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What Will Be Your Response To This by Wizzy13: 10:38am On Apr 22, 2023
My girlfriend always tell me how guys ask her out
and my response is that she should accept them and stop complaining to me.

Guys how do u response to this as an alpha male

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Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by youngreezy(m): 10:45am On Apr 22, 2023
Oga you no need to be alpa make or whatever,if she like make she Bleep ten guys e no concern you,make she no dey tell you nonsense shikena

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Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by Alonso91(m): 10:49am On Apr 22, 2023
It shouldn't be of any concerns to you....She is telling you because she don't find them attractive or doing well than you......When ever she finds one who is way better than you she won't tell you before she JAPA.




Use ur head before then use am for you

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Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by Wizzy13: 10:50am On Apr 22, 2023
youngreezy:
Oga you no need to be alpa make or whatever,if she like make she Bleep ten guys e no concern you,make she no dey tell you nonsense shikena

thanks man
Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by JASONjnr(m): 10:50am On Apr 22, 2023
Kids!

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Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by Reminderz: 10:51am On Apr 22, 2023
Alonso91:
It shouldn't be of any concerns to you....She is telling you because she don't find them attractive or doing well than you......When ever she finds one who is way better than you she won't tell you before she JAPA.




Use ur head before then use am for you
exactly man... she's telling her so that op might think she's loyal and she might already be fvcking them... me I will tell her point blank that I don't care who she talks to or who talks to her, that I don't need that information...I will let her know that the day that I sense any foul play, just sense any foul play or any change in attitude, that's the day that she's gone...

I will never repeat myself after that and I will execute the plans according to her actions. a girl who is said to be in a serious relationship and respects the guy knows what she's supposed to do, not until she's told or asks.

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Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:52am On Apr 22, 2023
Wizzy13:
My girlfriend always tell me how guys ask her out
and my response is that she should accept them and stop complaining to me.

Guys how do u response to this as an alpha male




Turn the question back and tell her what do you do?
Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by Alonso91(m): 10:54am On Apr 22, 2023
Reminderz:

exactly man... she's telling her so that op might think she's loyal and she might already be fvcking them... me I will tell her point blank that I don't care who she talks to or who talks to her, that I don't need that information...I will let her know that the day that I sense any foul play, just sense any foul play or any change in attitude, that's the day that she's gone...



You be SABI guy
Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by richmond500: 10:56am On Apr 22, 2023
Wizzy13:
My girlfriend always tell me how guys ask her out
and my response is that she should accept them and stop complaining to me.

Guys how do u response to this as an alpha male




I'd just tell her, I'm not surprised one bit that men Chase's her, Every man will chase a beautiful girl like her.
Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by donbachi(m): 11:08am On Apr 22, 2023
Since you're now a POS machine...let everyone press it.
Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by pansophist(m): 11:16am On Apr 22, 2023
Maybe she is trying to trigger insecurities in you, or she wants you to appreciate her more for choosing you out of all her options. Or she have no ulterior motives.

Being asked out constantly is a woman's reality, a woman doesn't have to achieve anything in life for this to happen. So there is no trophy there.

Although some women grow ego as tall as mount Kilimanjaro for being desired by men, but it's an artificial ego with no depth, and that's the foundation of women's insecurities. It's an ego that is temporary, since it's based on youthfulness.

Male ego is based on competence and probably permanent, so a competent man generally do not fear if his gf/wife will be snatched. It's her loss. Hence you see more women snatching men, compare to men snatching women.

Besides, any man that is capable of snatching Chioma from Davido for example will have so many options for women, that Chioma will not appeal to him at all. Men are made, women are born.

Back to your query. You don't have to respond to it, just vibe along with her. If it's me, I'll playfully tell her to eat their money. Because at the end of the day, I know for certainty that she is with me for that kind of man I've made myself to be.

She is not dating me out of pity, but because she knows that leaving me is her loss. The shiny boys may be tempting, but like sugar, the fun is temporal, but the consequences are in the future, and maybe permanent.

So when you're grounded as a man in your glory, its what makes people stay. They stay for their interest, not for your interest. It's like Chioma deciding to leave Davido, it's her loss.

So in case you feel insecure that she will leave because men out there are chasing her, the work is in yourself, and the more strong, better, smarter and wealthy you become as you grow, you'll secretly be happy if one dude even snatch her away, so you have a valid reason to audition for a new chick.

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Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by Starz825(m): 11:20am On Apr 22, 2023
donbachi:
Since you're now a POS machine...let everyone press it.
idiot grin
Re: What Will Be Your Response To This by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:08pm On Apr 22, 2023
Wizzy13:
My girlfriend always tell me how guys ask her out
and my response is that she should accept them and stop complaining to me.

Guys how do u response to this as an alpha male

you response should be:" women ask me out all the time, you dont see me coming to tell you about it. what will i gain from that? instead of telling you, i make sure these women fully well understand that i am in a r/ship thus NOT INTERESTED, so they dont try their shiit any further. so long as you make these men understand the same, its all good."

some women use such tactics to make themselves look somehow more important in the r/ship and/or with more value... aka "you should be lucky you are with me, many men want me"... to thereafter use that against you by expecting yeye nonsense from you, and when you refuse, she can say that these other men would do it for her.

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