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I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by KalioPeter: 1:03pm On Nov 01, 2022
So I recently got disvirgined and had sex after 17yrs.


Now the problem is this, I have a girl who for some reasons which I don't know, finds interest in me.
She's the clingy type and always disturbs my peace of mind with calls and texts.


She's not a bad person, she's really good to me and treats me fairly even when i don't deserve it.
This girl is really hard working and has a good character.


Though we've only known each other for a month now, we recently had sex.
and it was my first time


I don't know if I really like this girl, or I'm just being with her because of sex, I mean I never approached her or requested for her contact instead reserve was the case.


I don't think I have plans on keeping a girl for now, I just want to focus on myself and my hustle.

She doesn't request nothing from me, and she always buy things for me.
just yesterday we went to an eatery where we both ate, and she paid the bills for everything including a take away.


Yes, your thoughts are correct, she's way older than I am, but even she doesn't know that.

I was terrible during sex, it was my first time and I guess she knew that.
I don't know what the future holds, but she hasn't called or text me since we had sex which was last night.
Is she disappointed? because I didn't even last up to 20 seconds and I spent 30 minutes trying to locate the kpekus.
I'm more worried now because I didn't put on a condom while having sex with her.

I can't have a child just yet.
and I definitely cannot stand the thought of being infected with a disease.
It was stupid of me I know, I've been reading a lot of scary post here on Nairaland, and I pray never to be a victim.
She started everything in the first place, and I feel guilty for not resisting the temptation.

I don't really know what to think, I'm really confused.

I feel like I'm moving in the wrong direction.
I plan to ghost her and tell her never to call me again, but she really doesn't deserve that.
she really is a good girl, or maybe to me
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by Oblongata: 1:06pm On Nov 01, 2022
Welcome to fatherhood Baba ibeji! tongue

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Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by virginprincess(f): 1:12pm On Nov 01, 2022
cock and bull story.
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See story from beginner ooooo

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Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by omolasho: 1:18pm On Nov 01, 2022
Chai! You are now officially welcome to years mood swings, sweat, tears, blood, heart ache, heart break, heart death, loss- focus and misfortunes.
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by browndre: 2:10pm On Nov 01, 2022
Forget about the girl, she has move on.

This is why every guy need a virgin girl, they don't know what 20 seconds sex is.

See the madam wey you carry don sabi 2 hours of hard sex. She felt disappointed because you performed way too low than her expectation.

With time and practise, you will get better in your sex performance.

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Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by budaatum: 2:12pm On Nov 01, 2022
KalioPeter:


So I recently got disvirgined and had sex after 17yrs. I can't have a child just yet.
and I definitely cannot stand the thought of being infected with a disease.
It was stupid of me I know,

I don't think you've been reading posts on NL as you claim. Are you sure it's not the pictures of sex you've been looking at instead? There's lots of them for a young unfocused mind like your's to be swayed by after all.

At least you know it's stupid of you, and that's perhaps a start. There's lots of older people than you constantly begging for money on NL just because they were stupid like you, and instead of focusing on their future by educating their mind they spent it educating their diqs.

Just you know that you reap what you sow, and you should be good.

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Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by KalioPeter: 2:45pm On Nov 01, 2022
budaatum:


I don't think you've been reading posts on NL as you claim. Are you sure it's not the pictures of sex you've been looking at instead? There's lots of them for a young unfocused mind like your's to be swayed by after all.

At least you know it's stupid of you, and that's perhaps a start. There's lots of older people than you constantly begging for money on NL just because they were stupid like you, and instead of focusing on their future by educating their mind they spent it educating their diqs.

Just you know that you reap what you sow, and you should be good.


Thanks.

But you ended up not giving me any advice
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by budaatum: 3:30pm On Nov 01, 2022
KalioPeter:

Thanks.

But you ended up not giving me any advice

I didn't think I needed to, but if you insist, keep your diq in your pants and focus on educating your mind.
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by Juleeee: 6:03pm On Nov 01, 2022
KalioPeter:
So I recently got disvirgined and had sex after 17yrs.


