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Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Mboi: 11:15am On Jun 17, 2023
DamnnNiggarr:
shocked

Infidelity can never be a crime because, it is an agreement between 2(Two) adults.
Which two adults? Be exposing yourself...
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by ogunsbanjul(m): 11:17am On Jun 17, 2023
Because those lawmakers who are to pass the bill are actively involved. Simple answer though difficult to accept but that's the reality on ground
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by tunjilana: 11:22am On Jun 17, 2023
Because marriage is a contract not a law....if u break the clauses of any contract, the other party will only have to activate the penalty via a lawsuit and dazol. Police will not arrest u for breaking a contract, the best they can do is encourage the other party to sue u to activate the consequences....in marriage na divorce be the consequence, if the other party wanna file....but if they feel the benefit they get still outweighs ur error and no better deal out there and thus decide not to sue....life goes on

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Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Kelechi009: 11:35am On Jun 17, 2023
folake4u:
The law governing Southern Nigeria (Criminal Code) provides that Adultery is NOT a crime.

However, the Penal Code predominantly used in Northern Nigeria makes Adultery a crime in their parts.

Quick question, please does it mean if I travel from Kano to Lagos to commit adultery, I will not be charged to court? Afterall I didn’t commit the adultery in the North?
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Maysdevices(f): 11:36am On Jun 17, 2023
SugarGirl44:
Then everybody would be an ex convict because nobody is innocent, even your so called pastors and alfas, they’re the worst.

Without good food and sex, this world would be a terrible boring place, so nobody should be jailed for indulging in it. But you just have to use your sense and not abuse it, that’s all.

They didn’t create somebody’s body part exclusively for one person alone abeg.
The stay on your own and sleep with the whole world since you’re public property.

No one forced you to get into a relationship.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by forexprophet(m): 11:38am On Jun 17, 2023
Including your parents

SugarGirl44:
Then everybody would be an ex convict because nobody is innocent, even your so called pastors and alfas, they’re the worst.

Without good food and sex, this world would be a terrible boring place, so nobody should be jailed for indulging in it. But you just have to use your sense and not abuse it, that’s all.

They didn’t create somebody’s body part exclusively for one person alone abeg.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by ObosiUkwalla: 11:39am On Jun 17, 2023
DamnnNiggarr:
shocked

Infidelity can never be a crime because, it is an agreement between 2(Two) adults.

But if two adults agree to rob a store, it is a criminal offence right?
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Babastrong(m): 11:40am On Jun 17, 2023
If*you*don't*see*the*NUT*in*the*BOLT*and*atleast*a*witness*,"no*case".
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Maysdevices(f): 11:40am On Jun 17, 2023
Akwamkpuruamu:


Not for the man but for the woman
Lol. This same north? The women are the worst.

Dey play
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by histemple: 11:41am On Jun 17, 2023
finallybusy:
Most marriage contracts are signed in court. Why isn’t infidelity a crime?

No marriage is signed in Court please. The court doesn't conduct marriages neither does it issue marriage certificate.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Kobicove(m): 11:42am On Jun 17, 2023
finallybusy:
Most marriage contracts are signed in court. Why isn’t infidelity a crime?

Infidelity is regarded as a moral infraction in law and not a crime
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by offongk(m): 11:43am On Jun 17, 2023
Maybe you were trying to say northern Nigeria

Southern Nigeria is one wife and one hundred @ 70% while north marry 4 wife at will



folake4u:
The law governing Southern Nigeria (Criminal Code) provides that Adultery is NOT a crime.

However, the Penal Code predominantly used in Northern Nigeria makes Adultery a crime in their parts.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by bukatyne(f): 11:55am On Jun 17, 2023
finallybusy:
Most marriage contracts are signed in court. Why isn’t infidelity a crime?

Does the marriage contract criminalize adultery? Don't think so.

While it tells you to forsake all others, it doesn't stipulate a punishment if you don't.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by baralatie(m): 11:56am On Jun 17, 2023
Acidosis:
Under the Nigeria's Marriage Act, infidelity will only be a ground for divorce if the spouse finds it intolerable. Where the spouse finds it intolerable, the worst the court can do is to terminate the marriage.
In the north penal code
[b][infidelity in any form once proven is a crime and attracts jail term/b]
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Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by bukatyne(f): 11:56am On Jun 17, 2023
folake4u:
The law governing Southern Nigeria (Criminal Code) provides that Adultery is NOT a crime.

However, the Penal Code predominantly used in Northern Nigeria makes Adultery a crime in their parts.

Interesting.

You mean Sharia law supercedes the Criminal Code in Northern Nigeria?
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by baralatie(m): 11:58am On Jun 17, 2023
bukatyne:


Interesting.

