Upset700:
He should be 25 this year I guess.
There's nothing he does to make mOney according to her.
He has no skill and when asked what he would like to learn...he said he didn't have interest in any😂😂...I find this really funny and at the same time not funny cus she is actually thinking they would settle down together.

1. The guy might be hiding stuff from her in order to make her leave by herself. Some guys can't just tell a woman: YOU'RE SACKED!
2. Yea, he's actually NOT a good fit for paternity. She should carry her body waka elsewhere.

She should ask people wey get sense to link her up with man wey get sense and ready for marriage, instead of gambling here and there like OYINBO people.

Goodlady:
Lai Muhammad

Have I ever looked at you?

Wow this guy you mentioned is just like a friend of mine.

He's done with school, and about serving

He dated his babe in school for about 3years, now he's home preparing to serve.

He's dating a girl who thinks he's broke.

Mind you this guy trys to cater for demands to some extent.

He actually has a fish farm of which he makes money from,also a graphic designer, and he's into all this crypto balablu.

Just because he's living with his parents,I mean his parents leaves in a 4bed apartment and he's just living inside one of the rooms. he's just 24 or 25 if I am not mistaken , he's babe tend to think he's broke hss no ambition and is lazy to leave his parents house also has no jobs .
She doesn't know about any of he's means of income tho.

Now his babe even blocked him😤😁

Well hoes can't be turned to Wifes .

Let her leave him and move on.

He should focus on being a better man tho

If he smokes weed don't leave him but if he doesn't smoke weed leave him sharp sharp

People want you to make it in life by all means....infact your gf don't give a fuckkk about how you doit...just have it...and give her money...

The world is a crazy place ....

Starz825:
People want you to make it in life by all means....infact your gf don't give a fuckkk about how you doit...just have it...and give her money...

The world is a crazy place ....

Real crazy

Starz825:
People want you to make it in life by all means....infact your gf don't give a fuckkk about how you doit...just have it...and give her money...

The world is a crazy place ....

what's crazy is living without purpose or ambition.

Upset700:
what's crazy is living without purpose or ambition.

This guy in question.

Did he just finish school and is living with his parents while waiting to serve and your friend says he's living with out purpose or ambition

See tell your friend to look for a rich guy to date ...
na broke the guy broke no be say em poor.

cumoverna:
change is constant, a broke man today can drive toyota spider next month.

i don see many example of guys like this.

nonsense talk

InfinityFabric:

Of course. I'd also advice to leave such man and go marry a person who's serious wioth their life.
A man is to provide for the family, less than that is NOT acceptable.


This is will mean you're NOT so rich yourself.

As with everything a woman says, she's almost always never telling the COMPLETE and TOTAL TRUTH. We need to hear from the supposed "broke" guy.

I see

Upset700:
This issue was actually asked by a close friend.
A friend of mine is in a relationship with her supposed best friend.she says he is everything she always wanted from a guy.he ticks all boxes.
But.....he is broke.
He just graduated and is waiting to serve.
The thing now is while he is waiting or even before graduating,he never had that hustling spirit like her.
He relies on family for everything.right now he stays in his family house...
When asked how what his future goals where,he said he didn't want to be pressured.
That he understands the need for money but doesn't see it as his happiness.
He seems very comfortable with where he is.
He is certain when he is done serving,he will get a job which we all know is on probability.
What she is asking is.. should she still stick around since he is just broke but still an amazing person or move on cus he screams lazy?

Is he book smart (studied a good course and has a good grade), he is probably not street smart. If he is book-smart then she should stick with him.

Funny people.

If a girl is broke she's a dangerous liability. Run from her, avoid her, she's out to suck you dry but use her for sex. If a man is broke it means his future is bright and there's a difference between being broke and poverty. He's a pot of beans cooking and should not feel pressured. She should accept him lazy, broke and all. In fact, he's secretly rich and pretending to be broke so that he won't have to stay in a relationship with her.

There's a problem with you people. Not one bit of sensible advice. The usual assumptions are ongoing, but this time in defense of what is normally considered indefensible.

Upset700:
This issue was actually asked by a close friend.
A friend of mine is in a relationship with her supposed best friend.she says he is everything she always wanted from a guy.he ticks all boxes.
But.....he is broke.
He just graduated and is waiting to serve.
The thing now is while he is waiting or even before graduating,he never had that hustling spirit like her.
He relies on family for everything.right now he stays in his family house...
When asked how what his future goals where,he said he didn't want to be pressured.
That he understands the need for money but doesn't see it as his happiness.
He seems very comfortable with where he is.
He is certain when he is done serving,he will get a job which we all know is on probability.
What she is asking is.. should she still stick around since he is just broke but still an amazing person or move on cus he screams lazy?

Someone that just graduated and you people are putting him under this kind of pressure?

If it is your brother, would allow him to be pressured like this?

This guy just graduated for christ sake.

What on earth is wrong with you people?

Everybody will find their level soon.

You or your friend I'd asking this because another guy is already whispering into your ears.

Leave, if you want to leave but don't pressure him.

Your friend, why is she not hustling? Is she crippled? Why is she waiting for a man to hustle for her?

peedeeasobie:



Someone that just graduated and you people are putting him under this kind of pressure?

If it is your brother, would allow him to be pressured like this?

This guy just graduated for christ sake.

What on earth is wrong with you people?

Everybody will find their level soon.

You or your friend I'd asking this because another guy is already whispering into your ears.

Leave, if you want to leave but don't pressure him.

Your friend, why is she not hustling? Is she crippled? Why is she waiting for a man to hustle for her?

she is an undergraduate and has a has a good business.it covers all her necessities.

peedeeasobie:



Someone that just graduated and you people are putting him under this kind of pressure?

If it is your brother, would allow him to be pressured like this?

This guy just graduated for christ sake.

What on earth is wrong with you people?

Everybody will find their level soon.

You or your friend I'd asking this because another guy is already whispering into your ears.

Leave, if you want to leave but don't pressure him.

Your friend, why is she not hustling? Is she crippled? Why is she waiting for a man to hustle for her?

and he graduated 2years ago...so what was he doing those times waiting to serve.

Upset700:
and he graduated 2years ago...so what was he doing those times waiting to serve.

Tell the guy to Palm wizdow leaves and splif them for 4 days,he will definitely find a purpose in life

Upset700:
what's crazy is living without purpose or ambition.

I agree

But do you know how frustrating it can actually be .....to keep chasing purpose without results....


It will always look like you are lazy and aimless.....and this is what the country has made a lot of People to be....esp guys....its a really tuff time for a lot of people