How Self Love and Self Esteem can be kept from becoming toxic:
Self Love and self esteem are two essential catalysts of extensive and radiant self development.
The only problem in some cases is that some folks let their self love and self esteem get blown out of proportion and then they become toxic.
Self love doesn't have to turn anyone into an egomaniac or narcissist.
You first need to acknowledge that you do not exist in this world for yourself alone.
This fact is the first impression that life gives to you by making you come through parents.
If you were designed to exist only for yourself in this earth, God would have just thrown you down from heaven like he did to Satan.
So your passing through the process of conception, birth, infancy and extensive nurturing from your parents and family are the first signs that your existence here on earth is also for impacting others positively.
The aim of self love and self esteem is not to turn oneself into a blackhole that sucks others dry but to become a fountain of fresh water that others can come and drink from or a candle light that can be used to light up other candles.
So simply understand that being your best self is aimed at inspiring others to become their best selves too.
Remain Faithful, Remain Blessed!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani