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I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Messi1: 7:39am On Mar 14, 2023
I am a Sunday school teacher in the world renown church The Redeemed Christian Church Of God. I have a female colleague who likes me so much and she had shown me body language but as a virgin guy, I refuse to throw in the towel.

Last two Sundays, I was very sick and nothing tasted good on my tongue. I liked only sweet things but I didnt have cash. I asked same lady to give me three pieces of biscuits but she angrily rejected that if she give me, it will not be enough for the children. I was hungry, but mom cooked coconut rice. I was disappointed because this same lady would demand ten pieces of biscuits and I do give her.


Fastfoward to last Thursday, a man who promised to gather N5000 for me called and told me to rush to the shop. I put on my shirt and walked in the scortching sun whilistening to Eminem Mockingbird. Finally arrived and saw my colleague there. She begged just to have N500 in cash but this guy refused. He gave me the cash and as I wanted to leave my conscience didn't allow me so I came back and asked her how much she needed. My colleague was surprised. After few seconds she said she needed N500 but I said I can give her N2000 if she have it in the account. She couldn't believe her ears. Finally she transfered the money and I gave her in cash, she couldn't be more grateful.


Last Sunday while we were both in Children department, she wrapped something and offered me, I asked what was that she said it is 20 pieces of biscuits. I screamed! I told her that if she give me 20 pieces of biscuits it will not be enough for the children. This lady continue to apologized for her behaviour the previous Sunday but after accepting, I gave it back to her to share for the children. I pointed out that I don't need it now. She was relieved. My colleague confessed that I have taught her what no one has. Lastly,

- Sometimes you don't wait for people to impress you before doing good to them.

- You don't expect people to be good to you all the time.

- You should always expect people to pay you negatively no matter the good you do to them.

- If you do good in exchange for another good, you simply a business person.


- Life doesn't revolve around experiencing people doing good to you all the time.

- The ultimate measure of who you are is what you do and how you react to what you feel is wrong.

-They say two wrongs doesn't make a right so when you fail to help one who hurts you, it still didn't make your decision right. I am not saying go ahead and help people who will use your help against you or swallow your help and come for your head .

- Remember you must have wronged or hurt someone too, learn to forgive.

- You can only make impact and change lives when you pass through tough challenges and not when everything is going well with you.


Learn to be yourself and take decisions that will change lives.

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Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by DispatcherLagos: 7:41am On Mar 14, 2023
Nairaland has been invaded by kids

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Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Sniper101(m): 7:42am On Mar 14, 2023
Mtcheeeew


Lamentations 101 angry
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by lamdbull: 7:43am On Mar 14, 2023
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Jumbojnr(m): 7:46am On Mar 14, 2023
Messi1:
I am a Sunday school teacher in the world renown church The Redeemed Christian Church Of God. I have a female colleague who likes me so much and she had shown me body language but as a virgin guy, I refuse to throw in the towel.
You did well man... learned smth shaa...so are you still gonna date her?
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Messi1: 7:49am On Mar 14, 2023
Jumbojnr:

You did well man... learned smth shaa...so are you still gonna date her?
Thank you so much. I am still contemating...
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Jumbojnr(m): 8:12am On Mar 14, 2023
Messi1:
Thank you so much. I am still contemating...
Alright ...
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Rexymania(m): 8:14am On Mar 14, 2023
Your moniker saved you 🙄🙄
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Messi1: 8:23am On Mar 14, 2023
Rexymania:
Your moniker saved you 🙄🙄
How? Do you mind to explain better?
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Connoisseur(m): 9:16am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:
Nairaland has been invaded by kids

I swear

Biscuits 🙆🙆🙆
That's what we are treating now

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Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Sheistoopretty(f): 9:41am On Mar 14, 2023
Messi1:
I am a Sunday school teacher in the world renown church The Redeemed Christian Church Of God. I have a female colleague who likes me so much and she had shown me body language but as a virgin guy, I refuse to throw in the towel.

Last two Sundays, I was very sick and nothing tasted good on my tongue. I liked only sweet things but I didnt have cash. I asked same lady to give me three pieces of biscuits but she angrily rejected that if she give me, it will not be enough for the children. I was hungry, but mom cooked coconut rice. I was disappointed because this same lady would demand ten pieces of biscuits and I do give her.


