There are many pathetic stories out there of how sisters used up to 6 months to answer proposal from brother (some even take up to one year) but why will you take an eternity to answer I want to marry you?
Here are some reasons:

1. Most sisters still believe that the longer and harder the answer, the more valuable he is to a man. So even when they know that a particular bro is the one, they still want to play hard to get.

Mtcheww. Lie. A brother values you based on two things;

a. The value you placed on yourself.

You can't enter a relationship yesterday and your gas is finished, your house is rent due, grandma swallowed cutlass, your data is finished, no food today, and expect any reasonable guy to take you seriously. Ko possible.

b. His values about women and womanhood. If he has a warped mentality about women, there is nothing you can do to change it.

2. Some are waiting for another brother. They are single but they are expecting bro Moses to propose but it was brother Jude that ask them out.

While they keep Brother Jude in limbo with, 'I am still praying about it,' meanwhile they are giving out red, green, and white, tomato red lights to Brother Moses. Meanwhile Brother Moses is never interested. So when they see that after 7 months of no-shows from Brother Moses, they now said yes to Brother Jude.

Bro Jude was an option and peradventure after two years of dating Brother Jude and Brother Moses had broken up with sister Jane, and he came proposing, most of them will dump innocent bro Jude with the usual narrative of 'not all relationships will end in marriage.'

Las las bro Moses si ma je oju won.

3. Some are just wicked: these set of sisters have well-defined relationships but instead of them to tell Brother Zach that they are engaged they will neither say yes nor no especially if Brother Zach is monetarily loaded and is a giver.

They will just be leading Brother Zach on like a sheep to its slaughter.

Worst still, he will not let brother Zach look into the direction of other godly sisters in the church.

Na their kind dey vex if you no call dem daily whereas you are not their boyfriends oooooooo.

An innocent bro will even wash their pants if he is so much in love with them.

To such wicked sisters, God will judge you.

4. The Confused set : seriously these sets of sisters are confused.

Some of them have too many proposals on their tables and in some cases, 99% of the proposals are from real brothers with verifiable Christian experiences . So they are genuinely confused.

Korean films don make most of our sisters to start building castles in the air.

You wan compare Poo Gyan Moo who grew up with constant electricity, running water, good education to Bro Emeka wey be that the last time wey he see light be like last December before their transformer blow. Dey play ooo just get play ooo.

Some of these sisters are out of reality. Know this, no purposeful man in this era will run after you for six months this day so stop delaying unnecessarily.

Sister, Enoch Adeboye with Davido vibe no dey for this kingdom.

Some of these confused sisters need 6 months to pray. If not confusion, why will you need six months to receive answer from your heavenly Father.

For this set, counseling and discipleship will do.

5. Long and devasting breakfast: this group doesn't don't want to repeat the mistake of the past so they hold on longer than necessary to be double sure this time around.

Well, we can't blame them save to pray for them for divine healing for their heart.

6. Lastly, some brothers too, are mumu. They no dey hear words. Sister Jane has repeatedly told you no but you are still disturbing her. Bro, fear God

If she said no, respect her no, and if she wasn't forthcoming with any answer after two months, take her silence as no. If not, you are about to be used.

May you not jam time wasters in Jesus name.
Ire oooooooo

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Aladeintl:

There are many pathetic stories out there of how sisters used up to 6 months to answer proposal from brother (some even take up to one year) but why will you take an eternity to answer I want to marry you?
Here are some reasons:

1. Most sisters still believe that the longer and harder the answer, the more valuable he is to a man. So even when they know that a particular bro is the one, they still want to play hard to get.

Mtcheww. Lie. A brother values you based on two things;

a. The value you placed on yourself.

You can't enter a relationship yesterday and your gas is finished, your house is rent due, grandma swallowed cutlass, your data is finished, no food today, and expect any reasonable guy to take you seriously. Ko possible.

b. His values about women and womanhood. If he has a warped mentality about women, there is nothing you can do to change it.

2. Some are waiting for another brother. They are single but they are expecting bro Moses to propose but it was brother Jude that ask them out.

While they keep Brother Jude in limbo with, 'I am still praying about it,' meanwhile they are giving out red, green, and white, tomato red lights to Brother Moses. Meanwhile Brother Moses is never interested. So when they see that after 7 months of no-shows from Brother Moses, they now said yes to Brother Jude.

Bro Jude was an option and peradventure after two years of dating Brother Jude and Brother Moses had broken up with sister Jane, and he came proposing, most of them will dump innocent bro Jude with the usual narrative of 'not all relationships will end in marriage.'

Las las bro Moses si ma je oju won.

3. Some are just wicked: these set of sisters have well-defined relationships but instead of them to tell Brother Zach that they are engaged they will neither say yes nor no especially if Brother Zach is monetarily loaded and is a giver.

They will just be leading Brother Zach on like a sheep to its slaughter.

Worst still, he will not let brother Zach look into the direction of other godly sisters in the church.

Na their kind dey vex if you no call dem daily whereas you are not their boyfriends oooooooo.

An innocent bro will even wash their pants if he is so much in love with them.

To such wicked sisters, God will judge you.

4. The Confused set : seriously these sets of sisters are confused.

Some of them have too many proposals on their tables and in some cases, 99% of the proposals are from real brothers with verifiable Christian experiences . So they are genuinely confused.

Korean films don make most of our sisters to start building castles in the air.

You wan compare Poo Gyan Moo who grew up with constant electricity, running water, good education to Bro Emeka wey be that the last time wey he see light be like last December before their transformer blow. Dey play ooo just get play ooo.

Some of these sisters are out of reality. Know this, no purposeful man in this era will run after you for six months this day so stop delaying unnecessarily.

Sister, Enoch Adeboye with Davido vibe no dey for this kingdom.

Some of these confused sisters need 6 months to pray. If not confusion, why will you need six months to receive answer from your heavenly Father.

For this set, counseling and discipleship will do.

5. Long and devasting breakfast: this group doesn't don't want to repeat the mistake of the past so they hold on longer than necessary to be double sure this time around.

Well, we can't blame them save to pray for them for divine healing for their heart.

6. Lastly, some brothers too, are mumu. They no dey hear words. Sister Jane has repeatedly told you no but you are still disturbing her. Bro, fear God

If she said no, respect her no, and if she wasn't forthcoming with any answer after two months, take her silence as no. If not, you are about to be used.

May you not jam time wasters in Jesus name.
Ire oooooooo

#dadkylexy #christiancourtship #christiancourtshipanddatingadvices

Thanks

So this kind worldliness goes on amongst so called Christian brethrens? SMH

Pastor is still collecting his share.