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I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:26pm On Jul 13, 2023
Year after year,misery upon misery,spits.

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by youngreva(m): 11:32pm On Jul 13, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
Year after year,misery upon misery,spits.
God is the rewarder of those who diligently seek him
Go back to God he’s the source.

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by odenkirk: 11:35pm On Jul 13, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
Year after year,misery upon misery,spits.
wish u quick recovery
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:50pm On Jul 13, 2023
youngreva:
God is the rewarder of those who diligently seek him
Go back to God he’s the source.
this aint working.

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by omniwater: 12:57am On Jul 14, 2023
Know yourself!

Who are you?

What is your mission on earth?

What are "must do" and taboos?


You will live a peaceful life if you can answer all these questions.

Life is like walking in the dark to nowhere when you don't know the answers to those questions above.

Nothing happens by accident.
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by youngreva(m): 6:13am On Jul 14, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
this aint working.
Lol

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by pansophist(m): 6:26am On Jul 14, 2023
It won't end, sorry grin

By design, you are born to suffer. Just imagine. You didn't choose your height, gender, nationality, name, parents, birthdate, blood type, siblings, native tongue, personality, and so so so much more.

it's like we are born in a box, with already predetermined foundations that will massively shape the direction our lives take. Foundations we can only coexist with, not altered. So if you are born in a mountainous village in Syria, a child of a renowned Swedish madman will have a better life than you.

Unlike animals, humans have a culture to care for their young for so many years, even more than 18 years, and these sweet beginnings have made a lot of us approach life from an easy mode, and sad when things don't go our way.

When I hear people say, ¨God why me?¨, my knee-jerk response always is, ¨Why not you? Don't you know that to live is to suffer?¨ As I speak to you right now, a lion is probably ripping off a pregnant impala, chewing both the mama and her baby.

Or someone just died via accident somewhere in the world, not because he was driving wrongly, but because the other driver was reckless, and killed him for no fault of his own. So you can do everything right, and still pay the price for a stupid person that did everything wrong.

How can such life be fair? I mean why should I die because you are stupid? But this nonsense happens to animals and humans every day.

The horrors of life that other species understood, or even previous generations experienced, are increasingly becoming alien, as they are replaced with modern problems such as depression, lack of purpose, material poverty etc.

This sad tale of the human story has been the reason many are drawn to religion, philosophy, thinkers, and science, to draw meaning out of this sad story called life.

Anyways, just cope. This is what it means to be alive. Being alive and being at peace is the utmost state of privilege, hence, we always wish the death RIP, because such peace is hardly for the living.

Christians would say that this world is not their home, that they are just passing by. Stoics would say the same thing in a different way, that you should be neutral to suffering, and endure it as you enjoy happiness. All coping mechanisms. Find a way to cope somehow.

Some countries are even taking it further to minimize suffering by making it legal to voluntarily delete yourself from life (e.g Netherlands with Euthanasia).

But most importantly, one absolute thing you can do to minimize to a large extent your suffering in this life is to have sense. Read widely, develop your character, forge your own intellectual path, and get lost in your own route, than finding directions in someone else path.

Immune yourself from being other's slaves either via their manipulations, by your insecurities (eg smoking to feel among, or buying stuff you don't need to impress), by imposed ideologies (e.g., identity politics, etc), and most importantly, treat yourself like someone you truly care for.

Just find a way to cope sha, you are not the only one. We are all in this together. The earlier you start, the better it gets. Life is difficult, but it doesn't have to be difficult for you.

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by Purvan(m): 9:53am On Jul 14, 2023
Just kys ni
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by jackmrandy: 9:57am On Jul 14, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
Year after year,misery upon misery,spits.




you even have phone and data to type. you are complaining. go to mogue and see those who wish to wake up but they can't go to hospital. you will thank God for where you are

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by logicalhumour: 10:00am On Jul 14, 2023
OP, You need to realize how much of a spook the concept of time is and that the number of your age is literally just a description of how many times the earth has orbited the sun since you've been born. It doesn't actually mean anything on a physical and practical level in your life.

I cannot express all the endless possibilities you still have, and how everything is possible for you to turn this ship around at this very moment in a single post.

Just take a deep breath, zoom out of your body into outer space and you'll realize how nothing makes sense. Everybody dey collect. Like I've said, stop looking at your age, it's nonsense; and stop thinking you can change your current state, it's nonsense as well.

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:37am On Jul 14, 2023
jackmrandy:





you even have phone and data to type. you are complaining. go to mogue and see those who wish to wake up but they can't go to hospital. you will thank God for where you are
does it mean u are mad?
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:41am On Jul 14, 2023
pansophist:
It won't end, sorry grin

By design, you are born to suffer. Just imagine. You didn't choose your height, gender, nationality, name, parents, birthdate, blood type, siblings, native tongue, personality, and so so so much more.

it's like we are born in a box, with already predetermined foundations that will massively shape the direction our lives take. Foundations we can only coexist with, not altered. So if you are born in a mountainous village in Syria, a child of a renowned Swedish madman will have a better life than you.

Unlike animals, humans have a culture to care for their young for so many years, even more than 18 years, and these sweet beginnings have made a lot of us approach life from an easy mode, and sad when things don't go our way.

When I hear people say, ¨God why me?¨, my knee-jerk response always is, ¨Why not you? Don't you know that to live is to suffer?¨ As I speak to you right now, a lion is probably ripping off a pregnant impala, chewing both the mama and her baby.

Or someone just died via accident somewhere in the world, not because he was driving wrongly, but because the other driver was reckless, and killed him for no fault of his own. So you can do everything right, and still pay the price for a stupid person that did everything wrong.

How can such life be fair? I mean why should I die because you are stupid? But this nonsense happens to animals and humans every day.

The horrors of life that other species understood, or even previous generations experienced, are increasingly becoming alien, as they are replaced with modern problems such as depression, lack of purpose, material poverty etc.

This sad tale of the human story has been the reason many are drawn to religion, philosophy, thinkers, and science, to draw meaning out of this sad story called life.

Anyways, just cope. This is what it means to be alive. Being alive and being at peace is the utmost state of privilege, hence, we always wish the death RIP, because such peace is hardly for the living.

Christians would say that this world is not their home, that they are just passing by. Stoics would say the same thing in a different way, that you should be neutral to suffering, and endure it as you enjoy happiness. All coping mechanisms. Find a way to cope somehow.

Some countries are even taking it further to minimize suffering by making it legal to voluntarily delete yourself from life (e.g Netherlands with Euthanasia).

But most importantly, one absolute thing you can do to minimize to a large extent your suffering in this life is to have sense. Read widely, develop your character, forge your own intellectual path, and get lost in your own route, than finding directions in someone else path.

Immune yourself from being other's slaves either via their manipulations, by your insecurities (eg smoking to feel among, or buying stuff you don't need to impress), by imposed ideologies (e.g., identity politics, etc), and most importantly, treat yourself like someone you truly care for.

Just find a way to cope sha, you are not the only one. We are all in this together. The earlier you start, the better it gets. Life is difficult, but it doesn't have to be difficult for you.


we dont all have exactly the same story,bro
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:44am On Jul 14, 2023
logicalhumour:
OP, You need to realize how much of a spook the concept of time is and that the number of your age is literally just a description of how many times the earth has orbited the sun since you've been born. It doesn't actually mean anything on a physical and practical level in your life.

I cannot express all the endless possibilities you still have, and how everything is possible for you to turn this ship around at this very moment in a single post.

Just take a deep breath, zoom out of your body into outer space and you'll realize how nothing makes sense. Everybody dey collect. Like I've said, stop looking at your age, it's nonsense; and stop thinking you can change your current state, it's nonsense as well.
either i kill myself or find other entities 2 kill.
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by jackmrandy: 10:57am On Jul 14, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
does it mean u are mad?

na you know whether you dey mad oh...

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by Thermodynamics(m): 12:46pm On Jul 14, 2023
omniwater:
Know yourself!

Who are you?

What is your mission on earth?

What are "must do" and taboos?


You will live a peaceful life if you can answer all these questions.

