Jennyclay:
If I can’t go through my man phone, then he shouldn’t go through my phone.

I must know his password to his phone and ATM card.

Ole thief

Kobojunkie:
Any woman who suggests this to others is not in a marriage herself but a prison defined by such restrictions. If you are not free to even look at your partner's phone, then you might as well say you are just fuckmates?

Think well...checking is different from having access to the fone and use it when necessary...

Not scrolling check WhatsApp who he is chatting with , check Facebook, messages , call record ... detective wife

Joezik:
■ Think well...checking is different from having access to the fone and use it when necessary... Not scrolling check WhatsApp who he is chatting with , check Facebook, messages , call record ... detective wife

When it is necessary and when it is not necessary? If she is not allowed to scroll-check all that, does that mean she has access?

boxypane:
■ You are wrong here sir, I think you need to check the meaning of Privacy! The thing is there's nothing wrong in using your partners phone but invading into conversations such as messages or calls that does not concern your partner is the problem. We feel too entitled in this part of the world.

Privacy in marriage?

If M was checking Y's fone once in a while, all this emerging embarrassing nonsense would have been checked since with no baby outside the matrimonial home.

Deerahone:
One of the things that scattered my marriage. She went to the extent of bugging my phone through all those hackers on Facebook.

Anything she didn't understand she will jump to conclusion and attack me with only assumptions. She is cooling off in her father's house now.

Whoever she marries later she will mind her business.

was she not working to be cooling of at her fathers house .old school talk

victorazy:


To every good prophecy & destiny, there is Devil to fight it just to make God a liar BUT He can not lie (that's why Jesus spoke with parables so that Devil won't understand it). We all know that Obi won, you know, Tinubu knw "I know many ppl didn't vote for me", " I know ur disappointed ur candidate is not standing where am standing now". Even nature displayed it.

Win wetin

Rebelutionary:

I totally agree with you! It used to be men pushing this but now women have bought into this lie of "don't touch his phone" and if the woman shouldn't touch her husband's phone, how many other things should she not touch in the name of "minding my business". I am a man but find it nauseating that women are been fed this nonsense and men are riding on it to the death of their marriages!

The same way they tell abused wives to stay and pray even though one tooth is missing.
Osinachi came to mind.

Nigerian religious men don't know how to differentiate between narcissism, proudness and being head of the house as christ is.

descarado:

The same way they tell abused wives to stay and pray even though one tooth is missing.
Osinachi came to mind.

Nigerian religious men don't know how to differentiate between narcissism, proudness and being head of the house as christ is.

You're just talking completely off point for heavens sake. You're not even talking in context.


What she means is a scenario where a combative or mischievous woman may want to snoop around her husbands devices in the bid to control or monitor..that attitude breaks trust and break up homes

If two of you agree to have your phones open to each other that Is fine but if the other party doesn't subscribe to it dont force it. That what shes trying to say...all this mumbo jumbo you're typing is completely unnecessary

Jennyclay:
If I can’t go through my man phone, then he shouldn’t go through my phone.

I must know his password to his phone and ATM card.

You are not ready yet lol. I for one, I don't like going through anybody's phone and nobody should go through my phone. It's called a personal phone for a reason.

ebukajay184:


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsvXqoQAzPV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Any woman that wants to cry a painful cry should keep checking her husband phone until she will see what will frustrate her

Any man that wants to live to regret should keep checking his wife phone till he will see what will put him into depression and anxiety

Left for me, stop checking each others phone with out the approval of the person and if approved go straight to the app you want and hand the phone back to the owner

I don't touch my husband phone because it's not my business to do so and am very ok with that, do you know why
Is because I want absolute peace of mind

The white men that put password in the phone knows that we may have something secrets in the phone

almarthins:


She is in delusion. My wife must check my phone. Na only my account I no gree make she check because woman wants be like Oliver twist matter.

That one is the worst, if woman knows how much you have she will help you calculate how to spend it in advance. The worst thing a woman should know about man is his specific amount of income. You will never progress as a man if a woman knows exactly how much you earn.

ecolime:
For you to snoop on your wife or husband by checking their phones, it means there is no trust in that marriage and your union is also not grounded as well.

I have no reason to secretly check my wife's phone even though we share the same password. Wetin I dey find?

If my wife dey check mine, then na she sabi because there is absolutely nothing to hide. The summary is love your spouse and be faithful to the extent that it's pointless to snoop around their stuffs in search of NOTHING

This is your opinion,every man has a right to determine his destiny. What causes failed marriages in Nigeria is mainly lies told by women to their husband before they got married which the husband now discovered to be a lie after marriage. Nigeria women and girls are known liars and deceptive in nature.

Na she sabi oooo!

ecolime:
For you to snoop on your wife or husband by checking their phones, it means there is no trust in that marriage and your union is also not grounded as well.

I have no reason to secretly check my wife's phone even though we share the same password. Wetin I dey find?

