grandlexuz:


Impressive and intelligent write up. When are we getting married?

Mindlog:


Who supplies your weed?

Magnoliaa:
And you're here advising men to marry when they are financially ready and are completely capable of managing a family, but when women say EXACTLY the same thing, you will demonise them and call them hypergamists and golddiggers and whatnots that our mothers did not marry our fathers rich or financially comfortable.

Are you now encouraging an entitlement mentality in women?

Abi which one?

Is it a sin to want a man who is stable and can take care of marital responsibilities as a woman? Is it manipulative or natural for a woman to say she wants a PROVIDING man?

Note that; you gave just the SAME advice up there in case you think to call me out on what is not.

Kwinesther:
No mind am. The guy mumu no be small, confusing himself and his gullible followers upandan.

Gadafii:
a man should be financially bouyant and ready if he ever wishes to marry, and shouldn’t expect his wife to contribute to the upkeep of the house, if she does it fine, if not he shouldn’t see it as anything, however such wife owes him commitment, care, support, unwavering loyalty, etc this is for any man that wants to marry

Otherwise men don’t need women to feel fulfilled, you can cry all you want

Gadafii:
a man should be financially bouyant and ready if he ever wishes to marry, and shouldn’t expect his wife to contribute to the upkeep of the house, if she does it fine, if not he shouldn’t see it as anything, however such wife owes him commitment, care, support, unwavering loyalty, etc this is for any man that wants to marry.

Stargurl20:
It's those females who are commenting to give relevance to you and your post I blame. Wey them suppose leave you and fellow men to dey bask in your ignorance and inflated sense of self. Mitchewww oshi o da ni le pako.

Gadafii:
Yes you heard me right, you don’t need to or have to get married before you feel fulfilled as an accomplished man, but women must marry to crown all their lifetime desires.

An unmarried successful woman does not completely feel successful if she die a have a man to call husband, or even a toy boy to make her feel complete, marriage is the biggest achievements to women anywhere in the world, forget about what these new generation of “woke women” are saying

Linda I keji is good example, she was so hostile to men telling women stay away from men, low key she was getting dicked, she eventually stole a sperm to birth a son

As a man, work on your self, especially your mind and body, get your finances right and solid, make connections, travel the world, go to concerts, go to World Cup games, visit random places, you will see that you don’t really need women to achieve all of these if your successful, you can have a woman with you at these places but you know that’s the end when you are gone to somewhere else, don’t let one of them tie you down with marriage.

Richest man in the world got divorced, half of his money went to her, she used the man to climb the ladder, now she feels she can no longer live with someone she has been married to for years

Sodikiiiii

Women love successful men who don’t give them assurance, they feel they could change you to be commuted to them only, if you allow her she will use that againts you eventually because you have given her so much power by agreeing to marry her because she wants to marry at certain age and time.


If you must marry a woman, make sure you marry a younger woman, who’s madly in love with you, at exactly when you want it, she must be obedient to you and committed because you are her crown

Ever wonder why some women married to rich successful men with mansions and cars and international presence, still lay with mechanics,plumbers, shoe shiners etc


Don’t let anyone gender pressure you to marry her and you agree to it, you don cut your lifespan into two be that

And as for men, like I said work on your self, what ever you do don’t end up poor and broke, live to your standard, eart healthy, look good and smell nice, be humble and assertive, bold with obvious masculinity, don’t look weak amd and defeated oo

You will see the number of women both old and young , broke and successful, rich and poor, endowed and lean in different colors and size that will be falling at your feets

Magnoliaa:
When women get married, you'll lap it up and use it as think-pieces to dissect a woman's nature (cc; Rita, Oloni, etc).

When women get divorced (cc; Tiwa, Melinda; Shakira), you will still lick it and use it as a proof of women's nature.

Nawa ooo.

Young, old, single, broke, feminist, traditional, working class, trench babe, celebrity, childless, after 3 ... EVERYTHING is all pointers to a woman's nature and we should all supposedly be avoided.

Magnoliaa:
A "liability" is wailing ontop of you, but you're advising men to be financially ready to wed liabilities.

Magnoliaa:
Now, though, tell me what you also think of marriages in which the man is not financially buoyant.

Magnoliaa:
And the funniest thing, in yalls blatant shamelesness, you hailed this **** on this thread- https://www.nairaland.com/7505680/brief-dietary-recall-how-wife.

There was no name your gender did not call the women on this thread who were calling out the hypocrisy of a man that insults Nigerian women but is actively married to one, but you want to drag Oloni, or say women will eventually need men...same men they've bashed.

Y'all will cry #NotAllMen at any slight accusation, to tell us that there are good men amongst you people, so why do you think Oloni, Rita and co. did not get married to those few good men?

Mtcheeeeeeewwwwwww.

Abeg jo.

Magnoliaa:


Rest.

Shola and Rollo Tomassi too are married.

Even the godfather of redpillers on Facebook is married as well.

So watin you dey talk?

VULCAN:
One of the things I notice on Nairaland is the penchant for people to argue about things they are too lazy to research into.

