siofra:


You're the one being dishonest. You didn't mention men like Gbadebo Rhodes Vivour, Kunle Remi, Alex Iwobi, even Alex Ekubo. It's the ugly ones you mentioned. Thief.

There are ugly famous white people too like Joe Biden, Donald Trump, George Bush etc.

During my Msc program days, the ugliest person in my class was a white girl. I swear on this.
The girl was so fucking ugly I always look at her pointed nose like carrot, she has nice hair though but her face turns red when she’s presenting, her teeth were brown. She was looking like she’s 40 and she was only 27.
The Spanish girls could be so cute, same with half-caste girls… those ones are so cute

Reading through the lines and paying attention to the details, i would say the OP is damn right.

DaisyMellow:
It is funny how something so obvious is heavily debated because people refuse to be honest with themselves.

I follow Big Brother Naija alot and I remember season two when T-boss was publicly adored by her fans just because of her looks. She had Caucasian facial features due to her mixed parentage.

The same thing happened in Pepper dem season when Venita was introduced and everyone was goshing about how beautiful she looked while girls with typical subsaharan african features were derided. I wont mention names.

Same thing happened in the next season with Nengi

One thing to note is that none of these girls won, despite the fans acknowledging how physically more attractive them were than most of the other housemates. And that's the point I have been making but people are quick to call me a self hater - Looks don't really matter. What matters is talent and substance. Admitting whites have better phenotypical genetics doesn't make you less than them, same way admitting black women are more athletic than white women doesn't make a white woman less than a black woman

Deep down everyone knows the qualities that they consider attractive, and most of those qualities are typical Caucasian features.

Again lying to yourself is free so keep doing it if it makes you feel better.

You forgot Maria

DaisyMellow:


My argument isn't even based on skin color, but rather morphological features like shape of nose, eye color, hair texture and color etc.

Also, most of the comments about 'black is beautiful' and 'melanin is great' is all posturing and hypocrisy. The facts speaks for itself. If black people really liked black skin as they claim, then the companies producing skin bleaching products would have been out of business a long time ago. Rather they keep waxing strong and more keep popping out everyday.

Are the tanning companies out of business? It's the mindset that has been engrained in the minds of blcks that Whyte is superior ( exactly what you are preaching here) that makes them think bleaching is better. Michael Jackson looked far more attractive to me as a bl@ck guy than as a whyte guy.

DaisyMellow:


I didn't duck your question. I mean anyone with a brain after reading my comments can clearly see that I am a Nigerian woman born and bred in Nigeria. Never have I claimed to be anything other than a black woman. I only didn't respond to your question because you asked if I was a bush monkey savage, which makes no sense whatsoever.

Honestly you should direct the vitriol in your first paragrah to someone else. I have tendered my arguments as clearly as I can. I don't hate the features I am born with, but this doesn't mean I won't acknowledge more attractive facial features.

Why aren't white women purchasing the hairs of dead black women? Why are black women the ones measuring their status and attractiveness by how many white women hair they have?

Why don't people who do a nose job ever widen their noses, but rather try to make them look more Caucasian?

Why do most people find people born with colored eyes very appealing? Countless studies have been done on this.

All these are typical caucasian features found in both men and women. It's patently obvious that Caucasian phenotypic features are more appealing. And yes, there are more physically attractive white people(people from European descent) than there are physically attractive sub-saharan Africans

You have conveniently omitted any allusion to the current epidemic of white women injecting Botox and silicone into their lips to make them fatten up like "fish lips" at best or puckering anuses at worst, all to attain a crude and often amusing approximation of what they perceive to be the prominent lips associated with "black" facial features.

Likewise, you have skirted around any reference to that medically perilous spreading fad of white women having quack surgeons implant massive protruding silicone buttock enlargements in yet another comical gambit by white women seeking to emulate that other distinct physical characteristic of black women, the gigantic ass, of which the most extreme example of disproportionately massive buttocks is the Hottentot bush women of South Africa.

Finally, you choose to remain ignorantly oblivious to the ages-old skin-cancer-inducing habit of white women to lay out in the midday sun or under artificial sun beds in tanning salons for endless hours, all for the explicit purpose of DARKENING their skin with a deep tan until they begin to resemble mixed race black/white people, at least in their deluded minds.