If my wife dey check mine, then na she sabi because there is absolutely nothing to hide. The summary is love your spouse and be faithful to the extent that it's pointless to snoop around their stuffs in search of NOTHING

Human being never shock you sha until then😂

ebukajay184:


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsvXqoQAzPV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

I purposely don’t check phones because no human being is 💯% honest to their partners there’s always something you don’t want to see with your eyes so don’t bother snooping around your partners phone otherwise you go get heartbreak 😂😂😂

Jennyclay:
If I can’t go through my man phone, then he shouldn’t go through my phone.

I must know his password to his phone and ATM card.

And make sure say anytime Him need ur kpekus, be ready to surrender it at free will

Take her advice and live long.

Kobojunkie:
Any woman who suggests this to others is not in a marriage herself but a prison defined by such restrictions. If you are not free to even look at your partner's phone, then you might as well say you are just fuckmates?

Man will always be Man, check my phone at your peril.. Know this and Enjoy your Marriage.

At worst, na the woman go still leave the Marriage, another woman to enter.

ebukajay184:


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsvXqoQAzPV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

It is demonic n criminal to check your spouse's phone

isabi2lof:
If I don't check urs , leave mine alone , if I'm having a doubt about our relationship, I will talk it out with , highest na to go our separate ways . 🥱

Gbam...

Jovialjune1:
For a married man to password his phone, that means he has so many things to hide, meaning he is not to be trusted, and if a marriage is not bound by trust whereby everything is laid bare, that marriage is bound to fail.

Password is against unauthorized invasion of privacy not against family but against invader like thief's and people who wants to steal valuables in your phone

As your phone is your personal property, mine can't be ur property of course...
No even near am...

Lets set the boundaries straight!!!

I don't have his password, he doesn't have mine...E no dey cause quarrel too.
We move!!!!

Jovialjune1:
For a married man to password his phone, that means he has so many things to hide, meaning he is not to be trusted, and if a marriage is not bound by trust whereby everything is laid bare, that marriage is bound to fail.

Mine hasn't failed...

I don't know his password, he doesn't know mine...
We know just the ATM pims...

It doesn't cause quarrel as well....He uses his phone as he likes,I use mine as I like...Matter end there!!!..We would be 8yrs by ember month.

Bigchristo:
I purposely don’t check phones because no human being is 💯% honest to their partners there’s always something you don’t want to see with your eyes so don’t bother snooping around your partners phone otherwise you go get heartbreak 😂😂😂

Lol...

sprints1:
that's rubbish why should a woman check a man' phone if any ladies try that with me she go hear am. Why its my phone.not yours. I won't check hers either what my business with her own.

Wait abd get married.

U think say marriage na the way u dey see am. It is very deeper than this man.

Jennyclay:
If I can’t go through my man phone, then he shouldn’t go through my phone.

I must know his password to his phone and ATM card.

I know you'll be here to post your trash as usual. Ozuoor !

Two things that shouldn't be kept secret:
1.Phone
2.Bank Account Details

1.Phone: should a phone be passworded in the case of an accident or an unforseen circumstances who will be called in the family?
Plenty corpses used as experiment by students doctor are unclaimed victims of either road accident or those that were rushed to the hospital unconscious but couldn't make it out.

2.Bank Account Details:This one has make Bank managers Multi-Millionaire.There are so much unclaimed or dormant account in bank's across the Federation most of the operators of such account are deceased.Imagine telling your family you don't have a penny whereas you're a millionaire in disguise.Who will benefit from such wealth should a cardiac arrest happen

We now live in a pragmatic era where the next minute is not guaranteed.If you must have a secret let your wife or husband be aware; it's very important.
My children and husband can operate my phone,I can operate his phone as well just that I'm always busy.I personally don't do password reason why I prefer just a gadget inorder to safeguard it properly as a market woman

I have 2 Banking App one on my phone the other on my husband's phone of which we both have access
Life is simple it's we humans that are making it complicated for ourselves.A Hausa man will say"Watarana Sai Labari"

If you Love your partner to the extent that you can vouch for them password becomes unnecessary.
Keju.

Kobojunkie:
Any woman who suggests this to others is not in a marriage herself but a prison defined by such restrictions. If you are not free to even look at your partner's phone, then you might as well say you are just fuckmates?

See where maneuvering has landed you?. She is talking about your usual spy games and you are like you just want to see his phone harm_less.

If you can't at least state things truthfully how can one have a honest conversation with you people.


She has 29yrs real marital experience behind her and your probably challenging her with what you hear from tik_tok or what your friends tell you one day like that.

It depends on how trust plays in ones marriage for example, I know his password but I find it so hard to even type the password, I'll rather tell him to unlock it. Moreover, i don't really like pokenosing.

AfonjaPriest:

The beggar cum scammer is here.
You should go to your church or mosque to beg and stop using different monikers on NAIRALAND to swindle people.
You have used over 50 monikers to beg. If you are genuine, you should have been known with one moniker. Using many is a clear indication you are a fraud.
The way I see it, you'll soon get deliverance from the Devil. Keep thinking you are deceiving people. There is nothing hidden that will not be revealed; covered that will not be opened.
The great day of your revelation is at hand. Be expectant, because surely it will come.

Don't mind the silly account number using different cuck and bull stories to deceive people here. It's because of things like this that is why some people don't help on nairaland.