Now the problem is this, I have a girl who for some reasons which I don't know, finds interest in me.
She's the clingy type and always disturbs my peace of mind with calls and texts.


According to you, she is a good person right?
Please be a human and sat her down and be honest with her, if she is matured she will understand and move on with her life.

What you are planning to do her is how heatless and cold-blooded people are made pls don't do that.


She's not a bad person, she's really good to me and treats me fairly even when i don't deserve it.
This girl is really hard working and has a good character.


Though we've only known each other for a month now, we recently had sex.
and it was my first time


I don't know if I really like this girl, or I'm just being with her because of sex, I mean I never approached her or requested for her contact instead reserve was the case.


I don't think I have plans on keeping a girl for now, I just want to focus on myself and my hustle.

She doesn't request nothing from me, and she always buy things for me.
just yesterday we went to an eatery where we both ate, and she paid the bills for everything including a take away.


Yes, your thoughts are correct, she's way older than I am, but even she doesn't know that.

I was terrible during sex, it was my first time and I guess she knew that.
I don't know what the future holds, but she hasn't called or text me since we had sex which was last night.
Is she disappointed? because I didn't even last up to 20 seconds and I spent 30 minutes trying to locate the kpekus.
I'm more worried now because I didn't put on a condom while having sex with her.

I can't have a child just yet.
and I definitely cannot stand the thought of being infected with a disease.
It was stupid of me I know, I've been reading a lot of scary post here on Nairaland, and I pray never to be a victim.
She started everything in the first place, and I feel guilty for not resisting the temptation.

I don't really know what to think, I'm really confused.

I feel like I'm moving in the wrong direction.
I plan to ghost her and tell her never to call me again, but she really doesn't deserve that.
she really is a good girl, or maybe to me
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by AnonDude2004: 8:01pm On Nov 01, 2022
What I took away from this is that you spent 30 minutes locating the vag. grin I know it's definitely an over-exaggeration but when I first read it, I was like, did you not pay attention in Biology classes?
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by Nobody: 8:36pm On Nov 01, 2022
KalioPeter:
So I recently got disvirgined and had sex after 17yrs.


Now the problem is this, I have a girl who for some reasons which I don't know, finds interest in me.
She's the clingy type and always disturbs my peace of mind with calls and texts.


She's not a bad person, she's really good to me and treats me fairly even when i don't deserve it.
This girl is really hard working and has a good character.


Though we've only known each other for a month now, we recently had sex.
and it was my first time


I don't know if I really like this girl, or I'm just being with her because of sex, I mean I never approached her or requested for her contact instead reserve was the case.


I don't think I have plans on keeping a girl for now, I just want to focus on myself and my hustle.

She doesn't request nothing from me, and she always buy things for me.
just yesterday we went to an eatery where we both ate, and she paid the bills for everything including a take away.


Yes, your thoughts are correct, she's way older than I am, but even she doesn't know that.

I was terrible during sex, it was my first time and I guess she knew that.
I don't know what the future holds, but she hasn't called or text me since we had sex which was last night.
Is she disappointed? because I didn't even last up to 20 seconds and I spent 30 minutes trying to locate the kpekus.
I'm more worried now because I didn't put on a condom while having sex with her.

I can't have a child just yet.
and I definitely cannot stand the thought of being infected with a disease.
It was stupid of me I know, I've been reading a lot of scary post here on Nairaland, and I pray never to be a victim.
She started everything in the first place, and I feel guilty for not resisting the temptation.

I don't really know what to think, I'm really confused.

I feel like I'm moving in the wrong direction.
I plan to ghost her and tell her never to call me again, but she really doesn't deserve that.
she really is a good girl, or maybe to me
Children of these days, ehn
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by budaatum: 11:46am On Nov 02, 2022
AnonDude2004:
What I took away from this is that you spent 30 minutes locating the vag. grin I know it's definitely an over-exaggeration but when I first read it, I was like, did you not pay attention in Biology classes?