Obviously, the only times you've ever lived among white people have been during your rich family's pleasure vacations to the UK, EU, or USA, where you lived high on the hog perhaps while squandering embezzled Nigerian government treasury money, before heading back for Nigeria to impress the locals with your newly acquired bogus affected "Amerikana" accent that is understandable to neither Americans nor Africans.

As a visiting Nigerian tourist living it up in 5-Star accommodation stateside or in Europe, you can certainly be forgiven for arriving at the Utopian conclusions you have evidently drawn with respect to race relations in the West, perhaps because most of your interactions with whites during those fun holidays happened to have been with fawning waiters staffing the lavish hotel accommodations you occupied. I put it to you, ma'am that visiting any country as a tourist is NOT in any way comparable to living and working there full time.

If you had ever LIVED in America or the EU as the black person you claim to be in this forum, I sincerely doubt whether you would continue to idolize white people as being the paragons of physical beauty that you have elevated them to be with utterly charming naivety thus far in your privileged life.

Thomasankara:
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huh?

Fmghewzy:


Yes slowpoke.


White peoples skin appears so , because of the low levels of sunlight especially in Nordic countries. The intensity is nothing compared to other Arabic or African countries


Their skin do not see the need to produce melatonin.

It's for the same reason that if a black fellow goes over there, they might appear lighter (even without bleaching)

the arab society lies within sahara desert why r they not blacks

DaisyMellow:
This Fmghewzy guy keeps editing out my arguments and responding with insults that he should direct at himself. It's tiring arguing with such a person. Anyone with a brain can see that he has no knowledge of what he is arguing about.

Are you new to Nairaland, if I don't edit it like that the post would be long as fuvk.

This I typed self I am refraining from insulting you.

And you claim I have no knowledge of what I am arguing about, I could say the same about you.
That you are someone suffering from inferiority complex, or someone who is a perpetual whiteasslicker.


Aside from the insults, I am 100percent right in everything I said up there.

And as for the insult, you kinda deserve it

odenkirk:
the arab society lies within sahara desert why r they not blacks

Algeria, Chad, Egypt, Libya, Mali, Mauritania, Niger, Western Sahara, Sudan, and Tunisia.


These are the countries where the Sahara desert lies, a large proportion of them are dark skinned or tanned.

Not taking into account that bleaching is also predominant in those regions.

Do me and you a favor, a little google search of locals from this countries.

DaisyMellow:


By white, I am referring to Caucasians; people of European ancestry.

Saying there is no statistical difference between people of European ancestry and people of subsaharan ancestry in terms of physical appearance is disingenuous. You are lying to yourself and you know it.

Please go out on the streets of lagos or any other metropolitan city in Nigera. Go to the markets and roadside. Watch school kids as they return from school. There are lots of physically unappealing people on this side of the world and they vastly outnumber the physically attractive ones, and admitting this does not make me a self hater. It's the truth.

Whenever I go out more than 80% of the people I encounter don't match up to what I would consider physically attractive. This is in stark contrast to what I witnessed when I travelled to Paris a year ago.

I am speaking from experience, not from sentiments. Have you been to Senegal? Togo? Even Benin Republic close by? There are lots of very ugly people in these countries and the number is way higher than the percentage of ugly people you will find in Caucasian demographics.

Heck watch the IAAF and compare the Caucasian athletes to the ones from Kenya and other subsaharan african countries. You will be lying if you think there is no obvious gulf in physical attractiveness

Wotoporiously speaking

Lol, going by your point of reference you're correct but don't forget that majority of the people you consider physically appealing are of African ancestry too if you do your research deeply, Have you ever seen a white kid with a black mom or dad? If you haven't I have..so needless to measure by just appearance because you might be fooled.

You made mention of Paris, what's to say 80% of the kids, youths or adults you came across are full Caucasians? It's just like trying to differentiate an Australian from an American base on physical looks only...which is very hard to, especially if they're a well vest with speaking English fluently. I bet you I could keep the two in one room and you wouldn't be able to tell the difference by just looking at em, the only thing that will tell the difference is their tonation

The African countries you just mentioned up there still have a very good percentage of light skinned people with very good physical looks, I met a girl from Uganda who looks more white than African, but trust me she's fully African but I guess going by your view you could have passed her up for a Caucasian.