Fastfoward to last Thursday, a man who promised to gather N5000 for me called and told me to rush to the shop. I put on my shirt and walked in the scortching sun whilistening to Eminem Mockingbird. Finally arrived and saw my colleague there. She begged just to have N500 in cash but this guy refused. He gave me the cash and as I wanted to leave my conscience didn't allow me so I came back and asked her how much she needed. My colleague was surprised. After few seconds she said she needed N500 but I said I can give her N2000 if she have it in the account. She couldn't believe her ears. Finally she transfered the money and I gave her in cash, she couldn't be more grateful.


Last Sunday while we were both in Children department, she wrapped something and offered me, I asked what was that she said it is 20 pieces of biscuits. I screamed! I told her that if she give me 20 pieces of biscuits it will not be enough for the children. This lady continue to apologized for her behaviour the previous Sunday but after accepting, I gave it back to her to share for the children. I pointed out that I don't need it now. She was relieved. My colleague confessed that I have taught her what no one has. Lastly,

- Sometimes you don't wait for people to impress you before doing good to them.

- You don't expect people to be good to you all the time.

- You should always expect people to pay you negatively no matter the good you do to them.

- If you do good in exchange for another good, you simply a business person.


- Life doesn't revolve around experiencing people doing good to you all the time.

- The ultimate measure of who you are is what you do and how you react to what you feel is wrong.

-They say two wrongs doesn't make a right so when you fail to help one who hurts you, it still didn't make your decision right. I am not saying go ahead and help people who will use your help against you or swallow your help and come for your head .

- Remember you must have wronged or hurt someone too, learn to forgive.

- You can only make impact and change lives when you pass through tough challenges and not when everything is going well with you.


Learn to be yourself and take decisions that will change lives.


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Will u be paid for it boy? grin grin grin grin answer me grin grin grin grin grin common sense is no longer common grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by SmartGadgetz: 10:09am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:
Nairaland has been invaded by kids

Get the true lessons morafucker
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by DispatcherLagos: 10:09am On Mar 14, 2023
SmartGadgetz:


Get the true lessons morafucker
One of the invaders spotted...kids
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by SmartGadgetz: 10:11am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:

One of the invaders spotted...kids


Ipku nwanyi gi there.
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by DispatcherLagos: 10:12am On Mar 14, 2023
SmartGadgetz:



Ipku nwanyi gi there.
Stop the invasion kid
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by SmartGadgetz: 10:14am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:

Stop the invasion kid


Otu enyi nwanyi gi there
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by DispatcherLagos: 10:16am On Mar 14, 2023
SmartGadgetz:



Otu enyi nwanyi gi there
Nairaland says no to invasion by kids
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by SmartGadgetz: 10:18am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:

Nairaland says no to invasion by kids


Otu nne gi there
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by DispatcherLagos: 10:19am On Mar 14, 2023
SmartGadgetz:



Otu nne gi there
All invaders won't die well
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Nikes(m): 10:24am On Mar 14, 2023
Nawaoooo...Nawaooooooo. Make I see this thing for fp
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by SmartGadgetz: 10:30am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:

All invaders won't die well

Yes will not, including Amu Mpa gi grin
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by DispatcherLagos: 10:39am On Mar 14, 2023
SmartGadgetz:


Yes will not, including Amu Mpa gi grin
God will punish everyone that failed to abort invaders like you
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Junni0r(f): 10:42am On Mar 14, 2023
SmartGadgetz:

Yes will not, including Amu Mpa gi grin
nwa afo grin grin grin
Jiri ya nwayo grin grin grin

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Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Stillwhites(m): 10:43am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:

God will punish everyone that failed to abort invaders like you
Who is this confused element?
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by SmartGadgetz: 10:45am On Mar 14, 2023
DispatcherLagos:

God will punish everyone that failed to abort invaders like you

Amu mpaghi is an invader grin
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by DispatcherLagos: 10:53am On Mar 14, 2023
SmartGadgetz:


Amu mpaghi is an invader grin
Invaders are usually frustrated nuisances
Re: I Wanted To Date My Fellow But This Happened by Brownshoe: 12:14pm On Mar 14, 2023
What is this , not connecting at all

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