Why does my younger sister want to kill me? We had a fight this morning, and she went ballistic again. I had to rush to the neighbors house to hide for the time being, and I haven't returned home. My younger sister detests me to no end. Even my parents are scared of her, but I have never seen her go violent with them or my siblings, but only me. I don't know what I did to deserve so much hate from her; she hates seeing me. I went home yesterday because we are currently on break at school. Typically, I don't go home because I know the kind of demon waiting for me at home. I'm always careful around her because anything could set her off. I'm really afraid of her. She has attempted to kill me before, but she failed. I know she will try it again.

I recall she never showed up to even check on me when I was seriously ill and on the verge of death in the hospital. I could see the disappointment on her face when I returned home after being released from the hospital. She didn't even look at my side, much less stand up to hug me as my other siblings rushed to give me a hug and some even gave me a peck.
I once slapped her during a fight we had. My sister hurried into the kitchen to get a knife. Without hesitation, I knew that if I waited for her, she would stab me, possibly killing me, so I hurried to the bathroom and closed the door from inside. My attempts to understand why she always treats me violently have been ineffective. I have periodically pleaded with her for us to be at peace. She continuously claims that I will change, but nothing has ever changed!

I'm beyond frustrated. Due to a medical problem I have, I normally cannot defend myself. I have no chance of defeating her because of how strong she is. She is in charge in the home. My parents are doing nothing to stop this vicious brat, What can I do, please? I'm 22; she is 19.

Allow her to stab you with knife
Then give her a pistol to shoot you

Ndi nzuzu

BOSSkesh:
Allow her to stab you with knife
Then give her a pistol to shoot you

Ndi nzuzu

You could've keep shut when you have nothing good to say

Barims:
Why does my younger sister want to kill me? We had a fight this morning, and she went ballistic again. I had to rush to the neighbors house to hide for the time being, and I haven't returned home. My younger sister detests me to no end. Even my parents are scared of her, but I have never seen her go violent with them or my siblings, but only me. I don't know what I did to deserve so much hate from her; she hates seeing me. I went home yesterday because we are currently on break at school. Typically, I don't go home because I know the kind of demon waiting for me at home. I'm always careful around her because anything could set her off. I'm really afraid of her. She has attempted to kill me before, but she failed. I know she will try it again.

I recall she never showed up to even check on me when I was seriously ill and on the verge of death in the hospital. I could see the disappointment on her face when I returned home after being released from the hospital. She didn't even look at my side, much less stand up to hug me as my other siblings rushed to give me a hug and some even gave me a peck.
I once slapped her during a fight we had. My sister hurried into the kitchen to get a knife. Without hesitation, I knew that if I waited for her, she would stab me, possibly killing me, so I hurried to the bathroom and closed the door from inside. My attempts to understand why she always treats me violently have been ineffective. I have periodically pleaded with her for us to be at peace. She continuously claims that I will change, but nothing has ever changed!

I'm beyond frustrated. Due to a medical problem I have, I normally cannot defend myself. I have no chance of defeating her because of how strong she is. She is in charge in the home. My parents are doing nothing to stop this vicious brat, What can I do, please? I'm 22; she is 19.

Booked for further review.

You don't need to get thugs rather get your parents to have her undergo psychological assessment.....there are mental health issues your narration alludes.

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What about your other siblings?

Mindlog:
You don't need to get thugs rather get your parents to have her undergo psychological assessment.....there are mental health issues your narration alludes.

This is a very good advise sir, but i don't think there's any psychological/counseling service in Nigeria

Mindlog:
You don't need to get thugs rather get your parents to have her undergo psychological assessment.....there are mental health issues your narration alludes.

Her or both of them? Seems the girl goes out of her way to avoid him on occasion so how sure are you that she alone needs help in this?