Magnoliaa:


Lmao.

All of these...that you just wrote up here are very needless at best.

Maybe you should direct it to your fellow men who are always laughing and mocking and doing all sorts too when feminists get married.

Has it ever been written anywhere that feminism is against marriage?

Now as for the point I was making, which you should have taken the time to get, is pretty simple.

If there are men who speak against 'women's nature' everyday, and who have took it upon themselves to call out bad attitudes in women, and yet they are still married, why can women not do the same too?

The person who created this thread was going on about how marriage is useless to men, but redpill coaches are married.

He was also citing Oloni as an example, just to paint her as an hypocrite, because she got engaged and she has a platform that she shares relationship stuffs on.

If Oloni is an hypocrite, what do you call Shola?

I couldn't give 2 **** about your redpill or whatever it is.

Abeg, free me...

VULCAN:
Your ignorance on both topics: Redpill and Feminism comes through loud and clear.

Third wave feminism which began in the 90s denounces not only marriage but even masculinity.

Now it's so very clear you have very little knowledge of these two topics above, I will leave you because it's always a waste of time discussing an issue with a person who has refused to update themselves but just throws around personal opinions, conjecture and dogma.

Good Day

Gadafii:
Yes you heard me right, you don’t need to or have to get married before you feel fulfilled as an accomplished man, but women must marry to crown all their lifetime desires.

An unmarried successful woman does not completely feel successful if she die a have a man to call husband, or even a toy boy to make her feel complete, marriage is the biggest achievements to women anywhere in the world, forget about what these new generation of “woke women” are saying

Linda I keji is good example, she was so hostile to men telling women stay away from men, low key she was getting dicked, she eventually stole a sperm to birth a son

As a man, work on your self, especially your mind and body, get your finances right and solid, make connections, travel the world, go to concerts, go to World Cup games, visit random places, you will see that you don’t really need women to achieve all of these if your successful, you can have a woman with you at these places but you know that’s the end when you are gone to somewhere else, don’t let one of them tie you down with marriage.

Richest man in the world got divorced, half of his money went to her, she used the man to climb the ladder, now she feels she can no longer live with someone she has been married to for years

Sodikiiiii

Women love successful men who don’t give them assurance, they feel they could change you to be commuted to them only, if you allow her she will use that againts you eventually because you have given her so much power by agreeing to marry her because she wants to marry at certain age and time.


If you must marry a woman, make sure you marry a younger woman, who’s madly in love with you, at exactly when you want it, she must be obedient to you and committed because you are her crown

Ever wonder why some women married to rich successful men with mansions and cars and international presence, still lay with mechanics,plumbers, shoe shiners etc


Don’t let anyone gender pressure you to marry her and you agree to it, you don cut your lifespan into two be that

And as for men, like I said work on your self, what ever you do don’t end up poor and broke, live to your standard, eart healthy, look good and smell nice, be humble and assertive, bold with obvious masculinity, don’t look weak amd and defeated oo

You will see the number of women both old and young , broke and successful, rich and poor, endowed and lean in different colors and size that will be falling at your feets

Gadafii:
you just commented, I see the other lady mangolia abi what’s her name self servicing all over this thread with multiple mentions, I won’t reply her anymore, I have given you relevance with this mention, I expect you to stay off this thread, Abi you want to self service too with multiple mentions

You lots can wail all you want, marriage has outlived its importance, most men are wiser now, just weak men still getting married only to divorce few years later, due to issues beyond them, issues they could have avoided altogether from the beginning

Una eyes go soon clear, Shiloh go over full the coming years with women pleading to be married off

Gadafii:
you just commented, I see the other lady mangolia abi what’s her name self servicing all over this thread with multiple mentions, I won’t reply her anymore, I have given you relevance with this mention, I expect you to stay off this thread, Abi you want to self service too with multiple mentions

You lots can wail all you want, marriage has outlived its importance, most men are wiser now, just weak men still getting married only to divorce few years later, due to issues beyond them, issues they could have avoided altogether from the beginning

Una eyes go soon clear, Shiloh go over full the coming years with women pleading to be married off

Emaprince:
Allow people to marry if they wish.

But an advice I will boldly give any man is to NEVER ever fall in love. It usually end disastrous for men. Women hate weak men. And when a man falls deeply in love..he becomes weak and boring. Men in love are loosers..and gets stepped on cos their women tend to have their way. These men will be acting too weak to check their women.

However, every man should be financially ready and able to shoulder familly responsibilities. He should be able to provide for his kids and take good care of his wife. Respect your wife and take good care of her...does not mean you should fall in love and be a mumu. This means she is dispensable.

Back to OP...truthfully, marriage benefits women the most. And it their HOLY GRAIL. They can come online to act like it mean nothing....dont be deceived. Martiage is their biggest crown. Reason they flash wedding rings every chances they get. If a couple post pics of happy moments.. the comment section will be flooded by women. You will be seeing...

God when
My turn is coming soon
This is me next year

I expect the OP to get viciously attacked by women... cos any body talking down on marriage is an instant enemy to women. Thats telling enough.