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Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by UniversalGee: 7:10am On Apr 25, 2023
Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend. I'm an introvert and prefer to stay by myself, but I'm starting to feel like I need to make female friends.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that?
Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:12am On Apr 25, 2023
Focus on your studies and you should be more concerned about coming out with a good grade. You don't have money to maintain any relationship now and even if you have it's still a distraction, leave women alone and focus. There's time for everything.

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:15am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Focus on your studies and you should be more concerned about coming out with a good grade. You don't have money to maintain any relationship now and even if you have it's still a distraction, leave women alone and focus. There's time for everything.
are you the one on your profile?

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:15am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
are you the one on your profile?
Yes, that's me some centuries ago
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nukilia: 7:16am On Apr 25, 2023
When you get to 500 L, then look for one. Else all your pocket money would be going down the drain. Eat well and read well, let female friend face her studies.

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:17am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Yes, that's me some centuries ago
😁why am I not surprised.
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Skiborobo(f): 7:17am On Apr 25, 2023
Yes please. But we benefit more and guys benefit nothing most time lol. Since my level 1 in school, I can't tell how many guys approach to tutor me and they'll buy what we'll eat too. After that, excort me to my hostel.The funny thing is that most of them got a carryover while I'm doing well academically

Mehn! I really chop guys o. Uptill now...

Men are God sent

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by donbachi(m): 7:19am On Apr 25, 2023
Dis guy no even know wetin him dey save himself

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:20am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
😁why am I not surprised.
meaning?
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by UniversalGee: 7:21am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Focus on your studies and you should be more concerned about coming out with a good grade. You don't have money to maintain any relationship now and even if you have it's still a distraction, leave women alone and focus. There's time for everything.
Okay. Thanks for the advice

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:24am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
meaning?
is it you? πŸ™ƒ I wan collect numberπŸ˜€
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:24am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
is it you? πŸ™ƒ I wan collect numberπŸ˜€
I'm old, 60+ and have grandchildren
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by garriAndsugar: 7:25am On Apr 25, 2023
Yes you need to make female friends..and you don't need to spend a dime unless you want to sleep with them

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:26am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
I'm old, 60+ and have grandchildren
you wouldn't even pass of as someone in her 30s. 😁 you can't be more than 28 tops.

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:28am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
you wouldn't even pass of as someone in her 30s. 😁 you can't be more than 28 tops.
Ask killbillz, I clocked 62 few months back
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by UniversalGee: 7:28am On Apr 25, 2023
garriAndsugar:
Yes you need to make female friends..and you don't need to spend a dime unless you want to sleep with them
Okay boss.
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:31am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Ask killbillz, I clocked 62 few months back
let's go on a date.
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:33am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
let's go on a date.
I'm too old for all that now, all these alternate Monikas ehn. I know your main
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:37am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
I'm too old for all that now, all these alternate Monikas ehn. I know your main
😁 it's going to be exciting. We will go pluck mangoes. I'll let you climb the treeπŸ€“
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:38am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
😁 it's going to be exciting. We will go pluck mangoes. I'll let you climb the treeπŸ€“
🀣 I go fit climb trees like this? You wicked
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by marlow1962(m): 7:43am On Apr 25, 2023
Yes.
Make friends;l with everybody, even if you people will not be that close as friends, make friends with him or her (e get why I put him).
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:43am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
🀣 I go fit climb trees like this? You wicked
don't tell me you didn't climb trees as a child?πŸ˜„
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:45am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
don't tell me you didn't climb trees as a child?πŸ˜„
I never did
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Medianna(f): 7:46am On Apr 25, 2023
I don't understand how someone will be in just 200l and start thinking of less relevant things.
Do you have male friends?
And what exactly do you need the female friend for?

I believe friends comes naturally. Even ladies friends too. If you have male friends you can make do with those pending on when you become more social (I don't mean clubbing and womanizing oo)

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Medianna(f): 7:47am On Apr 25, 2023
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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:47am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
I never did
ah. i can teach you 😁
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
ah. i can teach you 😁
And what will I tell my children and grandchildren if I fall? You are funny
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Tickles001(m): 7:52am On Apr 25, 2023
UniversalGee:
Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend. I'm an introvert and prefer to stay by myself, but I'm starting to feel like I need to make female friends.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that?
Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

A big YES. You're not doing yourself any good by being an introvert without a girlfriend. Here's the catch. Take good care of yourself to become likable physically and develop friendship skills. Then girls that like you will come around, then you select the few you prefer. Don't fall too in love with just one. Have many but be careful of your sexual health.
This will work more for you if you live in a mixed hostel with a lot of girls in it.

Now about those telling you that you'll spend. It's not true at all. You only spend when you're not likable and you have to compensate with spending. Campus girlfriend is entirely free, in fact it comes with other benefits sef.
It's only in the campus that you get the luxury of having a lot of young pretty girls at absolutely no cost.

Believe me, having girls in your life wouldn't make you have bad grades. I'm telling you from experience. Fine-tune yourself and enjoy all that the campus has to offer. AFTER SCHOOL, IT BECOMES A DIFFERENT BALLGAME.

Also have a lot of male friends, especially the type that less serious with academics but with sense. E get why!

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 7:57am On Apr 25, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
And what will I tell my children and grandchildren if I fall? You are funny
laughing.

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Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 8:46am On Apr 25, 2023
wis3:
let's go on a date.
So it's u abi... Hope u get odeshi for body? Cos I don't ask questions oo
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by wis3(m): 8:48am On Apr 25, 2023
Killbillz:

So it's u abi... Hope u get odeshi for body? Cos I don't ask questions oo
grin
Re: Do I Really Need To Make Female Friends In The University? by Nobody: 8:50am On Apr 25, 2023
Killbillz:

So it's u abi... Hope u get odeshi for body? Cos I don't ask questions oo
🀣🀣🀣🀣 funny you.

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