Life is like walking in the dark to nowhere when you don't know the answers to those questions above.

Nothing happens by accident.

How do we know the answer to all these questions?
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by LikeAking: 12:47pm On Jul 14, 2023
youngreva:
God is the rewarder of those who diligently seek him
Go back to God he’s the source.

Shut up!

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by youngreva(m): 1:17pm On Jul 14, 2023
LikeAking:


Shut up!
your mama shut up.

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by LikeAking: 1:29pm On Jul 14, 2023
youngreva:
your mama shut up.

U need a physchiatric hospital.
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 1:41pm On Jul 14, 2023
jackmrandy:


na you know whether you dey mad oh...
U WAN SEE CRAZE ABI angry BCUZ DEM NEVA ENTER U ABI undecided I NO GET JOY, NA WAHALA PLENTY 4 MY SIDE, U WONT HELP ME,WHY QUOTE ME? FREE ME , I HOPE U DONT REPLY , SPITS angry
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by youngreva(m): 2:32pm On Jul 14, 2023
LikeAking:


U need a physchiatric hospital.
Go and jump into the lagoon and drown that’s what mad men like you do.

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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by Buskynwa: 3:23pm On Jul 14, 2023
pansophist:
It won't end, sorry grin

By design, you are born to suffer. Just imagine. You didn't choose your height, gender, nationality, name, parents, birthdate, blood type, siblings, native tongue, personality, and so so so much more.

it's like we are born in a box, with already predetermined foundations that will massively shape the direction our lives take. Foundations we can only coexist with, not altered. So if you are born in a mountainous village in Syria, a child of a renowned Swedish madman will have a better life than you.

Unlike animals, humans have a culture to care for their young for so many years, even more than 18 years, and these sweet beginnings have made a lot of us approach life from an easy mode, and sad when things don't go our way.

When I hear people say, ¨God why me?¨, my knee-jerk response always is, ¨Why not you? Don't you know that to live is to suffer?¨ As I speak to you right now, a lion is probably ripping off a pregnant impala, chewing both the mama and her baby.

Or someone just died via accident somewhere in the world, not because he was driving wrongly, but because the other driver was reckless, and killed him for no fault of his own. So you can do everything right, and still pay the price for a stupid person that did everything wrong.

How can such life be fair? I mean why should I die because you are stupid? But this nonsense happens to animals and humans every day.

The horrors of life that other species understood, or even previous generations experienced, are increasingly becoming alien, as they are replaced with modern problems such as depression, lack of purpose, material poverty etc.

This sad tale of the human story has been the reason many are drawn to religion, philosophy, thinkers, and science, to draw meaning out of this sad story called life.

Anyways, just cope. This is what it means to be alive. Being alive and being at peace is the utmost state of privilege, hence, we always wish the death RIP, because such peace is hardly for the living.

Christians would say that this world is not their home, that they are just passing by. Stoics would say the same thing in a different way, that you should be neutral to suffering, and endure it as you enjoy happiness. All coping mechanisms. Find a way to cope somehow.

Some countries are even taking it further to minimize suffering by making it legal to voluntarily delete yourself from life (e.g Netherlands with Euthanasia).

But most importantly, one absolute thing you can do to minimize to a large extent your suffering in this life is to have sense. Read widely, develop your character, forge your own intellectual path, and get lost in your own route, than finding directions in someone else path.

Immune yourself from being other's slaves either via their manipulations, by your insecurities (eg smoking to feel among, or buying stuff you don't need to impress), by imposed ideologies (e.g., identity politics, etc), and most importantly, treat yourself like someone you truly care for.

Just find a way to cope sha, you are not the only one. We are all in this together. The earlier you start, the better it gets. Life is difficult, but it doesn't have to be difficult for you.



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Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by Khd95(m): 3:32pm On Jul 14, 2023
This life dey one kind, but know that if everyone is asked to table their problems, you will graciously embrace yours when you see other peoples conditions and problems, the most important thing is never to give up no matter what

Never succumb to your problems, that’s when suicidal thoughts comes in

May God ease your affairs
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by Makamatic: 5:33pm On Jul 14, 2023
Oga them offer you work but you no want work you they find post aza. They find free money they go using phycological and emotional format last last 2-3k wey u go see no go help your life in any way
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by omniwater: 6:06pm On Jul 14, 2023
Thermodynamics:


How do we know the answer to all these questions?