I doubt he did practicals in biology class.

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Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by Nobody: 11:47am On Nov 02, 2022
KalioPeter:
So I recently got disvirgined and had sex after 17yrs.


Now the problem is this, I have a girl who for some reasons which I don't know, finds interest in me.
She's the clingy type and always disturbs my peace of mind with calls and texts.


She's not a bad person, she's really good to me and treats me fairly even when i don't deserve it.
This girl is really hard working and has a good character.


Though we've only known each other for a month now, we recently had sex.
and it was my first time


I don't know if I really like this girl, or I'm just being with her because of sex, I mean I never approached her or requested for her contact instead reserve was the case.


I don't think I have plans on keeping a girl for now, I just want to focus on myself and my hustle.

She doesn't request nothing from me, and she always buy things for me.
just yesterday we went to an eatery where we both ate, and she paid the bills for everything including a take away.


Yes, your thoughts are correct, she's way older than I am, but even she doesn't know that.

I was terrible during sex, it was my first time and I guess she knew that.
I don't know what the future holds, but she hasn't called or text me since we had sex which was last night.
Is she disappointed? because I didn't even last up to 20 seconds and I spent 30 minutes trying to locate the kpekus.
I'm more worried now because I didn't put on a condom while having sex with her.

I can't have a child just yet.
and I definitely cannot stand the thought of being infected with a disease.
It was stupid of me I know, I've been reading a lot of scary post here on Nairaland, and I pray never to be a victim.
She started everything in the first place, and I feel guilty for not resisting the temptation.

I don't really know what to think, I'm really confused.

I feel like I'm moving in the wrong direction.
I plan to ghost her and tell her never to call me again, but she really doesn't deserve that.
she really is a good girl, or maybe to me

angry
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by Nobody: 11:47am On Nov 02, 2022
KalioPeter:
So I recently got disvirgined and had sex after 17yrs.


Now the problem is this, I have a girl who for some reasons which I don't know, finds interest in me.
She's the clingy type and always disturbs my peace of mind with calls and texts.


She's not a bad person, she's really good to me and treats me fairly even when i don't deserve it.
This girl is really hard working and has a good character.


Though we've only known each other for a month now, we recently had sex.
and it was my first time


I don't know if I really like this girl, or I'm just being with her because of sex, I mean I never approached her or requested for her contact instead reserve was the case.


I don't think I have plans on keeping a girl for now, I just want to focus on myself and my hustle.

She doesn't request nothing from me, and she always buy things for me.
just yesterday we went to an eatery where we both ate, and she paid the bills for everything including a take away.


Yes, your thoughts are correct, she's way older than I am, but even she doesn't know that.

I was terrible during sex, it was my first time and I guess she knew that.
I don't know what the future holds, but she hasn't called or text me since we had sex which was last night.
Is she disappointed? because I didn't even last up to 20 seconds and I spent 30 minutes trying to locate the kpekus.
I'm more worried now because I didn't put on a condom while having sex with her.

I can't have a child just yet.
and I definitely cannot stand the thought of being infected with a disease.
It was stupid of me I know, I've been reading a lot of scary post here on Nairaland, and I pray never to be a victim.
She started everything in the first place, and I feel guilty for not resisting the temptation.

I don't really know what to think, I'm really confused.

I feel like I'm moving in the wrong direction.
I plan to ghost her and tell her never to call me again, but she really doesn't deserve that.
she really is a good girl, or maybe to me


Ok u confuse...wots the question sir? angry
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by akwesenana: 12:21pm On Nov 02, 2022
budaatum:

I doubt he did practicals in biology class.
Sorry ma. Do the locate the vagina in biology practicals? smiley
Re: I'm Confused, Please What's Your Take On This by budaatum: 12:27pm On Nov 02, 2022
akwesenana:

Sorry ma.
Do the locate the vagina in biology practicals? smiley

They don't, is my point. Least not to stick a díq in it.

Most biology practicals have to do with cockroaches. And that's if you're lucky.

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