Have you been to morroco? See how different they look? But they're still Africans even though they like to think they're not...Let me not lie to you, as much as most of us consider white people physically very attractive the truth is we've got a good percentage of Black people who're physically more attractive than some white people.

In terms of beauty don't write blacks off just because you see a bunch of good looking white people.

I understand that you're talking about physical appearance but your assumption and way of saying it is wrong.

Omoawoke:


You are talking of 40.
I know whites in their early 30s looking like granddads and grandmothers..
They age too fast, they hit their peak of attractiveness at 25 and anything after that, they begin to age so fast. The ones that have money spend lots of money to maintain their skin tones and hair texture

Wotoporiously speaking

I even went too far up to 40

Thanks for the heads up

If she was talking about mixed white people I would have agreed but saying Caucasians are more attractive than blacks is a very wrong assumption, what's to say you've got the most appealing looks but can't maintain it up to 30 or 40? Black people have a very strong physical appeal compared to whites( Caucasians)

Not saying she's wrong but she's wrong about her assumption.

DaisyMellow:


I actually have met whites and I have met blacks as well. I have been to paris and I have lived in Nigeria and been to countries like Togo and Senegal. The difference in physical attractiveness is obvious. Feel free to lie to yourself.

Get tapes from the recently concluded world cup and watch. Super sports had special channels dedicated to just fans. The IAAF is in session, please watch it, and if you don't have DSTV, you can follow their youtube page. They post highlights there. Compare the European Athletes and the ones from sub-saharan african countries and make your conclusion.

The Female world cup starts in few days. Please compare the girls from Sub-saharan countries with the ones from European countries. If after this you still maintain your flawed position, then it's either your sight is defective, or you just enjoy lying to yourself.

Again, lying to yourself is free so feel free to continue doing it.

Wotoporiously speaking

You know you can't use 11 players on a team to judge the physical appearance of a full country or continent, just like you can't say all white people are attractive because truth be told you haven't seen them all, it's just a fraction of em, that's what I have been trying to tell you ever since, I'm judging base on your assumption, it's wrong to go by that way.

You could have simply said white people are more attractive than blacks instead of saying all black people are unattractive, hence my argument.

Have you seen the white girl who's of African ancestry and plays for Nigeria? If you haven't, go and check, We have more of them here, even the European countries you mentioned we have blacks too in those teams that are white or even looks white, I hope you now understand the point I'm trying to make here.

See I'm not trying to brag here, my mom is cameroonian, my dad Nigerian, and my Grandfather was British, trust me if you see me you wouldn't think I'm Nigerian, some say I'm arabic, while some say I look like a white guy, but believe me the only thing that gives me away is my accent sometimes. On a normal day you could pass me up for a non Nigerian, I'm not rich rich, neither are my parents but I'm very light skinned to the core and have got very good physical appearance.

Just trying to let you know that we have a lot of physically attractive black people in africa and beyond. So don't write us off

Fmghewzy:


Yes slowpoke.


White peoples skin appears so , because of the low levels of sunlight especially in Nordic countries. The intensity is nothing compared to other Arabic or African countries


Their skin do not see the need to produce melatonin.

It's for the same reason that if a black fellow goes over there, they might appear lighter (even without bleaching)

Mynd44, Seun, nlfpmod, dominique, Rocktation and farano. This boy is still throwing unrestrained insults at users.

Blacks have better physiques though ...

It is black people that are mixed with asian/indian that are more attractive, not black people mixed with white.


Black people specifically black women could have been the most attractive race of women on this earth if only they'd accept what they look like naturally. The beauty of black women is unique.

odenkirk:
the arab society lies within sahara desert why r they not blacks

The tuaregs that live in the sahara are sort of black. But the climate of North Africa differs from sub saharan Africa.

odenkirk:
honestly black people are ugly.

Not me I won the genetic lottery

This argument need to be prolonged, get a white person paint them black and get a black person pain them white ,the do comparison...
There's this South African comedian who used to paint himself black,I don't think he looks attractive.

DaisyMellow, you come across as quite enlightened but bringing this topic denigrating Negroes on a Negroid forum (Nairaland for that matter) and expecting polite discourse is a gross miscalculation.

That said, like someone rightly pointed out, beauty is subjective and you cannot try to make it objective.

Some see Miley Cyrus as beautiful; others will swear Omotola is sexier.

Beauty means different things to different people.