These knowledge are inside of us. But we couldn't develop them because we ignore them. But they are always there.


When we begin to look inward to yearn for these knowledge, they will come naturally.


Most times, we need outside helps to fully grasp and understand these things.


Technology has made things so easy now that you don't have to visit spiritualists physically.


You can get free readings online from any medium or religion you choose.

A good teacher only shows the way,not what to see. How you react to your findings is up to you.

Seek knowledge until you find it.

PEACE!
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:51am On Jul 15, 2023
Makamatic:
Oga them offer you work but you no want work you they find post aza. They find free money they go using phycological and emotional format last last 2-3k wey u go see no go help your life in any way
my greatest current problem has no solution.
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:59am On Jul 15, 2023
omniwater:
Know yourself!

Who are you?

What is your mission on earth?

What are "must do" and taboos?


You will live a peaceful life if you can answer all these questions.

Life is like walking in the dark to nowhere when you don't know the answers to those questions above.

Nothing happens by accident.
am an entity that is here 2 be myself however possible.
Musts and taboos are part of performance.
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by omniwater: 12:08pm On Jul 15, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
am an entity that is here 2 be myself however possible.
Musts and taboos are part of performance.


That's okay!

Enjoy your day!
Re: I Cannot Understand Life Again by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jul 15, 2023
pansophist:
It won't end, sorry grin

By design, you are born to suffer. Just imagine. You didn't choose your height, gender, nationality, name, parents, birthdate, blood type, siblings, native tongue, personality, and so so so much more.

it's like we are born in a box, with already predetermined foundations that will massively shape the direction our lives take. Foundations we can only coexist with, not altered. So if you are born in a mountainous village in Syria, a child of a renowned Swedish madman will have a better life than you.

Unlike animals, humans have a culture to care for their young for so many years, even more than 18 years, and these sweet beginnings have made a lot of us approach life from an easy mode, and sad when things don't go our way.

When I hear people say, ¨God why me?¨, my knee-jerk response always is, ¨Why not you? Don't you know that to live is to suffer?¨ As I speak to you right now, a lion is probably ripping off a pregnant impala, chewing both the mama and her baby.

Or someone just died via accident somewhere in the world, not because he was driving wrongly, but because the other driver was reckless, and killed him for no fault of his own. So you can do everything right, and still pay the price for a stupid person that did everything wrong.

How can such life be fair? I mean why should I die because you are stupid? But this nonsense happens to animals and humans every day.

The horrors of life that other species understood, or even previous generations experienced, are increasingly becoming alien, as they are replaced with modern problems such as depression, lack of purpose, material poverty etc.

This sad tale of the human story has been the reason many are drawn to religion, philosophy, thinkers, and science, to draw meaning out of this sad story called life.

Anyways, just cope. This is what it means to be alive. Being alive and being at peace is the utmost state of privilege, hence, we always wish the death RIP, because such peace is hardly for the living.

Christians would say that this world is not their home, that they are just passing by. Stoics would say the same thing in a different way, that you should be neutral to suffering, and endure it as you enjoy happiness. All coping mechanisms. Find a way to cope somehow.

Some countries are even taking it further to minimize suffering by making it legal to voluntarily delete yourself from life (e.g Netherlands with Euthanasia).

But most importantly, one absolute thing you can do to minimize to a large extent your suffering in this life is to have sense. Read widely, develop your character, forge your own intellectual path, and get lost in your own route, than finding directions in someone else path.

Immune yourself from being other's slaves either via their manipulations, by your insecurities (eg smoking to feel among, or buying stuff you don't need to impress), by imposed ideologies (e.g., identity politics, etc), and most importantly, treat yourself like someone you truly care for.

Just find a way to cope sha, you are not the only one. We are all in this together. The earlier you start, the better it gets. Life is difficult, but it doesn't have to be difficult for you.


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