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Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 7:37am On Aug 23, 2011
Hello house, i need very mature opinions and comments on this issue.
The concept of falling or growing in love seems to be too complex. My first question is; is love just a  feeling? If yes, what is the feeling like?
We're all seeking that special person who is right for us,but if you've been through enough relationships,you begin to suspect that there's no right person. Now,in the absence of the right person,is it safe to say that we've fallen in love with the wrong person? Are there any consequences? Is it really possible to fall in love with the wrong person?  Should we really love someone with a reason? Will loving this wrong person cover up  their imperfections?
Nb; wrong person in the context of this thread means someone who does not really posses  the  qualities you desire in a partner.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Mynd44: 8:04am On Aug 23, 2011
Yes you can love the wrong peraon
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by MMM2(m): 8:20am On Aug 23, 2011
the wrong person is some1 dat dont nyash u undecided
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by claremont(m): 8:20am On Aug 23, 2011
Tjluv:

Hello house, i need very mature opinions and comments on this issue.
The concept of falling or growing in love seems to be too complex. My first question is; is love just a  feeling? If yes, what is the feeling like?
We're all seeking that special person who is right for us,but if you've been through enough relationships,you begin to suspect that there's no right person. Now,in the absence of the right person,is it safe to say that we've fallen in love with the wrong person? Are there any consequences? Is it really possible to fall in love with the wrong person?  Should we really love someone with a reason? Will loving this wrong person cover up  their imperfections?
Nb; wrong person in the context of this thread means someone who does not really posses  the  qualities you desire in a partner.
1. Is love just a  feeling? No, it has never been proven that "love" is a feeling.

2. If yes, what is the feeling like? My above answered question refers.

3. Now,in the absence of the right person,is it safe to say that we've fallen in love with the wrong person?  The concept of "right person" or "wrong person" relationship-wise is totally erroneous and ludicrous, there is NO right or wrong person. Every relationship is like a lottery, you can make a strategic plan for you and your partner(s), but there is no assurance that the plan will ever work as initially planned. If it does work, then fine; if it doesn't, take a deep breath and move the hell on!
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by fjlovelk(m): 9:01am On Aug 23, 2011
[b][/b]What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.
Different people have different iponions abt love,it can be told by us only can be felt.understood?sometimes love is not everyting ,remember ,duty ,love someone and u have babies,try to be responsible for family even if u dont love each other any more. may god be with u.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 9:06am On Aug 23, 2011
Mynd_44:

Yes you can love the wrong peraon
Good enough,but what are the consequences
M M M:

the wrong person is some1 dat dont nyash u undecided
Yeah,right?
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 9:26am On Aug 23, 2011
claremont:

1. Is love just a  feeling? No, it has never been proven that "love" is a feeling.

2. If yes, what is the feeling like? My above answered question refers.

3. Now,in the absence of the right person,is it safe to say that we've fallen in love with the wrong person?  The concept of "right person" or "wrong person" relationship-wise is totally erroneous and ludicrous, there is NO right or wrong person. Every relationship is like a lottery, you can make a strategic plan for you and your partner(s), but there is no assurance that the plan will ever work as initially planned. If it does work, then fine; if it doesn't, take a deep breath and move the hell on!


Claremont, Love is not a feeling,fine. What then is love? And your answer to question 3, well,well, i agree with what you said but try to understand what i mean by the "wrong person" in the context of this thread.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 9:32am On Aug 23, 2011
@ fjlovelk, IMO, LOVE is one complex theory.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by MMM2(m): 9:49am On Aug 23, 2011
Tjluv:

Yeah,right?

can i luv u like milk biscuit?
undecided
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Vicjustice: 9:51am On Aug 23, 2011
Let's not be selfish in our judgements on this matter; you need to realise that sometimes, you happen to be the wrong person for your partner, it's not always your partner that is the wrong person for you.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by fjlovelk(m): 9:57am On Aug 23, 2011
no right or wrong person to tell for us ,There's only one thing we should know that is whether the person cherishes his or her parnter or not?and whether u r good to ur parnter,if so,u r the rignt one,if not,wrong one.so ,there's no right or wrong to tell ,only one thing ,do u want to the right or not?
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 10:36am On Aug 23, 2011
M M M:

can i luv u like milk biscuit?
undecided
No sir, thank you.
Vicjustice:

  Let's not be selfish in our judgements on this matter; you need to realise that sometimes, you happen to be the wrong person for your partner, it's not always your partner that is the wrong person for you.
Exactly, but this thread is not about any personal experience,just a general question.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by SIlknSteel(f): 10:49am On Aug 23, 2011
@Poster: There is no wrong or right person in love. U can only love the wrong ones right n that makes them right. And don't forget, what you may term right might be so wrong to some else! As Vicjustice said, we sometimes are not the right persons for our partners so the earlier we learnt to look beyond our nose, we just might notice how wrong we are for him or her and how rightly they love U in return that makes us feel so right
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 11:34am On Aug 23, 2011
SIlknSteel:

@Poster: U can only love the wrong ones right n that makes them right.
[b][/b] Now,that makes so much sense.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by MMM2(m): 12:14pm On Aug 23, 2011
Tjluv:

No sir, thank you.

then i have 2 nyash u sharp sharp angry
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by manakeagie: 12:43pm On Aug 23, 2011
TJLUV my dear love is a strong feeling of attachment to someone if it is romantic love , yes some times you can love the wrong person out of panic and love for material things or love for beauty you may miss out the whole concept and end up with the wrong person ,
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Mynd44: 12:54pm On Aug 23, 2011
Tjluv:

Good enough,but what are the consequences Yeah,right?
HEARTACHE!!!!!
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 1:20pm On Aug 23, 2011
manakeagie:

TJLUV my dear love is a strong feeling of attachment to someone if it is romantic love , yes some times you can love the wrong person out of panic and love for material things or love for beauty you may miss out the whole concept and end up with the wrong person ,
If Love is a strong feeling of attachment for someone, how is it then possible to love out of panic,beauty and material things? Try to understand what i mean by the wrong person.
Re: Loving The Wrong Person by Tjluv: 1:21pm On Aug 23, 2011
I appreciate all the comments so far,tnx for your time. Love doctors in the house,your comments are welcomed.

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