So this is also for the young ladies. You've heard most men say the appeal of a woman is her youth. Although this is not entirely true, it has some truth in it.

Now that you're young, as long as you're well groomed which involves being clean, dressing with the right colors, changing your hairstyle every month, wearing good shoes, and staying within 60kg of weight (being slim or having the right fat in the right places), you'll attract good looking, gainfully employed men.

Sometimes, you might attract generous men, sometimes stingy (girl's refer to men as stingy if they don't give them big transport money when going home or buy clothes for them), please accept them if they propose. That rich or gainfully employed man you think is stingy is just making investments for the future. Years down the line when you're approaching 30s or more than 30 already and still single, you'll realise that you're now the one spending money on chewing gum boys who are still struggling with life. Then you'll begin to blame yourself why you didn't accept that man with a nice apartment, great job, good car, investments, whose only crime was being stingy.

Sometimes, you want a man to spend lavishly on you so you can pepper your girl friends. Not every lady will have that luck of ending up with a generous man. But it is better to be in a stingy man's house where he pays for the rent, gives you feeding money for the house and occasionally spoils you. If you get to 30 without a man, what you might meet are men who will be screaming 50 50 or hoping to get pocket money from you. You might even have to start using your money to lure them to marry you, something you could have avoided if you accepted that 'stingy' man in your youth.


Use your youth wisely!

jeromestarks:
To be honest, most of these girls in the late 20s have problem finding a man.
If you approach any girl in that age bracket now, she will still form hard-to get. Which is why they end up frustrated.

Don't even get me started on those ones at 30 and above.
They're are silently prayiyfor a man to love them forgetting that they have pushed him away when they were in their early 18 and 20s.

Pvssy go rotten for some girls body, ah swear.

JoeRusson:



They form hard to get when they meet men that don't match their perceive standards, not because they don't want to get married. But what they don't know is the men they crave for are only attracted to younglings. They only want to keep them as friends, sex touchup and nothing more

jeromestarks:


This is why the mess up and end up with High BP, vaginal infection, depression etc when the have lost in the hands of men they chose over good men.

I like the way God designed this life: at young age (16 - 23) a girl will be feeling top of the world and enjoying the attention pushing men away and playing with their love. At 26-29 , she will be begging for attention, begging for true love, begging for a man to approach her because at this age, she's already broken and she's less a woman. Girls at this age are usually having one health challenge or the other. At 30 -40 , she will sink into depression and development all manner of diseases.
Everyone pays eventually