Hi NL!
I've been praying to get a Job.
Last year, I got a banking job that pays me well...

I really do not know, I receive calls everyday from family and friends requesting financial assistance. I find it difficult to decline most of those requests.
I find it difficult to save. I feel I will be overwhelmed by these responsibilities if I don't take a stand. Its difficult for anyone to believe that I don't have money. I am a full time software engineer (Banker) in one of the leading banks in Nigeria.
I now appreciate how my parents were able to pay our fees and still meet our needs without complaining. Today, I find it difficult to pick calls because I know its always a request for money😔.

Dear family men (fathers and mothers), how do you cope with these responsibilities and still save money?
Sincerely, sometimes I feel overwhelmed.

Do the ones you can and leave the rest for God.but, make sure you put yourself for budget also.buy perfume,inner wears, clothes and take yourself out sometimes.
It's called "Taking care of the body that works the money"

Dájú
Kálá
Rúnjú paaa
Lèjú páaa
Wúwá ika....

Pple no send u....dem go exploit u with sob stories and lies just because of selfishness and greed......trust me, many of them are not that in need...

... my nephew say make i give am 40k to add to what he has to get a phone....i met this idíot few weeks later at the father's retirement party asking me for another change that he has nothing after buying phone... ...i shock when i see iPhone 13 for this 200level boy hand ....... no wahala

My new principle became......if u never dey die for hospital.. u can never see credit alert from me

donbachi:
Do the ones you can and leave the rest for God.but, make sure you put yourself for budget also.buy perfume,inner wears, clothes and take yourself out sometimes.
It's called "Taking care of the body that works the money"

True

advanceDNA:
Dájú
Kálá
Rúnjú paaa
Lèjú páaa
Wúwá ika....

Pple no send u....dem go exploit u with sob stories and lies just because of selfishness and greed......trust me, many of them are not that in need...

... my nephew say make i give am 40k to add to what he has to get a phone....i met this idíot few weeks later at the father's retirement party asking me for another change that he has nothing after buying phone... ...i shock when i see iPhone 13 for this 200level boy hand ....... no wahala

My new principle became......if u never dey die for hospital.. u can never see credit alert from me

Bro!
This is sad. Its the reality. I've been trying to save money to buy a ride, Now, I'm picking from the saving to give out

Oga, the feeling is normal,and never you think that our parents didn't complain then, just do the much you can do,non go kill yourself... Wahala non dey finish.

Deew22:


Bro!
This is sad. Its the reality. I've been trying to save money to buy a ride, Now, I'm picking from the saving to give out

Times have changed. But I never stop telling young people to live within theirs means. Though their were fewer related beggars then,but leaving within their means really helped our parents in savings