Why is it that people normally like what I like
Weird things I've done for love

Tried gym for some time
Starve myself till I landed in the hospital
But still weighing 70kg
I've met some guys i loved so deeply....but they always says am too fat
And I've seen loads of overweight/obesity ladies falling in love and living a good life

I have a good job
50% beautiful to my own view
Am such a cool headed lady

I believe am 80% good to 💯
Finding truelove is hard
Any guy I see and love another girl will be there before me
Or let me say they'll say it to my face that am too fat
Just frustrating...

When you give yourself the love you so desperately seek then you will know peace. Self love is key.
Pour into yourself, love yourself take care of your appearance your mental health and well being.
romanticize your life, stop cantering your whole being around a man.


What you will come to see is that man treat you exactly how you treat yourself. If you are desperate lack confidence and self esteem that is exactly how they gonna treat you.

But if you love yourself pour into yourself and give your own self the very best look polished always they will mirror that and treat you top tier. Infact you wouldn’t even attract dustie they know not to come around you because they can’t even afford you.

You first need self love.

There is a man for every woman. Fat people always neglect their hygiene. Ensure your personal hygiene is excellent.. And see yourself as the best among every other human. Stop looking down on yourself. You fine pass Beyonce and the world most beautiful girl. Just dey see yourself like that.. You will start attracting mature minds.. #Positive energy always#.

Na slim tall dudes na them dey like chubby ladies, take note that most times good girls ain't lucky when it comes to relationship/marriage same goes to good guys.

No matter how good a lady you are try to develop small "bad gurl" vibes it gets men hooked.