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Worst Mistake Of My Life by greatcheer(f): 10:22pm On Nov 04, 2022
Mod please delete thread.tx

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by greatcheer(f): 10:25pm On Nov 04, 2022
thanks

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by budaatum: 10:39pm On Nov 04, 2022
greatcheer:


oh Africa where it is believed a woman should take all sorts in the name of marriage

You are blaming Africa for what you have chosen to believe?

Is it Africa that is "sitting at the roadside" suffering today or you?

Perhaps be responsible for your choosing to believe nonsense. It's step one in empowering yourself to get off the roadside where you are sitting suffering!

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Bluezy13(m): 10:45pm On Nov 04, 2022
Hmmm...
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by anthonyuncle(m): 11:02pm On Nov 04, 2022
no be lie
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by frozen70(f): 11:46pm On Nov 04, 2022
greatcheer:
the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family

You have not Said anything

Whats actually the problem

Every one makes mistakes and we either deal with it or come out of that mistake

Your happiness is what matters

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Vision101(m): 2:01am On Nov 05, 2022
Marrying a wicked man and into a wicked family. Wicked + Wicked = double wicked.

All these for one woman. Life no balance at all.
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by ecolime(m): 2:14am On Nov 05, 2022
greatcheer:
look at me sitting at the roadside
should I just end it all
who would have told me marriage to this man would be hell on earth

my 2 kids r sleeping at home

I sacrificed my career relocated to a town I don't I know to be with him still no peace


oh Africa where it is believed a woman should take all sorts in the name of marriage
I won't use nice words for you because your post makes me sick.

You have to stop rambling and go straight to the point so we can advise you.


You have 2 kids and yet thinking of killing yourself. You are a selfish and heartless mother. If you don't love your life, have pity on those 2 innocent souls.

If your husband is a jackass, what stops you from taking break or leaving to rebuild your life?

Consider the effect of your evil thought/decision on the lives of those kids and their future. You should be strong for them.

Don't be a coward.

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Kobojunkie: 4:19am On Nov 05, 2022
greatcheer:
the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family
Are you certain you are yourself not the wicked one in the entire arrangement. I have seen wicked individuals, literally blind to their own obvious faults yet convinced the blame for the plight that befalls them lies with others in the home and around. undecided

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Starz825(m): 4:21am On Nov 05, 2022
budaatum:


You are blaming Africa for what you have chosen to believe?

Is it Africa that is "sitting at the roadside" suffering today or you?

Perhaps be responsible for your choosing to believe nonsense. It's step one in empowering yourself to get off the roadside where you are sitting suffering!
Abeg no kill me with laff abeg cheesy
He say is it Africa that's sitting at the roadside...

Your picture post is cool...I like it... A woman must know her worth...not just a woman everyone!

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by cooooooks(m): 4:24am On Nov 05, 2022
Most people are normal: not overly good, not overly evil.

Getting married to a normal person that loves, or at least tolerates, you, isn't an insurmountable task.
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by budaatum: 6:19am On Nov 05, 2022
Starz825:

Abeg no kill me with laff abeg cheesy
He say is it Africa that's sitting at the roadside...

Your picture post is cool...I like it... A woman must know her worth...not just a woman everyone!

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by JeffreyJunior: 6:32am On Nov 05, 2022
Please ma'am, think of those beautiful little souls you have and the hell they will go through if you harm yourself.

If your marriage is no longing working and you believe it has gone beyond fixing, please separate from your husband immediately.

If he is a good father and has more resources than you, let the kids stay with him while you two work out coparenting plan.

Shalom.

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by ChybuzzDD(m): 6:33am On Nov 05, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Are you certain you are yourself not the wicked one in the entire arrangement. I have seen wicked individuals, literally blind to their own obvious faults yet convinced the blame for the plight that befalls them lies with others in the home and around. undecided

For the first time, you've said something reasonable!

That's quite commendable!

