So I posted some time of falling into deep temptation of using escort service in Toronto and paying $500 for an hour of sex. Thought it would be a one off something but I’ve spent thousand of dollars in that habit and recently wanted to go to Miami or Las Vegas to see a really pretty girl for $1,500 an hour. God save me

So recently my Cousin in Nigeria posted a really pretty girl on his status , the girl is 21 and in second year of school and right now I’m really thinking of settling down in 2-3 year time . I’m 26 years old

I’m just curious from those experienced here can long distance relationship work or I’m just deceiving myself.

I honestly really like the girl though haven’t really spoken much with her only few things like she’s from Edo state and schools in port harcourt (Uni port) and she’s in second year and her age being 21 . Basic stuffs but she’s really pretty and she attends same church with my cousin in port harcourt. But my cousin said she’s a really good and decent girl.

I’m thinking of giving this a shot and probably delivering myself from spending lots of money here on girls . I don’t really like western women for marriage , the divorce rate and all scared me a lot , want someone who values the fundamental principles of marriage.

Would appreciate advice

canada123:
So I posted some time of falling into deep temptation of using escort service in Toronto and paying $500 for an hour of sex. Thought it would be a one off something but I’ve spent thousand of dollars in that habit and recently wanted to go to Miami or Las Vegas to see a really pretty girl for $1,500 an hour. God save me

So recently my Cousin in Nigeria posted a really pretty girl on his status , the girl is 21 and in second year of school and right now I’m really thinking of settling down in 2-3 year time . I’m 26 years old

I’m just curious from those experienced here can long distance relationship work or I’m just deceiving myself.

I honestly really like the girl though haven’t really spoken much with her only few things like she’s from Edo state and schools in port harcourt (Uni port) and she’s in second year and her age being 21 . Basic stuffs but she’s really pretty and she attends same church with my cousin in port harcourt. But my cousin said she’s a really good and decent girl.

I’m thinking of giving this a shot and probably delivering myself from spending lots of money here on girls . I don’t really like western women for marriage , the divorce rate and all scared me a lot , want someone who values the fundamental principles of marriage.

Would appreciate advice

Try and talk with the girl first

See if you guys share same interest

Then you can come to Nigeria and see her

Things will naturally develop but don't make it seem like you want to marry her off the bat.

If you like her after all these things, then you fit start dey reason marriage

But try understand first how to protect all your assets present and future from 'divorce rape'

Set up companies and NGOs, try and own as little as you can in your name

Most of your assets should be in the company and the NGO.

In Nigeria, you don't pay inheritance tax on company assets so setting this up this way will help you take care of your kids without losing the bag in case she decides to divorce you or you are incapacitated temporarily.

U can only deceive the dumb,unsound people with this Arabian night story you yarn here.

Geovanni412:


Try and talk with the girl first

See if you guys share same interest

Then you can come to Nigeria and see her

Things will naturally develop but don't make it seem like you want to marry her off the bat.

If you like her after all these things, then you fit start dey reason marriage

But try understand first how to protect all your assets present and future from 'divorce rape'

Set up companies and NGOs, try and own as little as you can in your name

Most of your assets should be in the company and the NGO.

In Nigeria, you don't pay inheritance tax on company assets so setting this up this way will help you take care of your kids without losing the bag in case she decides to divorce you or you are incapacitated temporarily.

Completely agree .

I was thinking if it gets to marriage would do it at ikoyi or thereabout . The court there or so. I know friends that do that. So if anything happens wouldn’t be tried under Canadian court or law. Cause our marriage won’t be recognized by the Canadian law court . So we would be tried under Nigerian law. Which favours everyone lol. No 50% of asset and crazy child support and all.

But hopefully no divorce or anything happens .

But I’m thinking too far. Like you said, would get to know her first and use my cousin to keep checking on her and probably see her senior sister, he told me she’s in port harcourt that’s the senior sister now.

But the parents are in Edo , Benin

Just hope everything works out well

And I’m not deceiving or wasting my time and all.

Commot body for unimportant girls oh

canada123:
So I posted some time of falling into deep temptation of using escort service in Toronto and paying $500 for an hour of sex. Thought it would be a one off something but I’ve spent thousand of dollars in that habit and recently wanted to go to Miami or Las Vegas to see a really pretty girl for $1,500 an hour. God save me

So recently my Cousin in Nigeria posted a really pretty girl on his status , the girl is 21 and in second year of school and right now I’m really thinking of settling down in 2-3 year time . I’m 26 years old

I’m just curious from those experienced here can long distance relationship work or I’m just deceiving myself.

I honestly really like the girl though haven’t really spoken much with her only few things like she’s from Edo state and schools in port harcourt (Uni port) and she’s in second year and her age being 21 . Basic stuffs but she’s really pretty and she attends same church with my cousin in port harcourt. But my cousin said she’s a really good and decent girl.

I’m thinking of giving this a shot and probably delivering myself from spending lots of money here on girls . I don’t really like western women for marriage , the divorce rate and all scared me a lot , want someone who values the fundamental principles of marriage.

Would appreciate advice

take it from me, dem go Dey bang am

akube34:
take it from me, dem go Dey bang am

Honestly it’s painful to say but , if she genuinely like me and all I might forgive cause she’s 21 and in her second year the chances of this happening is really high and i would be naive to think she would be holy and all. Even me sef I’m not holy , most people that pass through university no how it goes. But I’m hoping she’s matured mentally and understand how things work.

canada123:


Honestly it’s painful to say but , if she genuinely like me and all I might forgive cause she’s 21 and in her second year the chances of this happening is really high and i would be naive to think she would be holy and all. Even me sef I’m not holy , most people that pass through university no how it goes. But I’m hoping she’s matured mentally and understand how things work.

ok then you don’t have an issue. As long as you are ok with the other guys