There is this my Ex we dated for more than six years before she finally ended it immediately after orientation (service year). The dating started during extension days in our final year, secondary school.

We literally went to the same secondary school and University.

So many things happened during our course of being together:

We had many differences mainly and only on men. I was a big time simp then, was insecure with temperament issues in the relationship.

The complexity of the insecurity became clearer when she confessed that she dated someone while we were apart.

I lived in the South-West while she stayed in the Northern part of the country.

While together, she aborted three times for me. I was 69% true to the relationship, I loved her so much then and I really wanted to settle down with her. My family knew her and vice versa, including friends.

Like I stated, she ended the relationship and I accepted it in good fate, even though I wept.

What will I even have done since she initiated it. it was more like I shock to me.

After more than a decade, I was surprised to hear from my sister's hubby all the bad things that happened between us, that she aborted three times for me, that I beat her in camp, etc. That I went ahead to toast her friend (this is true but like she was 6 years in marriage).

I've tried arranging for meeting with her and husband but it never worked, for us to discuss and that I may apologize sincerely to her, since she still took it to heart.

All she kept saying she had moved on and sebi I have moved on too?

Please, what can I do in this situation?
My wish is for us to meet, and discuss intensively together.

Wait.... I don't get it.
Did you truly beat her.....?
I read in ur story that u were a simp..
Since she's married, allow her to enjoy her marriage ooooo.

With these funny attributes, do you know you’re still a simp?? What is the point of meeting when she’s already married? What is there to apologize for when everyone has gone their separate ways. You’ll be the biggest joker if you leave searching for your daily bread to go begging your ex and her husband.

I don’t even see why you still have her number or keep in touch abi you’re planning to fvck her later? My friend delete her contact, block her everywhere and move the fvck on!

Akinzola:
Wait.... I don't get it.
Did you truly beat her.....?
I read in ur story that u were a simp..
Since she's married, allow her to enjoy her marriage ooooo.

Truth be told, in camp no but in time past I've beaten her, (definition of my beat was that I slapped her).

I'm married now. I am only bothered that she had not truly let go of her past for her to tell People the odds we had together.

She has her own children now even though I was informed she had miscarriages before finally conceiving

Bedotfarms:


Truth be told, in camp no but in time past I've beaten her.

I'm married now. I am only bothered that she had not truly let go of her past for her to tell People the odds we had together.

Maybe after apologizing to her.. you also arrange a meeting with the husband to apologize for beating his wife in the past

Getat!

U want to apologize to her hubby too

U think the guy really want to put a face to the name of the guy that once dated his wife

Bedotfarms:
There is this my Ex we dated for more than six years before she finally ended it immediately after orientation (service year). The dating started during extension days in our final year, secondary school.

We literally went to the same secondary school and University.

So many things happened during our course of being together:

We had many differences mainly and only on men. I was a big time simp then, was insecure with temperament issues in the relationship.

The complexity of the insecurity became clearer when she confessed that she dated someone while we were apart.

I lived in the South-West while she stayed in the Northern part of the country.

While together, she aborted three times for me. I was 69% true to the relationship, I loved her so much then and I really wanted to settle down with her. My family knew her and vice versa, including friends.

Like I stated, she ended the relationship and I accepted it in good fate, even though I wept.

What will I even have done since she initiated it. it was more like I shock to me.

After more than a decade, I was surprised to hear from my sister's hubby all the bad things that happened between us, that she aborted three times for me, that I beat her in camp, etc. That I went ahead to toast her friend (this is true but like she was 6 years in marriage).

I've tried arranging for meeting with her and husband but it never worked, for us to discuss and that I may apologize sincerely to her, since she still took it to heart.

All she kept saying she had moved on and sebi I have moved on too?

Please, what can I do in this situation?
My wish is for us to meet, and discuss intensively together.

oga Wetin concern you. Just leave dem

men are so fvcking weak these days... their weakness disgusts me.. tueh!!

Most men are weak in mind but strong physically brother. Long distance relationship is a Big NO NO

Bedotfarms:


Truth be told, in camp no but in time past I've beaten her.

I'm married now. I am only bothered that she had not truly let go of her past for her to tell People the odds we had together.

Oga move on...which yeye meeting u dey arrange with her and her husband....
...be like u no sabi women oooo....the victim card is like their super power...they will use it anytime they can, especially since it trully happened that u beat her and sh did abortions for u like a favor women always make it look

Foodqueen:
U want to apologize to her hubby too

U think the guy really want to put a face to the name of the guy that once dated his wife

Yes ooooo...the husband will be so excited to sit face to face the guy that pack 3 babies out of his wife's womb and fvcked her more than half a decade ....especially if they have not been able to have their own children

when we say simping is not good u women think we are hating on you.

