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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by SlurUsername1: 5:10pm On Dec 25, 2022
OP please send me her number.
These are the kind of women I need in my life right now.

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by bikefab(m): 5:10pm On Dec 25, 2022
Send me her picture and her contact, she sounds like a serious minded businesswoman. That I like.

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by chiefolododo(m): 5:10pm On Dec 25, 2022
Nazgul:
When a woman starts pressurizing you for marriage and even offers to foot half of the bills, run for your life. Cos there's something she isn't telling you about herself which you'll end up discovering too late.

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by InvertedHammer: 5:10pm On Dec 25, 2022
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The only reason you are thinking about it is because deep inside you know that that's one hell of a good offer.

Let her provide the evidence of the 50% first, you only die once. Those who provided 100% for their marriages didn't go home with any guarantees either. If the marriage doesn't work, your loss is minimal. Now compare that to those who spent 100% and ended up losing their children and half of their networth.

If she is ok, do it grin If a man with a better offer shows up anytime, your current gf will dump you in a heartbeat. cool
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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by DAramis: 5:10pm On Dec 25, 2022
Samakus:


Funny thing is that she's within 25-27yrs. So why the desperation?
The truth is that, you should work towards marrying someone who loves you more. Check out Yul Edochie current crises. If not that the woman loves him more, something worse would have happened.

At her age, it is normal for her to be desperate. Any girl above 24 years is going to behave the same. Once she reaches 30 and above, her options reduces, which makes her to feel regrets.

My advice is if your current girlfriend is same age range with her, but not ready for you, then definitely you are not her first option(someone else is).

If you like her, give her a chance and get to know her better. Some men (which you happens to fall into) would never see a green light from a woman even if she is giving it with a headlamp of 911 truck

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Neimar: 5:11pm On Dec 25, 2022
She nr get yansh na why you reject am grin

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by israelmao(m): 5:11pm On Dec 25, 2022
I doubt whether she is that desperate because by your story you said you people have been friends for sometimes which means she must have understudied your financial status and understood that you may need some support in order to bear the cost of bridal items and others for the wedding even though she might be seen as being desperate with her offer.The question is,do you love her?And from your observations,does she fear God?
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by idomytin(m): 5:11pm On Dec 25, 2022
Just run.. I mean run. Don't try to kiss. Run and run,and keep running.
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by BlueAir: 5:12pm On Dec 25, 2022
The fact she's also willing to snatch him from a woman she knows of her existence and still brags about been better than her shows she's a cruel and vile person. Heartless too. If that op should let her use him,he's fucckkeed
Nazgul:
When a woman starts pressurizing you for marriage and even offers to foot half of the bills, run for your life. Cos there's something she isn't telling you about herself which you'll end up discovering too late.
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by John3v19: 5:12pm On Dec 25, 2022
check to see if she is pregnant

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by olawaley12(m): 5:12pm On Dec 25, 2022
We all tend to love someone we convince to love us for what we are and turn blind eyes to someone who loves us naturally with no convincing and all. That's the normal relationship culture please follow the trend and stick to your girl

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Giftexx: 5:12pm On Dec 25, 2022
Go for it if u like her.
That's the ideal picture of a help mate.

For whatever reason, she will never think of divorce

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by MDelgado(m): 5:15pm On Dec 25, 2022
Generalwoodz:
She said that on Christmas day? What was her facial expressions, countenance when she said that? Was it flat out or laced with unspoken humor?

That statements from her was borne out of ridiculous idea of a cheap wedding.

Perhaps in the cold quarters of her mind she budgeted 500k and ever ready to spilt into half because she got 300k max in her account.

Subscribe to her yearnings and get a professional to draw up total cost of High Nigerian wedding...

Never go below 10M.

Hypothetically, she'd run away like bats from hell. However, if she agrees to fund half of that price, which is 5M, then she's the prize.

you remind me of Charles Vane..







Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by SlurUsername1: 5:17pm On Dec 25, 2022
InvertedHammer:
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The only reason you are thinking about it is because deep inside you know that that's one hell of a good offer.

Let her provide the evidence of the 50% first, you only die once. Those who provided 100% for their marriages didn't go home with any guarantees either. If the marriage doesn't work, your loss is minimal. Now compare that to those who spent 100% and ended up losing their children and half of their networth.

If she is ok, do it grin If a man with a better offer shows up anytime, your current gf will dump you in a heartbeat. cool
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Chaiii, see someone with sense.
The mumu is in love with a gal who's in love with him only because she's financially dependent on him as she's still a student.
Let her graduate first, have a good job and her opportunities begin to widen and his begin to nosedive, OP mind go dey 2 seconds

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Offpointng: 5:18pm On Dec 25, 2022
Nicepoker:
Tell her to credit your account with part of the marriage funds first.

And Run away with the real GF

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by FireUpNow(m): 5:18pm On Dec 25, 2022
Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way
You are being led into a big trap. If I were you I will never marry her. Women like this are very deadly and wicked. After marriage and after having kids, she will insult you and your entire family and make life miserable for you. She might be carrying another man's baby inside of her and wants to deceive to be the father of that child. This is no love but a big trap.
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by abobote: 5:18pm On Dec 25, 2022
I can't marry any girl that has money

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by emonkey(m): 5:19pm On Dec 25, 2022
That will be one of the stories she will tell you in future. How you couldn't even afford to pay for the wedding, and she was the one that bailed you out of your shame. After Devil fear woman grin

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Olaolex: 5:19pm On Dec 25, 2022
Generalwoodz:
She said that on Christmas day? What was her facial expressions, countenance when she said that? Was it flat out or laced with unspoken humor?