Barims:
■ I recall she never showed up to even check on me when I was seriously ill and on the verge of death in the hospital. I could see the disappointment on her face when I returned home after being released from the hospital. She didn't even look at my side, much less stand up to hug me as my other siblings rushed to give me a hug and some even gave me a peck.
I once slapped her during a fight we had. My sister hurried into the kitchen to get a knife. Without hesitation, I knew that if I waited for her, she would stab me, possibly killing me, so I hurried to the bathroom and closed the door from inside. My attempts to understand why she always treats me violently have been ineffective. I have periodically pleaded with her for us to be at peace. She continuously claims that I will change, but nothing has ever changed!
■ I'm beyond frustrated. Due to a medical problem I have, I normally cannot defend myself. I have no chance of defeating her because of how strong she is. She is in charge in the home. My parents are doing nothing to stop this vicious brat, What can I do, please? I'm 22; she is 19.

From your story, it seems your sister tries to avoid you, so why not avoid her as well? Why don't you both give each other the silent treatment until you are individually able to figure out exactly what it is about the other that grinds your gears?

Can you give us a typical example of how one of these many fights started? I mean what led up to your sister pulling a knife on you yesterday? What was the disagreement about? How did it escalate into a physical confrontation?

Kobojunkie:
Her or him? Seems the girl goes out of her way to avoid him on occasion so how sure are you that she alone needs help in this?

The knife ......It starts with her then as a family, family therapy sessions.

Avoid her

If you can't face her 1on1 with 2x2 wood in your hands to flog her then look for somewhere to stay.

Kobojunkie:
From your story, it seems your sister tries to avoid you, so why not avoid her as well? Why don't you both give each other the silent treatment until you are individually able to figure out exactly what it is about the other that grinds your gears?

Can you give us a typical example of how one of these many fights started? I mean what led up to your sister pulling a knife on you yesterday? What was the disagreement about? How did it escalate into a physical confrontation?

It was over the remote. I was sitting in the living room watching television when she appeared out of nowhere, snatched the remote, and changed the station. I calmly told her that what she did was wrong and highly disrespectful, and then I told her to change the channel back to where it was before. She shrugged, and I rose up to withdraw the remote from her. She pushed me angrily, intending to hurt me. I got up angrily, and slapped her hard. Then she burst out laughing like a devil, and it was at that moment I knew I'd bleeped up.

Barims:
■ It was over the remote. I was sitting in the living room watching television when she appeared out of nowhere, snatched the remote, and changed the station. I calmly told her that what she did was wrong and highly disrespectful, and then I told her to change the channel back to where it was before. She shrugged, and I rose up to withdraw the remote from her. She pushed me angrily, intending to hurt me. I got up angrily, and slapped her hard. Then she burst out laughing like a devil, and it was at that moment I knew I'd bleeped up.

This reminds me of the daily fight between a 5-year-old and a 7-year-old, both boys. But you are 22 and your sister is 19 so it is really hilarious to imagine two adults engaged in the same. Aren't you maybe able to overlook most of her attention-seeking antics? Maybe walk away from her when she comes raising dust as she did? Maybe go out to take a walk or hang out with your friends when she gets in that mood?

Barims:
She is in charge in the home. My parents are doing nothing to stop this vicious brat, What can I do, please? I'm 22; she is 19.

Your 19 year old younger sister dey chase u from house & shame no catch u to post this kind thing online? Smh

How did it get this bad.

I know siblings do have fall out from time to time, but to this extent,.. 🤷

Are you sure she's not suffering bipolar disorder?

Na to arrange soldiers lock her for guard room beat Shege and the demons comot from her body, then her body go cool down

Barims:
Why does my younger sister want to kill me? We had a fight this morning, and she went ballistic again. I had to rush to the neighbors house to hide for the time being, and I haven't returned home. My younger sister detests me to no end. Even my parents are scared of her, but I have never seen her go violent with them or my siblings, but only me. I don't know what I did to deserve so much hate from her; she hates seeing me. I went home yesterday because we are currently on break at school. Typically, I don't go home because I know the kind of demon waiting for me at home. I'm always careful around her because anything could set her off. I'm really afraid of her. She has attempted to kill me before, but she failed. I know she will try it again.

I recall she never showed up to even check on me when I was seriously ill and on the verge of death in the hospital. I could see the disappointment on her face when I returned home after being released from the hospital. She didn't even look at my side, much less stand up to hug me as my other siblings rushed to give me a hug and some even gave me a peck.
I once slapped her during a fight we had. My sister hurried into the kitchen to get a knife. Without hesitation, I knew that if I waited for her, she would stab me, possibly killing me, so I hurried to the bathroom and closed the door from inside. My attempts to understand why she always treats me violently have been ineffective. I have periodically pleaded with her for us to be at peace. She continuously claims that I will change, but nothing has ever changed!

