I was in a toxic relationship with my Ex for 2yrs and those 2yrs were the worst of my life, we barely go a week without physically assaulting each other and at a point she drew a knife at me(she had previously attacked me with a fork before). We later went our separate ways last year and I got into a relationship with a new girl who is an exact opposite of my Ex, the rest of mind she gives me is overwhelming, she’s very productive and money conscious(infact I have reach new heights financially with her).
The problem now is I seem not to have gotten over my Ex and I sometimes travel down to lodge her in a hotel for nice time but deep down I know she’s bad for me and marriage with her would have been a disaster because I have never for a day had issue with this my new girl and the relationship is a year plus which shows I’m not really the problem and something happened yesterday, my Ex went for an overnight party and I blew hot over it to the extent that I had to curse and insult her and her mother because she was raised by a single mother and she has this Ashawo vibes which was always what mostly cause issues with us and right now we’ve blocked each other everywhere. I’m thinking I took it personal that I could have just been eating her lowkey while not bothering about other guys who are collecting their shares but I just couldn’t stand it.

You go like wahala Wella..

Op, you fvcked up like big time..... Via say you don suppose move on with your life........ Personally,I can't imagine myself staying in a toxic relationship for a day or two without going on a japa mission out of that relationship... Since you've found a responsible banny who gives you peace of mind,try lock up that your Ex matter and don't try to compromise this your present relationship because of who almost killed you..

Boom Dig_It!!!

Bloody Hypocrite, so na you get the license to cheat, you get babe still dey bed your EX and still want her to be 100% with you, OP you are one of the major problems we have in this country.

Don't you know whne you allow her to cheat too na when you go get rest of mind unto say she for her mind go know say na just bangs una dey bang.

Broski you don old, you no need to dey vex anyhow like person wey no get sense.

GreatVocalist:
Lol.

You're seeing someone and you claim she gives you peace of mind, yet you secretly visit your ex who didn't give you peace of mind, and was even a threat to your life.

This is weird. There's something your ex gives you that your current partner isn't giving, and it's clearly not peace of mind. My guess is "nice time". Plus it seems you have a death wish, desiring a person who is a threat to your life.

I think you need to sit down and think about what you really want from a relationship, and stop wasting an innocent lady's time.

Yea she’s obviously better in bed than my current gf and that’s down to her years of experience because she’s 28 already while my new gf is just 22. I think that’s the only aspect I’m going to miss her and a friend told me to get someone who’s equally as good as her in bed as a side chick to get over her

Calabar1stSon:
Broski you don old, you need to dey vex anyhow like person wey no get sense.

She’s quite disrespectful and that triggers my emotions. Had to lambast her and her irresponsible single mom

Do you have a big dick?

Your ex have the secret of your weakness which could be sex.

The current lady according to you is productive, meaning you guys won't have enough time together compared to Aunty Adogan who is available anytime

DarkCaesar:
I was in a toxic relationship with my Ex for 2yrs and those 2yrs were the worst of my life, we barely go a week without physically assaulting each other and at a point she drew a knife at me(she had previously attacked me with a fork before). We later went our separate ways last year and I got into a relationship with a new girl who is an exact opposite of my Ex, the rest of mind she gives me is overwhelming, she’s very productive and money conscious(infact I have reach new heights financially with her).
The problem now is I seem not to have gotten over my Ex and I sometimes travel down to lodge her in a hotel for nice time but deep down I know she’s bad for me and marriage with her would have been a disaster because I have never for a day had issue with this my new girl and the relationship is a year plus which shows I’m not really the problem and something happened yesterday, my Ex went for an overnight party and I blew hot over it to the extent that I had to curse and insult her and her mother because she was raised by a single mother and she has this Ashawo vibes which was always what mostly cause issues with us and right now we’ve blocked each other everywhere. I’m thinking I took it personal that I could have just been eating her lowkey while not bothering about other guys who are collecting their shares but I just couldn’t stand it.

You are a confused man and quess what? She will kill you one day

NBAjunior:
Do you have a big dick?

If 8 with a 6 girth could be considered big

helinues:
Your ex have the secret of your weakness which could be sex.

The current lady according to you is productive, meaning you guys won't have enough time together compared to Aunty Adogan who is available anytime

She’s always available whenever I need her for sex even if it’s after 8 I arrived her city cos we are in different states though I doubt if we would ever meet again after my outburst

He get luck say she no stab am.

heffem:
You go like wahala Wella..

DarkCaesar:

If 8 with a 6 girth could be considered big

Baba is big ooo