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Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by NigerianAngelo(m): 12:58pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
miniziter: OP, Your younger sister musn't stay with you. At least you stated there is more family around, so that's ok, she can stay there. It seems sometimes the woman wants peace where's there is no foreign space and (after many years) she can breathe air at will, and that's ok. Try and give your wife peace from the family for a year or two. YOU MUSN'T LOVE ANYBODY IN THIS WORLD ABOVE YOUR WIFE. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Enemyofpeace: 12:59pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Op talk now, I'm not understanding you yet. Good English is very important there is nothing like "How was your day" is either you say "How was your day" or rather say "How was your day" The "How" is supposed to come before "Was" then followed by "Day" so stop saying "How was your day" and start saying "How was your day"... |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by gladdensir(m): 1:00pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
This story is similar to: 'a town hall different from bala blu bluu bulaba' ~ Lord Tinubu 2022 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by tollyboy5(m): 1:01pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
miniziter:Where una dey pick all this kind of ladies? You must be a big SIMP that begged her to marry you. Wtf! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Ara21(f): 1:01pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
OP never see anything he wan go court. Good luck. Things you will settle within the family you want to take to court. |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by SeriouslySense(m): 1:02pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Eduboy1990: |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Kasdat5(m): 1:02pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
I read it once ,& understood 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by oneMalik: 1:02pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
it's your choice cos no one on earth would have been able to convince you b4 the marriage . You ought to know the boundary b4 paying for a land and if you neglect that , you must prepare to live with the consequences . So follow your heart and stand by your decision. Remember if you die she will live and move on . |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by gladdensir(m): 1:06pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Enemyofpeace: I swear I go kidnap you carry you go sambisa forest
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Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by zedegit: 1:07pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Omotosho1090905: He wants to sue his wife for false accusation: wife claimed his family poisoned her during pregnancy. To me it's not worth it unless he wants divorce 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Op i don't get you..ooo pls can you arrange those words again |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by 2pretty: 1:09pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Op read what you posted first and ask yourself if you understand it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Enemyofpeace: 1:11pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
gladdensir:just make sure I go with Dominique |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 1:13pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Lols ....This is exactly how marriage issues come, you can't know where to start helping , so just leave it for them to handle and settle in peace..... O.P....First of all,..do all you can to see if your younger sister can be a visitor to your house and the same shall be for your wife's siblings.. So you can have time to study your wife and know if her excuses ar manipulative or not... But if you can't at the moment, just relax your muscles for now, play a diplomatic kind of life to them,....make both parties weak before you... Like whenever the expect you to be violent, introduce peace.... Just play along until you settle everyone....then man up and treat all issues accordingly.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by achimendy(m): 1:15pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
miniziter: If You want to sue your wife because she said all that, then you must be a mad man. You better fix your household with wisdom. Staying with some women sometimes can be problematic. Use your head brother. |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by penearth(m): 1:16pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Don't try it. She is not for real. Find a way to ameliorate ur family issues. Married women can b stubborn to it's married home. So calm d issue with ur community elders |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Awesomeking: 1:17pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Every ship needs a captain..be the captain of your ship. In order to properly be the head of your family,you need to approach matters with logic at the forefront and not emotions. Your wife is clearly a troublemaker and her issue with your younger sister staying is out of projected mindset,shes scared of your sister helping you reason whenever she manipulates you,because thats exactly what she would do for her own brother.. Fear that your wife,she wants to bring disunity among you and your family. You seem like the gentle type,dont let her take you for granted. Have a firm stand on any issue in the family and any nonsense accusation from your wife should be countered with a stern warning..dont let her emotional blackmail or anything manipulative to trigger your actions or inactions. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by shineeye1: 1:17pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
miniziter: Believe you me, if the Good Lord loves you and gives you a wife, (not one of those cohabiting harlots) you should count yourself fortunate in life and be PREPARED to make lemonade from any sour lemon life and the wife may throw at you! The greatest thing in a man's life is a FAITHFUL wife. If you cannot make a success of your life with a faithful wife that God graciously granted you, you should bury your head in shame! Quit the stupidity of going to sue your wife or summon her to family meet. You and your wife are ONE: the later you know this , the worse it is for you... |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Iamthoney(m): 1:17pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Op Peace is not an option and Vawulence is key and supreme. So yes sue her, let her prove it in court that your family sent your sister to poison her food |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Toks2008(m): 1:17pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
miniziter: What is this? Classic crinkum crankum You ended up confusing us or maybe it's just me not comprehending... |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 1:18pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
zedegit: How I wish am one of the lawyers that will take the case, oooops December awoof money has come be that.... The both lawyers will gather together and make the magistrate adjourn the case with flimsy excuses until the OP and the wife wakes up..... Lawyers know serious cases than the accused or defendant ....lols |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by gladdensir(m): 1:19pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Enemyofpeace: Who be Dominique? |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by funkmrflexx(m): 1:19pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
DaddyCK: What happened to lightskinned girls? Lol |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by SeriouslySense(m): 1:20pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Real trouble manufacturing kind of Wife Awesomeking: |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by linearity: 1:22pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
miniziter: That would have come under slander. But, in Court you have to prove that she is lying. Even if your family is not poisoning her food, it is not possible to prove that she is lying. How you even begin to prove such a thing in court? It is impossible to prove a “negative”, which is what you will be up against; your words will simply cancel yours in court and it will all be a wasted effort. |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Enemyofpeace: 1:23pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
gladdensir:a moderator that I love with the whole of me |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by Tobloc(m): 1:28pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Kindly exercise patience and allow yourself to cool off. You'll be fine. |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by BRATISLAVA: 1:30pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
virginprincess: He's desperately looking for a thread through which people will insult her for him, and bash women. Everyday, another saint has yet another woman problem. Old, washed out template. But watch how many schlong owners will pop in to post garbage commentary. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by gladdensir(m): 1:31pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Enemyofpeace: Don't worry before Friday we go come move two of una |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by GboyegaD(m): 1:37pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Oga, if you guys didn't discuss the extent to which in-laws will stay in your house, your best bet is to find ways of talking to her to please sheathed her sword and allow the young lady live in peace. Be sincere you guys never had the discussion and at this time you feel you need give back to your parents by accommodating your sister. If she accepts, fine; otherwise, think through it and take the action you think is best for your home and sanity. I would say ask yourself critical questions such as if it is worth breaking your home because of an outsider. 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by HaneefahRN(f): 1:38pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Suing her for what? You are confused oga. She might just not like the idea of having family living with you guys especially teenagers who are in revolting stage and our tradition of making women less than the children from the husband's side of the family. She will have a hard time coping with your teenage sister. Your younger sister should go and meet her parents 1 Like |
Re: Is It A Wise Idea To Sue My Wife? by frozen70(f): 1:41pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
miniziter: There is no smoke without fire If you think you guys can't really cope Pls separate for now and all this accuse and allegations will be sorted out amicably At times when there are problems on the marriage, the couple endures with the hope that it gets better But in your own case, a threat to life is involve You have to invite her parents together with your parents and get this sorted out If in the course of both family's settling this issue and it's not helpful, let them go back with their daughter By then you will tell if the marriage worths it or not She too will now understand if she is will to love your family and live peacefully If at the end you guys have positive minds, you get back together and avoid all this drama |
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