That statements from her was borne out of ridiculous idea of a cheap wedding.

Perhaps in the cold quarters of her mind she budgeted 500k and ever ready to spilt into half because she got 300k max in her account.

Subscribe to her yearnings and get a professional to draw up total cost of High Nigerian wedding...

Never go below 10M.

Hypothetically, she'd run away like bats from hell. However, if she agrees to fund half of that price, which is 5M, then she's the prize.







Hahaha....
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Alexbio: 5:20pm On Dec 25, 2022
Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way


Sometimes desperation coming from woman like this may be a danger in disguise or blessings. Essentially, one thing I must tell you is that, you should give her a chance to prove her love to you while you run a thorough background check on her.
Don't be too rigid or pathetic or emotional about relationship, it very disastrous! this is while a lot of guys ends up miserable or cold-blooded marriages. Having a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage because a failed marriage may leave you a lifetime injury.

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by alizma: 5:20pm On Dec 25, 2022
Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way
Well because you say insults are welcome, I will assume that you really need the advice. On that note, this is my advice. Now that you have to see her differently from the person you used to know, you need time to study her from that perspective. While doing that, don't give her the impression that you are giving her a yes/no for an answer. This is the time to bring fact to the table, ask yourself what you want, then what do you have currently and which one can you let go, your response should be base on facts. Success

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Offpointng: 5:21pm On Dec 25, 2022
Giftexx:
Go for it if u like her. That's the ideal picture of a help mate.
For whatever reason, she will never think of divorce
The fact she's also willing to snatch him from a woman she knows of her existence and still brags about been better than her shows she's a cruel and vile person. Heartless too. If that op should let her use him,he's fucckkeed
Cc: Blueair

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Way4orward: 5:23pm On Dec 25, 2022
No try am o
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by VinnyBaba: 5:23pm On Dec 25, 2022
abobote:
I can't marry any girl that has money

But Boss, u don tell us B4 say you are a Married Man with kids nah.. sad

It's Like u go sabi enjoying Young Babes o.. cool
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:24pm On Dec 25, 2022
If you like listen to negative people and their negative opinions. Who told you good things do not exists? So you haven't seen ladies who help their men foot the weddings bills? I'm surprised at the comments on this thread. She loves you, and probably cannot hide her feelings anymore, or you think there are no other men she can approach? She chose you. However, if you don't feel the same way, just send her a message that you already have a woman in your life, but if I were you, I would think about it very well, weigh the options before taking a decision.

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by Giftexx: 5:24pm On Dec 25, 2022
Offpointng:


The fact she's also willing to snatch him from a woman she
knows of her existence and still brags about been better
than her shows she's a cruel and vile person. Heartless too.
If that op should let her use him,he's fucckkeed

Cc: Blueair
let the main chick fight for his love...just like a nigga will fight to retain a lady whose ex returned from yankee

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by olawaley12(m): 5:24pm On Dec 25, 2022
Let me share this experience with you op. Though i'm single, i met a lady at a contemporary organisation of where i work. So always meet during our organisation operation and one of the times we've been meeting she walked up to me herself that she liked me and getting to know her, she feels we can hangout few times and take the whole thing somewhere. I had to put out a watch out for myself because my heart is too precious lol. She had 3kids though she told me, it wasn't bad in the first but she's too possessive getting to know her more. That's how i put it all to rest, she's not desperate the way i see it. She's just a dragon egg that could hatch up troubles if you don't put it all to rest no think am

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by RichAbujaGuy: 5:24pm On Dec 25, 2022
Nice write-up @Samakus ... Respect for having a Church Girl profess her love for you after service and try to shoot her shot. That took a tremendous amount of courage from her cheesy
More respect for having a religious babe with money that wants to invest into a 50-50 holy partnership rather than the take. The materialistic variety dominate the scene today.
More respect for having a main chick. You should write a book for our suffering NL guys w/o such. grin

No advise, except to pray on it very hard. Life is coming at you at the moment and divine guidance may give you the answer.

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by 2elliot: 5:24pm On Dec 25, 2022
imadiyi:

You are lovely, in truth, my dear. Have a blissful remainder of the Xmas periods, while it last,,ok? You are more than a darling!
No let me knock your bighead. Na here una wan come play love?!

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Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by diogo23: 5:24pm On Dec 25, 2022
Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way
Never you accept desperate woman offer
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by olaodun: 5:25pm On Dec 25, 2022
Be careful she is desperate and you should be careful because marriage is between life and death
Re: Marry Me! I Will Bring Half Of The Cost Of The Wedding, She Just Told Me by DomainPros: 5:25pm On Dec 25, 2022
Nazgul:
When a woman starts pressurizing you for marriage and even offers to foot half of the bills, run for your life. Cos there's something she isn't telling you about herself which you'll end up discovering too late.
God bless you... aaah... what manner of desperation is this na

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