I'm beyond frustrated. Due to a medical problem I have, I normally cannot defend myself. I have no chance of defeating her because of how strong she is. She is in charge in the home. My parents are doing nothing to stop this vicious brat, What can I do, please? I'm 22; she is 19.

I will ask you just one question

Is it possible that you don't put your mouth or hand in anything patterning her in that house

I mean just don't involve her name on any matter in that house
Because wall have ears and it may get to her ear

But am still wondering why your parents are tolerating such nonsense at home

One day by the time she is fine with you, she will pick up your parents

But when next she tries nonsense with you and just go to the police station make a report and there after move out of that house if you have anywhere to stay

If care is not taken she may develop pyschiatric issues within herself

frozen70:


I will ask you just one question

Is it possible that you don't put your mouth or hand in anything patterning her in that house

I mean just don't involve her name on any matter in that house
Because wall have ears and it may get to her ear

But am still wondering why your parents are tolerating such nonsense at home

One day by the time she is fine with you, she will pick up your parents

But when next she tries nonsense with you and just go to the police station make a report and there after move out of that house if you have anywhere to stay

If care is not taken she may develop pyschiatric issues within herself

By calling the police on her, I think I'm gonna put myself in more serious problem. Definitely after being released from police custody she would come after me again. She is a really crazy person (psychopath) and they don't back down, no matter what.....

Barims:



By calling the police on her, I think I'm gonna put myself in more serious problem. Definitely after being released from police custody she would come after me again. She is a really crazy person (psychopath) and they don't back down, no matter what.....

Ok rule that out if that's the case

But you need to relocate to avoid her stabbing you to death

Your Sister ,might be suffering from some mental diseases. No normal human behave that way.

frozen70:


Ok rule that out if that's the case

But you need to relocate to avoid her stabbing you to death

Yes thank you, I'm at my friend's house I'm very safe here

Yikes 😬
Apparently she’s mentally unstable!!!!!
What’s your parents doing or saying in all of this tho??

pretydiva:
Are you sure she's not suffering bipolar disorder?

Na to arrange soldiers lock her for guard room beat Shege and the demons comot from her body, then her body go cool down

A person struggling with mental disorders do not the barbaric intervention of Nigerian soldiers but mental health professionals, even if it bipolar disorder, it got nothing to do with demons nor can it be beaten out.

Mindlog:


A person struggling with mental disorders do not the barbaric intervention of Nigerian soldiers but mental health professionals, even if it bipolar disorder, it got nothing to do with demons nor can it be beaten out.

She needs beating first before seeing a medical professional

Rubbiish:

Your 19 year old younger sister dey chase u from house & shame no catch u to post this kind thing online? Smh

younger siblings are mostly stronger than their elder siblings, I wouldn't know why though.

pretydiva:

She needs beating first before seeing a medical professional

So medieval!😂😂😂

What you advocate was actually part of the dark ages of Psychology, which is taught when studying psychopathology as then even Europeans believed that mental illness was caused by witchcraft, sufferers are being possessed by demons as they did spiritualized mental illness. In those days, they even used to crack open a part of the skulls of those who suffered depression as they believed the blood that came out was the "bad blood" that caused depression, which over the centuries have proven to be sheer ignorance.

Beating a person struggling with mental disorder(s) is not a treatment plan....it is criminal.

Mindlog:


So medieval!😂😂😂

What you advocate was actually part of the dark ages of Psychology, which is taught when studying psychopathology as then even Europeans believed that mental illness was caused by witchcraft, sufferers are being possessed by demons as they did spiritualized mental illness. In those days, they even used to crack open a part of the skulls of those who suffered depression as they believed the blood that came out was the "bad blood" that caused depression, which over the centuries have proven to be sheer ignorance.

Beating a person struggling with mental disorder(s) is not a treatment plan....it is criminal.

You should probably go back and read the thread's topic, maybe then you will understand my comment. Bye!

Younger sis? Ur parents got a lot to do... The foundation not well laid... Hw many yrs gap?