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Pls help by Nobody: 7:31pm On Nov 05, 2022
cry Me and Mike have been dating for six months now. For all I know,he is a tailor. We met when my brother's wedding. My brother introduced him as his friend in secondary school. The next day,he texted me and said that he collected my number from my brother.
Since then,we started chatting. He told me that he was a tailor and I visited his shop twice. It was not big but it was okay. The third time we saw each other,he asked me to be his girlfriend. I didn't accept at first because my income was more than his. I work as a software developer. But he begged me a lot and I finally accepted. He was very happy.
I started having feelings for him too and I'm a short while,we were deeply in love.His status didn't matter to me anymore. My parents didn't agree to the relationship. When I threatened to commit suicide,they didn't pressure me to break up with him again.
My friends weren't left out,they insulted me for dating a poor guy. My brother even stopped talking to me. My friends mocked me so much but I couldn't bring myself to break Mike's heart because we love each other. They were probably jealous of me because Mike showed his love in even small things,he would take me out every Friday to a cheap restaurant. We bought each other gifts almost every day. Secondly,Mike is very good looking.
I rented a two-room apartment for him because his former one was too small and I don't like it.
Everything went smoothly. Sometimes,he would travel to his village because his mother had health issues. I always beg him to let me visit his mom but he refused,saying that he was ashamed that I was taking care of him instead of vice versa. I insisted but he said when the time was right.
Last week,he was very uncomfortable. I asked him why and he opened up that he wanted to propose to me but his ring was very cheap. I was very happy. I didn't mind the fact that the ring was just a silver one with no stone. It was simple and beautiful. I collected the ring happily. He embraced me and said we would get married when he has saved enough money.
He made me vow that I would never leave him no matter the situation. I promised and we departed.
I went straight to one of my friends house. I showed her my ring. She laughed scornfully and said that I was a fool for collecting a silver ring. I slapped her without looking back.
I went straight home. Mom was happy for me. I went to bed happily.
The next day,I went to work. I returned back only to find my brother and my fiance,Mike of course smiley.
To my shock,he was dressed richly,he changed totally. He wasn't the same Mike that I knew. In fact,I would have thought that he was another person,but I know him very well. He was wearing gold chain with his name on it. He had a different hairstyle,oh my gosh. What happened? Has God finally buttered his bread?
And why is he discussing with my brother? They never speak a word to each other.
He looked up and smiled.
"Babe." He stood up and walked to me.
He put his hand around my waist.
" Oh my goodness. You changed...what happened?"
"I have something to tell you. I don't know how you'll feel about it." he said softly.
"What do you want to tell me? Wait,tell me why...I don't understand." I said.
"Please don't feel bad...but I want to propose first."
He went on his knees and removed my beloved silver ring.
"Why? You've proposed yesterday..."
"It's complicated....all what you did for me is more than it. So I want to propose again. Will you be my wife?"
"Yes,I'll marry you." I replied.
He put a golden ring with diamond stone. I was shocked. It was even customised,'Mike and Adeola'.It worth millions of naira. Where on earth did he get the money to buy a customized ring?
I was speechless and shocked. He stood up and embraced me. I hugged him tightly.
"Well,ife mi( my love)" that was how he always called me. "I want to tell you now."
"Okay." We sat down together. I didn't say anything to my brother.
Mike looked at Tunde,my brother.
"Um,Ola,your boy...fiance...,take this easily."
"Why are you beating around the bush? Tell me why two of you are so tense? And why do you suddenly become friends today?"
"Ife,please calm down." Mike caressed my hand.
"Ola,Mike is the owner of a oil company both in Nigeria and US."
My eyes narrowed.
"Those times that he went to visit his mom,he actually went for important business trips."
"What?" I screamed and stood up. My bag fell from my hand.
"Baby..." Mike stood and walked to me slowly. I held out my hand.
"Stop....please...is it true?"I asked,breathing heavily.
"Yes,I'm sorry for everything...I was only looking for my true love. All the women I came across only loved my riches not me. So I came up with a plan...I pretended to be poor. I fell in love with you right away."
"You took me for a fool! So you(Tunde) knew this all along? I hate you both. How dare you deceive me for a whole six months!"I shouted.
"Baby..."
"Shut your trash. I'm leaving!" I took my bag and ran out.
For God's sake,my fiancee is a billionaire! Like seriously? Why did he have the guts not to tell me after a whole six months? I cried and started driving round the town.
I'm supposed to be happy. But I'm sad because he lied to and deceived me.
I received calls from him and my mom. I didn't pick it. I switched off my phone and lodged at a hotel. I cried to sleep.
The next morning,I switched on the phone. I received countless calls and messages from my family and especially from that badass that I call my fiancee.
What pained me most was that my brother knew everything and he hid it! Because of it,we stopped talking,so he was definitely part of the plan. I hate them all.
To cut the story short,I returned home after two days of fasting and cursing. I met all of them at home. Mike rushed to me. I slapped him.
Mom yelled.
"Adeola! Where have you been?"
"Its nobody's business. I just came to tell this man to get out of my life. Stop disturbing me with your calls. I hate you. And you" I pointed to my brother.
"Ola,I'm seriously sorry. I'll make up for everything."
"You're a sick slowpoke."
"Please forgive me."
"I'll never do it. The day I forgive you...."
He kissed me. I fell for it. The next thing I heard was clapping. I pushed him away.
" What did you just do?"
"Don't you miss me?"
"It was a mistake!"
I was about to remove the ring,he prostrated,holding my legs. I was embarrassed.
"You promised."
My heart skipped a beat.
"Don't you love me again?"
"I love you but..."
"I love you too. I can't live without you. Please don't leave me."
"Since you left,he hasn't eaten."Mom said.
He hasn't eaten for two days just because of me.He has ulcer. Ewo!!! Was he lying about it?
"I won't lie to you again,I promise. We'll go to iya Bukky's place every Friday as usual...nothing will change."
"Of course,it'll change. From tailor to billionaire! Ha ha."
"Aren't you glad?"
"I'm not happy that you didn't tell since."
"You would have seen me from another perspective,maybe we wouldn't have gone this far..."
"Tell me what do I want your money for? I have my own job..."
"Baby please naw."
I promised to give him an answer the next day.
To worsen the situation,my friends knew everything about it. Jenny is his sister,Tola's mom is Mike's mom's friend.They were all part of the plan. Five friends at a go!

