Adlac:
This is Islam, however we would like to know the ruling of such in christiandom.

The law is simple... no consent is required for a man and woman to join in marriage- Genesis 2 vs 24

Kobojunkie:
For the sake sake what posterity? Please define it!

Does getting the father's consent in some way guarantee a good marriage? What real value does any of that have beyond the imagined??

You're not a good person. You should promote peace in the new family you intend to marry from rather than promoting hatred. How old are you?

The groom knows the bride is coming in from a position of weakness and division and will exploit this in the future to create a home of inequality in many ways. The chances of a successful married life are essentially halved.

No matter the relationship your parents have with you or themselves it should not define the beginning of yours or certain tendencies will spill over and continue in your generation. It is better to settle those divisive issues even if for the moment at the transition between your former family and the one you intend to birth.

ijustdey:
There was a mild drama in Kano after a resident of the state, one Alhaji Muhammad, decided to take his ex-wife to court for allegedly…





https://dailytrust.com/drama-as-ex-wife-married-off-daughter-without-fathers-consent/

The father wants to sue to get the marriage dissolved. So what about all the knacking that would have been done or the marathon knacking of the poor innocent girl that is about to happen?
Rubbish!

Sermwell:
You're not a good person. You should promote peace in the new family you intend to marry from rather than promoting hatred. How old are you?

So, you promote peace by getting consent? And in a case where even after obtaining consent, trouble continues from that side of the family --- demands from you or your wife-‐-- , would you take that to mean you didn't promote this peace enough with them before marrying their daughter?

I can't shout but there's no marriage what so ever

Reference:
1. The groom knows the bride is coming in from a position of weakness and division and will exploit this in the future to create a home of inequality in many ways. The chances of a successful married life are essentially halved.

2. No matter the relationship your parents have with you or themselves it should not define the beginning of yours or certain tendencies will spill over and continue in your generation. It is better to settle those divisive issues even if for the moment at the transition between your former family and the one you intend to birth.

1. Position of weakness? So all the women who received consent from their fathers yet ended up in miserable marriages, some of them eventually abandoned, you mean to tell us theirs represents a position of strength in marriage?

So, all the women whose fathers gave them away only to find themselves abandoned of divorced, there changes of success in marriage was high because their fathers were present?

2. So, if the parent is not even involved enough in one's life, meaning a relationship between parent and child is almost non-existent, you say it shouldn't matter? Do you invite people you don't even have a genuine relationship with to your dear occasions?

heip me ask them o

MadamExcellency:


Does this injunction include kidnapped Christian girls and ladies?

Kidnapping is criminal under the Shari'a law, to start with. So what are you on about again?

Sermwell:

I've always known that you're a kid on this forum. So you'll go ahead to marry a woman given to you by another woman? Chai

May God deliver us from dumb children

So you'll marry a lady given to you by a man?

If you can't prove anything stop bringing conspiracies.
Red-pill miss road

MadamExcellency:
Do you mean the sperm donor?

Where was the father all these while when the daughter needed him the most?

You mean dey should separate after He has made love to her or even got her pregnant. dammit

MadamExcellency:
Do you mean the sperm donor?

Where was the father all these while when the daughter needed him the most?

How did u know he abandoned his daughter? Aside that, only a foolish man will marry a lady without asking questions about her father.

PDJT:


-Egg donor, it seems you're the third-party in that man's marriage.

-Anyway, I pity a man who marries a woman "given" to him by another woman.

Gbam! Infact she can do same thing. How can I marry a lady without asking questions about the whereabouts of her father as long as he is still alive except they used a fake father's representative..

MadamExcellency:


Does this injunction include kidnapped Christian girls and ladies?

Good question

Kingcalls:
The man that married her is a fool ....I pity him

Infact foolish is an understatement. The man has been brainwashed by the mother of the girl. In long run , his wife will do same to him because that's what her mom taught her.

Innobee99:
Father's should not only be available during marriages alone. Give ur children the best and they'll in turn acknowledge u when the time comes

Mothers should not deny the children's father access to them because of separation. Women are fond of using children as a tool to get back to the man by denying him to his children.

Kobojunkie:
The law is simple... no consent is required for a man and woman to join in marriage- Genesis 2 vs 24

That's not the case. A visit to the bride parents mean what ?

ibkayee:
Where has the father been since? If he wanted to be involved in his daughter’s life he would’ve had the utmost privilege to do so

What if they sidelined him? U think it is every man that put up a foolish fight?

Anatakuebira:
She done do iron lady destroy her daughter life now. Some men get ego naturally and don't like it when you call their Bluff.

Exactly and the mumu daughter is following suite. The circle continues.

But this is not left for you because your opinion doesn't mattery. Traditional, both Igbo, Hausa and Yoruba you can't marry a girl without his farthers consent as long as he is alive.. Even in the bible you can't do that and i do believe is so in Koran

Antoeni:
E dey Happen for Papa Wey no dey responsible

E don happen to son- in law wey no get sense

Kobojunkie:
Why? Just because he was a sperm donor and confers on him rights over the girl?

That's what you will also teach your daughter. I pity your lineage.

MadamExcellency:


Does this injunction include kidnapped Christian girls and ladies?

Don't mind those double standards

Islam is one of the major problem we have in this world....

LilMissFavvy:
This is the case of a very evill father, who wanted to use his daughter as bait to frustrate his ex wife. Most of these bad old traditions need to be annulled, such that couples can be joined in marriage if the father is proving stubborn. Nothing wrong if mother's give out their children in marriage. His ex wife did the right thing.

Kai .. I pity your daughters.

Was he involved in her life and upkeep our guess is 'No'

MadamExcellency:
Do you mean the sperm donor?

Where was the father all these while when the daughter needed him the most?

UR MUMU NO TOO MUCH ?
DID THEY MENTION THAT THE MAN WASN'T CHECKING ON HIS DAUGHTER ?

WOMEN AND STUPIDITY IS BECOMING MORE OF 5 & 6

Kobojunkie:
Define father.

Define a mother who married off her daughter without father's consent

tollyboy5:


lol explain boss. there are some mummies i respect so much and would follow their advice on marriage even if they introduce me to a decent lady.

THATS A TRAP

Na dem be this, they misbehave and get kick out, to revenge they do the unthinkable raising jezabel for this generation, i pity men who marry from broken home without proper consultation.

MadamExcellency:
Do you mean the sperm donor?

Where was the father all these while when the daughter needed him the most?

mensos544:
Hausa people are never serious in life. How can u as a husband marry a girl without asking who's d father of the girl ? Abi dem too don turn people of fatherless or singer mother people?

It is because the girl's mother gave him so much confidence. At the end , he will be treated same way by his wife.