

It's these men thinking they can eat their cake and have it. Why not marry the one you truly love and save everyone the emotional stories later.

Here to learn

faithfull18:
So, there's this trend with some (if not most) married men.

A man looks very well, sees a woman and marries her then turns around some years later to start calling up ladies they wished they ended up with (in their head) like they were forced to choose the one they married

Asides maybe going through emotional downtime in their marriages at the time they make these calls or contacts or looking for pity sex.

Are there other reasons why married men do this Biko, if you know, kindly furnish the house with information, we would like to learn from you

many in Nigeria marry for the wrong reason, thus why the above happens. with all the religious PRESSURE, family PRESSURE, peer PRESSURE, society PRESSURE and cultural PRESSURE, no wonder so many are marrying total strangers and right after get attracted to others

faithfull18:
It's these men thinking they can eat their cake and have it. Why not marry the one you truly love and save everyone the emotional stories later.

This ur advice should be the other way around. Women marry who's is ready, not who they love. This scenario is more common with women, than men.

Mkelv0106:

This ur advice should be the other way around. Women marry who's is ready, not who they love. This scenario is more common with women, than men.

Well, from my viewpoint and recent trends, it's common with men and men choose, women are found.

faithfull18:
So, there's this trend with some (if not most) married men.

A man looks very well, sees a woman and marries her then turns around some years later to start calling up ladies they wished they ended up with (in their head) like they were forced to choose the one they married

Asides maybe going through emotional downtime in their marriages at the time they make these calls/contacts or looking for pity sex.

Are there other reasons why married men do this Biko, if you know, kindly furnish the house with information, we would like to learn from you

Many of useless women tricked men into marrying then. When the man realize later, then he starts his game

etrouble:


Many of useless women tricked men into marrying then. When the man realize later, then he starts his game

Nah, the man saw the other lady(ies) he calls years later to say his emotional wishes before he chose to marry who he married.

Tricked how

Don't ladies do all these stuffs now!? In fact ladies cheat more than men now

faithfull18:
So, there's this trend with some (if not most) married men.

A man looks very well, sees a woman and marries her then turns around some years later to start calling up ladies they wished they ended up with (in their head) like they were forced to choose the one they married

Asides maybe going through emotional downtime in their marriages at the time they make these calls/contacts or looking for pity sex.

Are there other reasons why married men do this Biko, if you know, kindly furnish the house with information, we would like to learn from you

is anything wrong in calling an old friend? I contact my old friends( both males and females) from time to time.

culf:
is anything wrong in calling an old friend? I contact my old friends( both males and females) from time to time.

No, I am talking about men who call ladies years after they are married to start wishing they married her instead, fantasizing and bringing up emotional throwbacks.

faithfull18:

No, I am talking about men who call ladies years after they are married to start wishing they married her instead, fantasizing and bringing up emotional throwbacks.

That's wrong.

I always pray to never ever end up marrying someone and wishing I had married another person. I hate that ish with passion. That's why I can never settle or allow someone settle with me outta pity or whatever...

Natbrowny:
Traits of human beings.

Its normal.. As in pretty normal. Humans were created like that

Interview with some married men in 2019. Some claim.... I no even knw wetin i dey do. I just call her, she respond, next thing, pants flying. I come regret after d game finish

U see. Its inbuilt in both sex. Coz some married men call other married women and it ends in a green light.

It is only normal in the world of fools not among sane and God fearing people.

People whos number 6 is still working don't go about calling up other women/ men to have sex when they are legally married.

Abeg its not normal.

faithfull18:
It's these men thinking they can eat their cake and have it. Why not marry the one you truly love and save everyone the emotional stories later.

Why are you Fixated On Men:
You better tell us the whole Stories, Dem Run You Street because Last time we checked Both Gender Cheats and Always Thinking it would have been better at the other side!

No Side is Better Laslas

Couples Cheat for Fun, Immaturities or Intolerance:

faithfull18:

No, I am talking about men who call ladies years after they are married to start wishing they married her instead, fantasizing and bringing up emotional throwbacks.

Most Men are their Mother's Pool of Emotions So If He can't Same From his Present Couple and An Ex has Tolerated Him Before ... He Switches Over ...

Some Human just Love Being Pampered like Baby while Some Men even Compete with Their Own Babies for Dem Wife Attentions lack of it, Ziammm Baba yaff Going, Gone Outside!

Blessedmercy8:


It is only normal in the world of fools not among sane and God fearing people.

People whos number 6 is still working don't go about calling up other women/ men to have sex when they are legally married.

Abeg its not normal.

You ain't Diplomatic at All Just Come And Ziaammmmm Wet Everywhere:

If Humanities were to Be Sane, You think the World would have been like this

Do You even Think You are Sane Yourself when Everywhere is Run By Your Emotions?

There are alot to Marriage You can't Fathom Both Men and Women!

Have you had this conversation with your dad? Believe me, he has a lot to say on this subject, as a man. That said, the amount of women home wreckers are unbelievably high.

OLULAW:
Have you had this conversation with your dad? Believe me, he has a lot to say on this subject, as a man. That said, the amount of women home wreckers are unbelievably high.

Well, you would be in a better position as this is your area of expertise. I am sure I answered your question perfectly sir👌