That said, I can dare to understand your illustration - a World cup game between Serbia and Cameroon shows a physical disparity in fanbase; to the untrained eye or a biased mind, you'd think that the Serbs are damn hot and the Cameroonians are damn ugly...but if you look closely, behind the mass of 'shiny' white skin and long flowing hair, you'd see that in the crowd, there are attractive people and people who are not so attractive like you thought...

Same with a glance at the Cameroonians, you'd spot peepz who are also fine as f*ck and peeps who are struggling physically.

It's not a one-size-fits-all thing sha.
One man's beauty is another man's eeeew.

1Sharon:
It is black people that are mixed with asian/indian that are more attractive, not black people mixed with white.


Black people specifically black women could have been the most attractive race of women on this earth if only they'd accept what they look like naturally. The beauty of black women is unique.

I swear!! When I see them the refined soft ones on TikTok, I am always proud to be black.

from my understanding of everything you've written up there,its a case of nutrition, nutrition plays a huge role to appearance,thats why its adviced to eat balanced diet, families abroad have a balanced meal menu,they even try to educate us on balanced diet,but African cans only often eat to get rid of hunger therefore their physical features are often not proportionally developed, like the people from America or Europe,most black people abroad or Australia look appealing because they grew up eating balanced diet and a healthy brain reflects on the skin,thats why 70% of higher intelligent people look appealing to certain levels, nutrition is the problem,when children grow up malnourished and hit puberty their features would appear quite uneven with appeal,also most people in Africa are frustrated mentally,so all these factors adds to physical aesthetic appeal.there was a lady who was adopted into my home,when she came she was so malnourished the only big thing on her body was her head,her eyes were sunk and she showed slight sign of rickety legs,but today as i speak if you see this same girl,she is a baddie ,she looks good due to the high nutritional diet over the years,she looks nothing like what she was when she came.its all about nutrition and mental state.that been said i would admit that you are right to most degree tho,but you should know its because most africans are not on a fixed balanced diet as white .people.

1Sharon:
It is black people that are mixed with asian/indian that are more attractive, not black people mixed with white.


Black people specifically black women could have been the most attractive race of women on this earth if only they'd accept what they look like naturally The beauty of black women is unique.

Gbam

madscientist88:
from my understanding of everything you've written up there,its a case of nutrition, nutrition plays a huge role to appearance,thats why its adviced to eat balanced diet, families abroad have a balanced meal menu, they even try to educate us on balanced diet,but African cans only often eat to get rid of hunger therefore their physical features are often not proportionally developed, like the people from America or Europe,most black people abroad or Australia look appealing because they grew up eating balanced diet and a healthy brain reflects on the skin,thats why 70% of higher intelligent people look appealing to certain levels, nutrition is the problem,when children grow up malnourished and hit puberty their features would appear quite uneven with appeal,also most people in Africa are frustrated mentally,so all these factors adds to physical aesthetic appeal.there was a lady who was adopted into my home,when she came she was so malnourished the only big thing on her body was her head,her eyes were sunk and she showed slight sign of rickety legs,but today as i speak if you see this same girl,she is a baddie ,she looks good due to the high nutritional diet over the years,she looks nothing like what she was when she came.its all about nutrition and mental state.that been said i would admit that you are right to most degree tho,but you should know its because most africans are not on a fixed balanced diet as white .people.

Deviating ever so slightly from the theme of this discussion, I beg to differ on your sweeping declaration that all families in the industrialized West "eat a balanced menu". Black Americans eat appallingly bad diets very heavy in polyunsaturated fatty foods with loads of carbohydrates and rarely any fresh fruit. The result is that 70% of black Americans are obese or well on the way to becoming that way by their early teens.

As a matter of personal preference and self-preservation, I studiously avoid ever dating Black American women because the tiny minority of them that happen to be physically fit are also reckless and desperate gold diggers that will fleece a man for every dollar they can get off him, while also posing a mortal threat to men because of their volatile temper that sits atop a burning cauldron of rage prone to turning lethal in a heartbeat. The exotic beauty of Hispanic and Oriental women is hypnotically alluring and they draw me like a moth to a flame in the USA and EU, while I don't even notice Black American women at all. Never have, never will. Better safe than sorry.