You mean Sharia law supercedes the Criminal Code in Northern Nigeria?
Not Sharia law
Adultery is a criminal offence under the Penal Code of Northern Nigeria. Section 387 and 388 stipulate imprisonment for two years, and/or with a fine for adultery.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by baralatie(m): 12:02pm On Jun 17, 2023
Kobicove:


Infidelity is regarded as a moral infraction in law and not a crime
Depends on the part of Nigeria you are referring to
North and south view infidelity differently
While in the south the high court will dis vow the marriage on the grounds of infidelity(proven) without pursuing the matter further
The north in the high court can pursue the infidelity further if the affected wants to because of this
Adultery is a criminal offence under the Penal Code of Northern Nigeria. Section 387 and 388 stipulate imprisonment for two years, and/or with a fine for adultery.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Odidigboigbo(m): 12:03pm On Jun 17, 2023
hotwax:


They should also legalize polygamy then
is polygamy illegal?
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by bukatyne(f): 12:03pm On Jun 17, 2023
baralatie:

Not Sharia law
Adultery is a criminal offence under the Penal Code of Northern Nigeria. Section 387 and 388 stipulate imprisonment for two years, and/or with a fine for adultery.

Southern Nigeria (SE, SS and SW) has a different penal Code from Northern Nigeria?

Is this like US system where each state are autonomous to have state laws or Nigeria has a Criminal Code and the North decided to have theirs?

Does the Nigerian constitution apply in the North?
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by baralatie(m): 12:08pm On Jun 17, 2023
When it comes to marital laws in Nigeria.tye constitution is clear on what is considered been married and what can be pursued and what the responsibilities are!
It is a very technical issue .so the courts assume what you are getting into before approaching it.
Proving infidelity in Nigerian court is not easy .so just give your reason for divorce and the courts will just say ok.
But when you start looking for how to jail or harm the other partner.the court will just delay the two of for 10 to 20 years.since you both are not serious.🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴🚴
What am I typing sef✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by phemmyfour: 12:12pm On Jun 17, 2023
finallybusy:
Most marriage contracts are signed in court. Why isn’t infidelity a crime?
Not when another law give you the license to have another woman
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by baralatie(m): 12:18pm On Jun 17, 2023
bukatyne:


Southern Nigeria (SE, SS and SW) has a different penal Code from Northern Nigeria?

Is this like US system where each state are autonomous to have state laws or Nigeria has a Criminal Code and the North decided to have theirs?

Does the Nigerian constitution apply in the North?
Hmm!
The problem is not straight forward when you are dealing with marital laws in Nigeria!
If one was duly married under the nigerias constitution recognized by the high court of nigeria.the person has no problem with what is required on the course of action.
But constitution also recognizes the customary marriages as legitimate marriage and adopts those penal codes.(howbeit with rules of application)
So there you have it
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by funkeyuche: 12:21pm On Jun 17, 2023
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Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by bekpo(m): 12:22pm On Jun 17, 2023
SugarGirl44:


Calm down alaye. Lol.
Who is an infidel?
The oyinbo people who coined that word for you have left you behind and are now into same sex marriage.

This life isn’t as hard as you religious people take it, just have fun in moderation and don’t hurt others, that’s all. So stop following your fellow humans and use your brain.

I’m even speaking more for men cos it medically proven that less frequent sex is dangerous for you, and here you are insulting me.

Lastly, I’m Batified so I’m glad that lying anambra petty trader didn’t win too.

Same sex marriage; yes if u have sex with anyone other than ur partner, it's adultry. So, r u suggesting that if i shud marry, i should leave my partner n have sex with another lady but it should b in moderation?

Less frequent sex (agreed) is dangerous 2 health. However, the frequency of sex should b done with ur partner 2 avoid avoidable ailment. Men shouldn't hide under such excuse 2 b promiscuous.

Batist, u don fall my hand oh. But we can relate.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by folake4u(f): 12:28pm On Jun 17, 2023
bukatyne:


Interesting.

You mean Sharia law supercedes the Criminal Code in Northern Nigeria?

Of course not. Sharia Law governs the North ONLY. The Penal Code is for North while the Criminal Code governs the South.

I was just stating the difference earlier that Adultery is NOT a crime in Southern Nigeria.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by unscripted(m): 12:30pm On Jun 17, 2023
finallybusy:
You can go against a contract. That is a crime. Doing so is punishable by law.
there is a difference between criminal law and law of tort
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by folake4u(f): 12:33pm On Jun 17, 2023
offongk:

Maybe you were trying to say northern Nigeria

Southern Nigeria is one wife and one hundred @ 70% while north marry 4 wife at will




I don't think you understood what I wrote. Read it again.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by folake4u(f): 12:34pm On Jun 17, 2023
Kelechi009:


Quick question, please does it mean if I travel from Kano to Lagos to commit adultery, I will not be charged to court? Afterall I didn’t commit the adultery in the North?

Commit the adultery fess na. undecided
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:43pm On Jun 17, 2023
SugarGirl44:
Then everybody would be an ex convict because nobody is innocent, even your so called pastors and alfas, they’re the worst.

Without good food and sex, this world would be a terrible boring place, so nobody should be jailed for indulging in it. But you just have to use your sense and not abuse it, that’s all.

They didn’t create somebody’s body part exclusively for one person alone abeg.

Would you consider sleeping with another man asides from your husband if you are married or not? I'm asking going by your last paragraph.
Re: Why Isn’t Infidelity A Crime? by Angel55555(m): 12:52pm On Jun 17, 2023
finallybusy:
You can go against a contract. That is a crime. Doing so is punishable by law.
Contracts are civil in nature, not criminal.

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