my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

It's never late for you bro.

A trusted way to rid yourself of a bad habit is to replace it with a good habit whenever you begin to feel the urge to indulge in that bad habit.


You need spiritual help and prayers as well.

Bro, never compare your life with anyone’s life and don’t live your life to please anyone but only to please God. No one is a saint and we were all, at a time in our lives; had reasons to do this comparison, but one needs to constantly reminds oneself, that our stories are different.

Develop the habit of reading the Bible or any other books that speak positively to you and not just any random book. Please read books and read good books.

List five most important things in your life which are dreams, you wish to achieve.

Paste them in your room, where you can constantly see those five important things.

Develop plans and make conscious efforts to execute them.

Fast and Pray to God for deliverance from all negative thoughts.(if possibly this is a spiritual issue, because you cannot rule out the possibility)

Please never give up on yourself, you mentioned you are a graduate, please learn some soft skills and don’t despise little beginnings and for every achievement you make, appreciate God and celebrate yourself in a low key and privately.

Wish you the best Bro.

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

Your story is not different from that of many who are happy today. They were once slaves until they met the emancipator and their story changed forever. I am one of them, addicted to destructive sinful habits but I met someone who changed me from inside out. The emancipator is Christ. If you want him to step into your situation just invite him. It takes just a little praying.
Say: Heavenly Father, I am a lost prodigal child wandering in the wilderness of this life, I am tired of my sins and misery, I am begging for your mercy and forgiveness. I can't help myself so I am calling on you. Forgive all my sins and give me a new start. I accept Jesus into my heart as my lord and savior, I believe he died for my sins and rose again, rebuild my broken and battered life again. In Jesus name I Pray- Amen. I have other things to tell you but this is the right place to start. You can send me a text on this number and I will call you.(zero- eight -one- three- four- eight- eight- nine-four-two -four).

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

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Bro there are eternal life principles in this world, if you follow them, u will surely succeed... Seek for them.



Discipline is one of them, it is getting harder nowadays for people to be disciplined.

Who do you follow? What do you follow? Offline and online.

This is very important as a youth/young adult.

You have to reprogram your mentality, thought process. No one can do it for you. Thrust me.

But seek help, if it is more than your power, from mentors, experts such as a counsellor, life coach, psychologist, .... in aspects of life that are problematic to you

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

Change your phone to one that does not browse.

You see porn as a problem but it is not if you stop feeling guilty about it.

Go and learn an in- demand work place skill that will set you apart from many other people and look for those who need that skill and sell yourself to them.

Whatever thing you do in this life, never stop learning and improving yourself

U lie too

If not, where is d pics

you are able to watch porn because you have a space/room for yourself....try to get rid of that personal space that increases your ability to watch where no one can see you.
remove password from your phone, be in the habit of giving your phone out to the kids, let them use it to play real games.
And for the night time, seeing that devil is smart enough to come again in the night,ale sure you exhaust all energy in the day that if you sleep like this the next time you will open your eyes na for 5am. avoid sleeping alone if you can.

now to activities you can do, dust your certificate, prepare your CV (rewrite it several times) apply to places that would give small money 30-40per month, use it to gain experience (you can't add construction job to work experience, neither can you save money from it to start a decent job, it's hard)

and to the spiritual aspect, you need a friend that understands you, a friend that knows your history and can help you change things for better and hold your hands all along. You need JESUS . So say after me " Lord Jesus, I have condemned myself, I have rejected myself. I realise I need help from someone who is willing to help, I have come to give you my yoke and take upon me your yoke, I have come to seek peace and love. Please forgive me for living without acknowledging your love and grace, accept me today and help me live a new life. Please take away my bad habits, give me fruit of the spirits, give me the Holyspirit, sanctify me by your blood and give me a new beginning, thank you for answered prayer, in Jesus name I pray, Amen". I pray for you this hour, darkness will lose his hold upon you in Jesus name.

Please, locate a Bible believing church near you and attend Bible study, feel free to tell them you want to get to know Jesus more. They will be happy to welcome you and assist you in this new life.

1. You are too weak now to pick yourself from the dust. No amount of motivational talks will uplift your soul from these shackles and bondage. Don't even bother setting goals. You'll fail more times than you passed, then slip back into your former state.

2. Now that you've acknowledged your problem online, and found that you need a solution, a road that will lead you to the light, you must do the same offline.

You're an adult. No constant murmuring and lamentations. If you want a breakthrough, you must behold yourself in a mirror that you need it.

3. What you need to do:
A. Look for people you admire offline. Relate your problem to them. The average man will love to help but don't act as a another burden.

You must be willingly to bear your weight amidst shame, guilt, ridicule, and reproach. You do not need a pampering of your ego.

B. Look for an NGO center around. Relate with them.

C. Look for any adventure offline that's filled with good and reputable people. These people will hold you accountable. They will be both a mentor and master. The help you need are in their hands. Don't think you can do it solely.