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Francisanointed(m): 6:45am On Nov 05, 2022
[quote author=greatcheer post=118129828]the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family[/quot

True
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:21am On Nov 05, 2022
LoL didn't you choose to marry your husband. Didn't you see the wickedness when you were dating or you were only interested in eating pizza and shawarma. It's your cross carry it. If you also wanna divorce, make sure you have enough money. Taking care of a child in Nigeria is very hard talk less of two and no one will support you from anywhere.

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Rexymania(m): 7:37am On Nov 05, 2022
Why didn't you end the relationship before now. You want people to call you Mrs. Kpele lol. Carry your cross dear. Don't cheat on him make thunder no fire you o. Lol grin
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by nahzyla: 9:03am On Nov 05, 2022
I am very sorry for your pain Op, please disregard the comments of the males in the above posts, you should understand that on nairaland females barely get sympathy for anything bad that happens to them. If a man had started this thread people will rush in here to sympathize with him and insult all women in Nigeria.

What is the problem exactly? Do you care to share? And please don't end it all, try to be there for your children's sake. Please try to be strong for them if you want to stay in the marriage. Have a virtual hug {<(°-°) >} grin

Sorry again.

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by sageb: 9:18am On Nov 05, 2022
budaatum:


You are blaming Africa for what you have chosen to believe?

Is it Africa that is "sitting at the roadside" suffering today or you?

Perhaps be responsible for your choosing to believe nonsense. It's step one in empowering yourself to get off the roadside where you are sitting suffering!

Apt

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Samcent: 9:40am On Nov 05, 2022
Some of the comments so far are unnecessarily harsh.

You don't kick a man when he's down.

Op, I hope help comes your way.

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Mercury12(m): 9:50am On Nov 05, 2022
greatcheer:
the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family
Sorry. The lord is your strength.
Get out with your life before you get daggered in your sleep or poisoned.
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Klass99(f): 10:36am On Nov 05, 2022
sad

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 11:48am On Nov 05, 2022
I am following up with your diary on the diary section. Please try and always upload pic on your diary to enhance it.

cooooooks:
Most people are normal: not overly good, not overly evil.

Getting married to a normal person that love os, or at least tolerates, you, isn't an insurmountable task.
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by ahnie: 11:49am On Nov 05, 2022
[quote author=Francisanointed post=118134034][/quote]
Mind sharing your experiences?
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 11:50am On Nov 05, 2022
greatcheer:
the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family

I no go make that kind mistake oh. I can't just fall in love with any woman. I do family scanning and check up before marriage

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by cooooooks(m): 11:55am On Nov 05, 2022
Not a bad idea. Thanks!
Mibrondo:
I am following up with your diary on the diary section. Please try and always upload pic on your diary to enhance it.

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Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 12:49pm On Nov 05, 2022
greatcheer:
the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family

Hope you are not the type of woman that always seems right all the time!

Hope you are not the type that never apologizes even if the fault is from you!

Hope you had less body count before marrying him because with high body count you will be doing comparison all the time!
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 3:35pm On Nov 05, 2022
You have not said anything, OP
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Blakjewelry(m): 6:13pm On Nov 05, 2022
greatcheer:
the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family
If its something both of you can work out, try and work towards it, but if no change is Fort coming or expected then quit and take care of your self. Nowadays most people don't marry out of love rather just to fulfil all righteousness
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Greatzeus(m): 6:42pm On Nov 05, 2022
greatcheer:
the worst mistake you can make in life is marrying a wicked spouse amd into a wicked family
Not the worst sir.
I agree marrying the wrong partner can impact your life including business and happiness negatively,but it could be remedied through divorce.
The worst mistake a man can make in life is having his child died due to his carelessness. There's no going back from that,no remedy no rewind cry cry
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 05, 2022
Were you forced to marry? Didn't you know it's possible to fertilize your eggs with unknown sperm at the hospital, and you can have you kids without marraige?
Re: Worst Mistake Of My Life by Emmanuel909090: 7:19pm On Nov 05, 2022
Okay

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