Should I leave Mike or continue the relationship?
Please I need advice.
Re: Pls help by boxer022(m): 8:48pm On Nov 05, 2022
What help do you then need? If what you wrote is real and not African Magic Epic tale, you have a good gut who was looking for something wife that will love him for who he is and not what he is .
Re: Pls help by surzkidoo: 8:52pm On Nov 05, 2022
FhiBi:
cry Me and Mike have been dating for six months now. For all I know,he is a tailor. We met when my brother's wedding. My brother introduced him as his friend in secondary school. The next day,he texted me and said that he collected my number from my brother.
Since then,we started chatting. He told me that he was a tailor and I visited his shop twice. It was not big but it was okay. The third time we saw each other,he asked me to be his girlfriend. I didn't accept at first because my income was more than his. I work as a software developer. But he begged me a lot and I finally accepted. He was very happy.
I started having feelings for him too and I'm a short while,we were deeply in love.His status didn't matter to me anymore. My parents didn't agree to the relationship. When I threatened to commit suicide,they didn't pressure me to break up with him again.
My friends weren't left out,they insulted me for dating a poor guy. My brother even stopped talking to me. My friends mocked me so much but I couldn't bring myself to break Mike's heart because we love each other. They were probably jealous of me because Mike showed his love in even small things,he would take me out every Friday to a cheap restaurant. We bought each other gifts almost every day. Secondly,Mike is very good looking.
I rented a two-room apartment for him because his former one was too small and I don't like it.
Everything went smoothly. Sometimes,he would travel to his village because his mother had health issues. I always beg him to let me visit his mom but he refused,saying that he was ashamed that I was taking care of him instead of vice versa. I insisted but he said when the time was right.
Last week,he was very uncomfortable. I asked him why and he opened up that he wanted to propose to me but his ring was very cheap. I was very happy. I didn't mind the fact that the ring was just a silver one with no stone. It was simple and beautiful. I collected the ring happily. He embraced me and said we would get married when he has saved enough money.
He made me vow that I would never leave him no matter the situation. I promised and we departed.
I went straight to one of my friends house. I showed her my ring. She laughed scornfully and said that I was a fool for collecting a silver ring. I slapped her without looking back.
I went straight home. Mom was happy for me. I went to bed happily.
The next day,I went to work. I returned back only to find my brother and my fiance,Mike of course smiley.
To my shock,he was dressed richly,he changed totally. He wasn't the same Mike that I knew. In fact,I would have thought that he was another person,but I know him very well. He was wearing gold chain with his name on it. He had a different hairstyle,oh my gosh. What happened? Has God finally buttered his bread?
And why is he discussing with my brother? They never speak a word to each other.
He looked up and smiled.
"Babe." He stood up and walked to me.
He put his hand around my waist.
" Oh my goodness. You changed...what happened?"
"I have something to tell you. I don't know how you'll feel about it." he said softly.
"What do you want to tell me? Wait,tell me why...I don't understand." I said.
"Please don't feel bad...but I want to propose first."
He went on his knees and removed my beloved silver ring.
"Why? You've proposed yesterday..."
"It's complicated....all what you did for me is more than it. So I want to propose again. Will you be my wife?"
"Yes,I'll marry you." I replied.
He put a golden ring with diamond stone. I was shocked. It was even customised,'Mike and Adeola'.It worth millions of naira. Where on earth did he get the money to buy a customized ring?
I was speechless and shocked. He stood up and embraced me. I hugged him tightly.
"Well,ife mi( my love)" that was how he always called me. "I want to tell you now."
"Okay." We sat down together. I didn't say anything to my brother.
Mike looked at Tunde,my brother.
"Um,Ola,your boy...fiance...,take this easily."
"Why are you beating around the bush? Tell me why two of you are so tense? And why do you suddenly become friends today?"
"Ife,please calm down." Mike caressed my hand.
"Ola,Mike is the owner of a oil company both in Nigeria and US."
My eyes narrowed.
"Those times that he went to visit his mom,he actually went for important business trips."
"What?" I screamed and stood up. My bag fell from my hand.
"Baby..." Mike stood and walked to me slowly. I held out my hand.
"Stop....please...is it true?"I asked,breathing heavily.
"Yes,I'm sorry for everything...I was only looking for my true love. All the women I came across only loved my riches not me. So I came up with a plan...I pretended to be poor...
To be continued


LOL, I almost fell for it

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Re: Pls help by chulo132(m): 3:16am On Nov 06, 2022
What sort of Fuckery is this?
Re: Pls help by jey4all(m): 7:47am On Nov 06, 2022
chulo132:
What sort of Fuckery is this?
�. Them go just come online come write mumu story they find advice
Re: Pls help by jey4all(m): 7:47am On Nov 06, 2022
Shey you dey whine me ni.

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