4. Have a list of people you admire. Write them boldly on a paper or the wall in your bedroom. You can obtain their pictures if possible.
Look at these names and pictures daily before stepping out or taking action.

Take for example:

1. Will Martin Luther be wasting time on masturbation and pornography instead of looking for ways to set blacks free. Ponder on this while gazing his beauty in a picture.

Will Nelson Mandela do this? What will Jordan Peterson do in this situation.

5. Using myself as an example: I've become inspired by Peter Obi. In the sense that since the presidential shows no scandal has been used to roped the man. Not even a mistress or the maltreatment of his housemaids. Every stone thrown at him are empty propaganda.

It means one thing: it is either Peter Obi is the inventor of hide and seek game or has been maintaining a clean standard because of a day like this.

It doesn't means that he's a saint. Everyone has challenges, foibles, weaknesses. But people like him have discovered how to finagle around their weaknesses.

This is the kind of man I want to become. Hence, I hold him strongly in my imagination and dear to my heart even if it means not responding to my sensual desires. It's about the future not now. I want to become a man that will make his enemies looks stupid when they accuse him.

6. Dear friend, salvation is possible. Step outside today, scan for good people and they'll gladly help you. An idea on where to find these people: church, mosques, library, seminars, meetings, etc.

Don't sit down in your house looking for help. You won't get it. However, you can use online aids to supplement, and solitary to ponder, meditate, introspect and lay good strategies.

Take care, man.

You're at the prime of your life and in a good place, take time to decide what you want and then Look for the skills you can acquire to get it
Money is the easiest thing to get if you have the skills and move with the right people
Eg Cryptobaddie1 on twitter said last year she lost over 10,000 dollars, in April she's made over 10 times what she's lost, she's in Nigeria

You still have a lot of time, Dream and dream as big as you want then take steps you believe will help you achieve your dreams Best wishes to you as you will win

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

U re living the life
Na to buy sniper drink remain then u go bk to the betting ok

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

will I ever be free and live a normal life?that is a question only you have the answer to,only your inner mind can truly set you free,no amount of advice here will make any difference if you are not ready and willing for sacrifices,most men past through worst situations but they picked themselves up and believed that in the darkest of hours there is hope and opportunity for a brighter day after.

Op it is that your uncle that put a hex on you,
but good news is that you can free yourself by paying all your karmic debt, and that is what you are doing now paying your debt, sha you will soon pay finish and enter heaven because right now you are in hell op

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

Child of doom. Is that you?

Yea you're fu..kd, question is how do you get unfu..kd?

Change your thoughts and your emotions about yourself and your environment.

Do you know that bad thoughts and bad emotions got you here ?

Think about the things you want and not what you don't want and feel as if they've already happened....do this habitually.

Brother from my end here is very similar to yours in all the aspects but as soon as i started tracing my roots back to Jesus Christ and realizing breaking free by my strength is limited.
He started to help me and he's still helping me till now.
I really believe in him.
He can help you too.....Christ found us all on our numerous problems, so don't give up sir.
Trace your Roots back to him, and never by shy to speak out your problems even when they judge you, still speak it out.
Jesus is the way.
Remain Blessed.

Leave your parents house where you are getting free food to eat and that makes the beginning of your freedom and testimony.the way i see it only serious suffering and hunger would reset your brain and reprogram your lazy mindset.when you are really hungry and tired,you would not have the strength or see erection to jerkoff.leave your comfortzone and learn to be a man.this i have seen!.lol

Since u have discovered all these errors, coming out will be easy but gradually it will be visible.
Change ur current circle and locate a Bible believing church. Inside the church, find a unit and genuinely serve. With time every other good thing shall be added unto u.

I've messaged you bro
You can get help
Chat me up please

alpharoyalty:


Child of doom. Is that you?

no i am not him

chizidgreat:
I've messaged you bro
You can get help
Chat me up please

seen

Aladdin1:
Leave your parents house where you are getting free food to eat and that makes the beginning of your freedom and testimony.the way i see it only serious suffering and hunger would reset your brain and reprogram your lazy mindset.when you are really hungry and tired,you would not have the strength or see erection to jerkoff.leave your comfortzone and learn to be a man.this i have seen!.lol

u call a man who spend hours in construction site lazy?

ConfidentialDoc:
Change your thoughts and your emotions about yourself and your environment.

Do you know that bad thoughts and bad emotions got you here ?

Think about the things you want and not what you don't want and feel as if they've already happened....do this habitually.

thanks bro

Blupen969:
Op it is that your uncle that put a hex on you,
but good news is that you can free yourself by paying all your karmic debt, and that is what you are doing now paying your debt, sha you will soon pay finish and enter heaven because right now you are in hell op

may i come out victorious

CaveAdullam:
1. You are too weak now to pick yourself from the dust. No amount of motivational talks will uplift your soul from these shackles and bondage. Don't even bother setting goals. You'll fail more times than you passed, then slip back into your former state.