Bedotfarms:


Truth be told, in camp no but in time past I've beaten her.

I'm married now. I am only bothered that she had not truly let go of her past for her to tell People the odds we had together.

Trying to meet her is a bad move!

She is the problem and not you, she has not moved on, apparently still bitter that you guys did not married in comparison to her current marriage.

There is nothing you will tell her that will appease and nothing you will do that will suffice, unless you want to divorce your wife and marry her.

Forget about her and move, but watch your behind….crazy ex like that are capable of doing you, your wife or your kids harm because they are driven with hate and jealousy.

I doubt if her husband will be married to her for too long from now, no right thinking guy will continue to stay with a lady who is still opposed with their ex.

You're still a big simp. I just pity your wife.

Thank you for your responses

I'm grateful.

Bedotfarms:


She has her own children now even though I was informed she had miscarriages before finally conceiving

Oh beautiful! 🙌

Let the sleeping dog lie… 🙏😒

Bedotfarms:
There is this my Ex we dated for more than six years before she finally ended it immediately after orientation (service year). The dating started during extension days in our final year, secondary school.

We literally went to the same secondary school and University.

So many things happened during our course of being together:

We had many differences mainly and only on men. I was a big time simp then, was insecure with temperament issues in the relationship.

The complexity of the insecurity became clearer when she confessed that she dated someone while we were apart.

I lived in the South-West while she stayed in the Northern part of the country.

While together, she aborted three times for me. I was 69% true to the relationship, I loved her so much then and I really wanted to settle down with her. My family knew her and vice versa, including friends.

Like I stated, she ended the relationship and I accepted it in good fate, even though I wept.

What will I even have done since she initiated it. it was more like I shock to me.

After more than a decade, I was surprised to hear from my sister's hubby all the bad things that happened between us, that she aborted three times for me, that I beat her in camp, etc. That I went ahead to toast her friend (this is true but like she was 6 years in marriage).

I've tried arranging for meeting with her and husband but it never worked, for us to discuss and that I may apologize sincerely to her, since she still took it to heart.

All she kept saying she had moved on and sebi I have moved on too?

Please, what can I do in this situation?
My wish is for us to meet, and discuss intensively together.

Hello, forget all these talk about alpha male and simps and all, this is reality, find a way to really apologize and appease that woman for you own good and future. The bible talks about making 'restitution', contemporarily you hear people talk about 'closure' it's very necessary, you both aborted 3kids together.

Bedotfarms:
There is this my Ex we dated for more than six years before she finally ended it immediately after orientation (service year). The dating started during extension days in our final year, secondary school.

We literally went to the same secondary school and University.

So many things happened during our course of being together:

We had many differences mainly and only on men. I was a big time simp then, was insecure with temperament issues in the relationship.

The complexity of the insecurity became clearer when she confessed that she dated someone while we were apart.

I lived in the South-West while she stayed in the Northern part of the country.

While together, she aborted three times for me. I was 69% true to the relationship, I loved her so much then and I really wanted to settle down with her. My family knew her and vice versa, including friends.

Like I stated, she ended the relationship and I accepted it in good fate, even though I wept.

What will I even have done since she initiated it. it was more like I shock to me.

After more than a decade, I was surprised to hear from my sister's hubby all the bad things that happened between us, that she aborted three times for me, that I beat her in camp, etc. That I went ahead to toast her friend (this is true but like she was 6 years in marriage).

I've tried arranging for meeting with her and husband but it never worked, for us to discuss and that I may apologize sincerely to her, since she still took it to heart.

All she kept saying she had moved on and sebi I have moved on too?

Please, what can I do in this situation?
My wish is for us to meet, and discuss intensively together.

What do you think you want to discuss with her and her hubby

I mean what's the essence of the meeting

frozen70:


What do you think you want to discuss with her and her hubby

I mean what's the essence of the meeting

It became a thing of concern to me when she sent me a message after more than a decade, that 'she had forgiven me' because I'd forgotten the whole thing, even she telling discussing with my person.

I only wanted to know what's hurting her, to assist where needed.

Hitherto, I've gotten matured responses so far

Bedotfarms:


It became a thing of concern to me when she sent me a message after more than a decade, that 'she had forgiven me' because I'd forgotten the whole thing, even she telling discussing with my person.

I only wanted to know what's hurting her, to assist where needed.

Hitherto, I've gotten matured responses so far

Bedotfarms:


It became a thing of concern to me when she sent me a message after more than a decade, that 'she had forgiven me' because I'd forgotten the whole thing, even she telling discussing with my person.

I only wanted to know what's hurting her, to assist where needed.

Hitherto, I've gotten matured responses so far

Ok, just try

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