In Nigeria, however, the constant parade of breathtakingly beautiful, toned, busty, and shockingly fit young African maidens in their twenties is downright alarming, in stark contrast to America where 80% of Black American women are fat slobs, thanks to their poor junk food diets and lazy sedentary lives spent collecting welfare checks, popping out babies and selling drugs to fellow coons in the ghetto. While this discussion thread was started by a person who hates her own skin color and wishes she was white, a brief digression examining the startling contrast between sexy young Nigerian women and their lumbering water buffalo counterparts in American ghettos is worthy of mention. Nigerian women are seriously hot, and looking at them has caused me to lose my concentration while driving more times than I care to recall.

DaisyMellow:
Please I'll emplore people to read my opening post before commenting. I already addressed some of your arguments there.

The point I am making is that Physical attractiveness doesn't matter. What matters is what you do with your life and how you use the talent God has given you to improve your life and the lives of people around you.

No one cares how physical attractive a successful person is. When you are successful, people will automatically respect and admire you.

When you understand how unimportant physical appearance is in the grand scheme of things, you won't have to lie and argue against an obvious fact that Caucasians are more physically attractive on average than black people.

My question is what criteria did you use to come to the conclusion that they are more attractive? Because you personally find them so?

Regards our women bleaching their skin or mimicking their hairstyle is just inferiority complex. You can see that we do this with almost everything they do e.g white style of marriage.

I always say this. Had it been the west have dark skin and we have the white, still we'll try to mimic their black skin. That is what brainwashing, indoctrination and inferiority complex does.

Unless if you are insisting attractiveness or beauty is objective which I believe is not. Moreover beauty standard are set by people over time and it also changes over time.

The bodi tribe for ages attribute men attractiveness to being fat and pot bellied. What do you say about that? The bodi tribe doesn't find this attractive? Do you? Whay should your definition of attractiveness be the one to be used?

meobizy:
Mynd44, Seun, nlfpmod, dominique, Rocktation and farano. This boy is still throwing unrestrained insults at users.

🥴🥴

Jakumo:


Deviating ever so slightly from the theme of this discussion, I beg to differ on your sweeping declaration that all families in the industrialized West "eat a balanced menu". Black Americans eat appallingly bad diets very heavy in polyunsaturated fatty foods with loads of carbohydrates and rarely any fresh fruit. The result is that 70% of black Americans are obese or well on the way to becoming that way by their early teens.

As a matter of personal preference and self-preservation, I studiously avoid ever dating Black American women because the tiny minority of them that happen to be physically fit are also reckless and desperate gold diggers that will fleece a man for every dollar they can get off him, while also posing a mortal threat to men because of their volatile temper that sits atop a burning cauldron of rage prone to turning lethal in a heartbeat. The exotic beauty of Hispanic and Oriental women is hypnotically alluring and they draw me like a moth to a flame in the USA and EU, while I don't even notice Black American women at all. Never have, never will. Better safe than sorry.

In Nigeria, however, the constant parade of breathtakingly beautiful, toned, busty, and shockingly fit young African maidens in their twenties is downright alarming, in stark contrast to America where 80% of Black American women are fat slobs, thanks to their poor junk food diets and lazy sedentary lives spent collecting welfare checks, popping out babies and selling drugs to fellow coons in the ghetto. While this discussion thread was started by a person who hates her own skin color and wishes she was white, a brief digression examining the startling contrast between sexy young Nigerian women and their lumbering water buffalo counterparts in American ghettos is worthy of mention. Nigerian women are seriously hot, and looking at them has caused me to lose my concentration while driving more times than I care to recall.

instead of reading to understand you read to argue and thats the problem with your type, have you seen an organised American meal menu before? or have you gone to a dinner party and eat buggers ,shawamers and meat pies? there are specific dishes families cook at home, junk food isn't same as home cooked meal,last i checked no responsible parent in America subjects their kids to unhealthy or junk foods except in movies or maybe the child has growth disorder,i have family members abroad and none of them are obese, besides fast food is more about individual lifestyle, lazy single parents would subject kids to fast foods because they dont have time to cook,if that's what you mean and thats a fraction,look at their graduating high school girls and college girls and compare them to Nigerian girls,most of them get obese when they start living on their own.of which nowadays most of them are beginning to wakeup and decline fast foods,but their female athletes look well nourished and appealing than ours on track and pitch.

DaisyMellow:


By white, I am referring to Caucasians; people of European ancestry.