2. Now that you've acknowledged your problem online, and found that you need a solution, a road that will lead you to the light, you must do the same offline.

You're an adult. No constant murmuring and lamentations. If you want a breakthrough, you must behold yourself in a mirror that you need it.

3. What you need to do:
A. Look for people you admire offline. Relate your problem to them. The average man will love to help but don't act as a another burden.

You must be willingly to bear your weight amidst shame, guilt, ridicule, and reproach. You do not need a pampering of your ego.

B. Look for an NGO center around. Relate with them.

C. Look for any adventure offline that's filled with good and reputable people. These people will hold you accountable. They will be both a mentor and master. The help you need are in their hands. Don't think you can do it solely.

4. Have a list of people you admire. Write them boldly on a paper or the wall in your bedroom. You can obtain their pictures if possible.
Look at these names and pictures daily before stepping out or taking action.

Take for example:

1. Will Martin Luther be wasting time on masturbation and pornography instead of looking for ways to set blacks free. Ponder on this while gazing his beauty in a picture.

Will Nelson Mandela do this? What will Jordan Peterson do in this situation.

5. Using myself as an example: I've become inspired by Peter Obi. In the sense that since the presidential shows no scandal has been used to roped the man. Not even a mistress or the maltreatment of his housemaids. Every stone thrown at him are empty propaganda.

It means one thing: it is either Peter Obi is the inventor of hide and seek game or has been maintaining a clean standard because of a day like this.

It doesn't means that he's a saint. Everyone has challenges, foibles, weaknesses. But people like him have discovered how to finagle around their weaknesses.

This is the kind of man I want to become. Hence, I hold him strongly in my imagination and dear to my heart even if it means not responding to my sensual desires. It's about the future not now. I want to become a man that will make his enemies looks stupid when they accuse him.

6. Dear friend, salvation is possible. Step outside today, scan for good people and they'll gladly help you. An idea on where to find these people: church, mosques, library, seminars, meetings, etc.

Don't sit down in your house looking for help. You won't get it. However, you can use online aids to supplement, and solitary to ponder, meditate, introspect and lay good strategies.

Take care, man.

gracias patron

Decide to play life on God-mode.

Anything you consistently imagine for yourself will happen.

And finally, age is on your side.

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

Mrwhite09:
may i come out victorious

You will and try to remove pride, hate, jealousy in your life completely, so that in your next life, you no go suffer like this again, begin today the repair your tommorow because tommorow no deh finish bros.....

The game is the game,don’t be emotional...

This one is strong
Porn and betting addiction. Well, nothing is impossible, don't lose hope of redemption. If you lose hope, that's it for you, you can't get your life back without hope. Hope is the strongest force a human being can have to go through any challenge.

Mrwhite09:
my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg

Dude. Indeed it is not easy and life can be tough but I assure you that many have a truckload of demons to fight and they are managing to take cumulative steps to move on.

First, you need to embrace God. If your problem pass you, you go need helper wey pass you ohh. Start drawing closer to God by praying and giving alms out of the little you have.

Second, draft a 10 year plan for your life. Don't postpone it, do it now. Ask yourself where you want to see yourself in 10 years time and draft a plan on how you can achieve it LEGALLY. Don't put falsehood, yahoo yahoo, ritual, kidnapping etc inside your plan oh. You cannot be asking God for help and be thinking of doing evil to your fellow man. WRITE the plan down and paste it on your wall where you live or put it as screensaver on your phone. Ensure no one else sees this plan.

Third, surround yourself with successful people. Listen to the elderly. Learn from the big players in life. Copy the habits of powerful people. Make friends with people of substance.

Fourth, open your eye, open your ears but shut up your mouth. Opportunities are everywhere, online, offline, in your neighborhood, etc. Keep your eyes and ears open to pick information relevant for business and success in any area. You need to keep your plans and life to yourself. Make a covenant with your mouth not to divulge your progress, plans etc to anyone.

Fifth. Beware of olosho. Beware of refurbished olosho. Beware of retired olosho. Beware of olosho disguised as a church girl. Beware of modernized olosho. To me ohh, although I don't consider it right, it is better to jerk off than to patronize olosho/girlfriend. Olosho will put you in trouble as you rise. Stay away from any woman that is not your wife.

This is my 2 cents. I wish you the best.

op in as much as I understand why you’re going through, abeg make I laff fess . Your case is very easy to solve, first off continue with that site work until you feel the urge to let go. But as for your biggest temptation whenever you are alone. Each time you get the urge, drop down and do push-ups until failures. Now I’m not gonna lie to you, I need to know some days you’ll fail, others you’ll get it right, but in all keep in mind you are trying to defeat a demon and discipline will play a key role here. Funny thing I was born on April 15th and it wasn’t until I was 31 before I was able to defeat that demon and now I am happy I did. So you sef your own good me at 29 soapy almost made me insane.
In all, aim to make exercise a lifestyle.