Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,156,321 members, 7,829,793 topics. Date: Thursday, 16 May 2024 at 11:49 AM

Culture And Tradition Still Pivot Our Lives No Matter Of “WOKE” We Become - Culture - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Culture / Culture And Tradition Still Pivot Our Lives No Matter Of “WOKE” We Become (395 Views)

Estate Residents Woke Up To See Bowls Of Sacrifices In Lekki Lagos: Pics & Video / Culture And Tradition Of The Ogho (owo) Kingdom Of Ondo State. / Ijaw Bride Who Was Frowning At Her Wedding Says It’s Tradition (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply)

Culture And Tradition Still Pivot Our Lives No Matter Of “WOKE” We Become by anonymous1759(m): 3:29pm On Oct 07, 2022
MOD please FP wink

The world is not balance and can never be balanced. We can only live through it peaceful as men and women if we respect each other’s rights and privileges.

As men we’re obliged by the society to tolerate women excesses via physical or verbal assault . We’re advised In religious , seminars by Clerics and motivational speakers to act like gentlemen irrespective of our stance we just have to comply and let the women have their ways when it comes to that .

Women will applaud these men who preach these sermon and can’t deny they’ve benefited from this privileges.

Ladies don’t know how men feel when you’re render powerless even when you’ve to power to safe yourself.
Irrespective of all these, the society is right, because as a man even if you’re right , once you physically defend yourself against a woman you’ll loose that case woefully. Because the society see the women as weaker vessel to protect herself from stronger being. When a man engages with a woman verbally he’ll loose at some point no will want to listen to you listen even if you’re right .
The society just feel as stronger vessel (men ) you’ve to capacity to take in those insults while the women can barely take insults that’s why they ( women ) flame up easily . The society have already exonerated them . Women have constantly accuse men of rape and render them useless because of that privilege.



Privileges for men . The society expects the women to be virtuous irrespective of the men excesses they just want you to keep yourself even if your partner is cheating which is absurd. The society feels women are stronger vessels when it comes to sexual urge and can hold her self better compared to the men.

Therefore If a woman cheats because her partner is doing so she’ll still be called a slot because the society expects the woman to respect her body irrespective of Anything. Why the men are not seen as Harlot because the society has exonerated them because they’re perceived as weaker vessel in that aspect .


Women of this generation are already fighting that tradition because they feel cheated for that privilege men enjoy .
But the society is right because as a woman flirting around reduces your value , which can only be redeemed by grace .

Secondly if you get caught up In the middle and get pregnant you’ll realize how difficult it’s to be a single mom . Those conspiracy theories will come to play when you want to settle down . Then you’ll hear all manner of things from your in-laws . ( Like this one this girl is after one/ two , she must have been a flirt , or have a bad character that’s why she’s a single mom , or maybe that’s why her ex divorced her ) .

Why for the men with the flirting nature you can convert it to polygamy which is still cool. But a lady will find it difficult to get out of that scenario.

A guy who tries to fight that tradition of giving women that privilege of letting are excesses slide is misogynist , and lady who tries to do the opposite Too Is a feminist.

No matter how civilized we try to become our customs and traditions still pivot our lives directly or indirectly let’s be guided .
Re: Culture And Tradition Still Pivot Our Lives No Matter Of “WOKE” We Become by Nobody: 3:31pm On Oct 07, 2022
Cool

1 Like

(1) (Reply)

Keresì: Asa Keferí! (christmas: A Pagan Tradition) / Ogboni Chief; Osun Traditionalist, Others Die In Road Accident / Please Read

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 11
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.