Wow!!
omoh una dey amaze me oh, I have never been in a serious relationship before in my life. Never!!
sarewagba dey but I never jam serious person before

Talking from experience

Thanks I have learned.
Am not pained only disappointed I didn't succeed. Your own karma is loading too. It's just that, you won't be courageous enough to spill it here.
It's all good though

Monzze:


it might be karma hitting you hard. Relax and learn.
The more you fight it, the more you get wounded

Divoc19:
Oh, thank you. I had trauma when I also lost my 6years old daughter due to this marriage crisis. My mum took me in for months. I think am okay but a professional evaluation should be profitable too. Thanks again

Sorry for your loss and all you’ve been through. Stay strong good things will come your way

Divoc19:
Thanks I have learned.
Am not pained only disappointed I didn't succeed. Your own karma is loading too. It's just that, you won't be courageous enough to spill it here.
It's all good though

Such things don't hurt me anymore. cos I'm not trying to eat my cake and have it.
I might not be able to talk about it because I learned the best way.

you can't take it to yourself alone, that's why you brought it here. You learned the hard way and it's a bitter pill for you to swallow. You should be alright after all.😁

There are different colours of mass destruction, choose wisely...

Divoc19:
Have only had 2relationships before marriage. 11 years of endurance don do. I don't want to personalize the message though

In this 11 years, have you always been a good woman to your husband? Have you been putting in all efforts to make sure that your home is peaceful? Do you respect your man?

Why I am asking all these is because sometimes it might not be the man. Some women always make their homes uninhabitable, a war torn zone for a man to live in.

If you have not been doing all that, or putting in efforts to make peace reign between you and your man, then 50% of the faults is from you as a woman judging from the tone of your write up.

For your information
Marriage is for everyone
The fact that you made a mistake does not make it totally wrong.
Pick up the pieces and find the path of peace.
Marriage is a beautiful thing. Like it or leave it