Saying there is no statistical difference between people of European ancestry and people of subsaharan ancestry in terms of physical appearance is disingenuous. You are lying to yourself and you know it.

Please go out on the streets of lagos or any other metropolitan city in Nigera. Go to the markets and roadside. Watch school kids as they return from school. There are lots of physically unappealing people on this side of the world and they vastly outnumber the physically attractive ones, and admitting this does not make me a self hater. It's the truth.

Whenever I go out more than 80% of the people I encounter don't match up to what I would consider physically attractive. This is in stark contrast to what I witnessed when I travelled to Paris a year ago.

I am speaking from experience, not from sentiments. Have you been to Senegal? Togo? Even Benin Republic close by? There are lots of very ugly people in these countries and the number is way higher than the percentage of ugly people you will find in Caucasian demographics.

Heck watch the IAAF and compare the Caucasian athletes to the ones from Kenya and other subsaharan african countries. You will be lying if you think there is no obvious gulf in physical attractiveness

sentiments won't let my people admit this bitter truth.

Absuchat:

Who is still arguing that one?
Except chincos and some other asian countries, no black can be more attractive than any white physically. Anybody that still believes that can as well believe that Yoruba women are more attractive than igbo women

this dude's inferiority complex is extraordinary
The last line just cemented it.

They call you black and you accept, the question is are you black?

There's no white man on earth, unless u don't know color white..

Adachizzy:
What exactly is your basis for physical attractiveness? Face?
Physical attractiveness encompasses not just the face, but body too; everything you can see with your eyes.
You could talk of better facial structure, not physical attractiveness. Black people are far more physically attractive than the whites.

travel out first,and come back and write this shit.you can never compare white attractiveness to black,forget breast and bumbum

DaisyMellow:
Before you all come for my head, please try to understand my argument. I will try to make it as clear as possible.

Are black people faster that white people? This is true. We see this all the time at the Olympics and other athletics events. No single white person would deny this. Both white and black people will quickly answer yes to this question.

However when you ask the question of if white people are more physically attractive on average than black people, you see black people trying to conjure up flawed arguments as to why that this isn't true, yet deep down they know that whites are more physically attractive.

Black people will fight and argue that whites aren't more attractive, yet the physical features that they use in defining physical attractiveness in their fellow black people are features you predominantly find in whites.

Black women claim that whites aren't naturally more attractive than they are, but they spend hundred of thousands on hair peeled from the head of dead white women.

If we can admit that black people are better dancers and runners than whites, why can't we admit the patently obvious fact that whites are more physically attractive? Is the ability to run or dance less important than mere physical features?

And am not even talking about skin color here, I am talking about hair, eye color and facial features like the shape of the nose and lips

The most obvious proof of this is when you watch a world cup match between a European team and a sub-saharan African team. When the camera pans to each fanbase, everyone can see just how physically more attractive the whites are. Saying otherwise would be a lying to one's self

I have read accounts from Nairalanders who traveled abroad and they ALL talk about how almost everyone then pass on the street is attractive. This experience is new for them because when they walk down the roadside or streets in Nigeria they always encounter more unattractive people than attractive people.

Again, I am not saying there aren't attractive black people. There are lots of attractive black people and there are black people that are more physically appealing than white people, but there are objectively more physically attractive white people than there are physically attractive black people;

I mean, the mere fact of having white genetics makes a person more attractive, as is seen with mulattos or halfcastes as we call them. The reason there are lots of attractive black people in America is because(and this is a statistical fact) 80% of black people in America have 20% white genetics due to the history of interbreeding, especially during the slave period.

We need to understand that looks don't really matter; what matters is what we do with the skills and talent God has given us and how we use it to improve our lives and make the world a better place. When we understand this simple fact, then maybe we can be most honest with ourselves.

All races are all beautiful. No race is finer than the other.

The most beautiful people are the bi-racials or even those with a tinge of foreign blood. That's why I think those from the Horn of Africa like the Ethiopians and Eritreans can be stunners.

But to say a white person is finer that a black is simply absurd. My sister is married to a white man. He adores my sister's roundish African butt. He's not too happy about his daughters rather flat butts.

There are white woman that can die for black men. See the Kardashians for instance.

I don't find dark skinned Indians attractive but was bought over when I saw dark-skinned Indians who have lived in South Africa for generations.

The argument you're making should be limited to you. You can't speak for everyone.