Men don't forgive cheating. Once you cheat on him and he found out, please leave the relationship.

My uncle's wife cheated on him and he chased her out.
Family members begged and begged. He bowed to their pressure and took her back but he made up his mind to frustrate her until she leaves the marriage or dies in it.
After a couple of months, I introduced him to my beautiful colleague and they started dating. He married her secretly and they were very happy.

Due to the frustration he weighed on her shoulders, the first wife developed high BP, sunk into depression and landed in a hospital. My uncle showed shallow care towards her while she was in hospital. After some days, her family members came and ferried her to the village.
This was the last we heard about the stupid cheat.

Her two children are currently happy living with my uncle and his beautiful second wife.


I too, like most reasonable men, will never forgive a cheating wife or girlfriend. I will keep her in the relationship and frustrate her until she contemplate suicide (while I look for another woman).

Never forgive a cheating woman.
Cheating women, never believe that your spouse will truly forgive you. We don't forgive!

@nlfpmod

As u about to forgive her for cheating'' remember she is the one that put the penis inside when he slip out.
A cheating woman should be treated like a fish.
'''With my innocent loud'''

jeromestarks:
Men don't forgive cheating. Once you cheat on him and he found out, please leave the relationship.

False statement right off the bat. Lots of men (not all) wouldn't mind an open relationship, which most ladies would hate!

Which kain of post is dis?? Justifying promiscuity in men... Na wa o....
So men can cheat...but if women open leg, don't forgive.. lols ... Abeg Next Case Please... I don tire for all these weak men for nairaland...
Small data wey dem get, na to carry women matter for head...
Tomorrow now, drink all roots and bitters just to make sure say dem complete 3 rounds.. make their transport money no waste...
It's high time we begin to distribute dildos to women and girls....

PoliteActivist:


False

What are you; a male, female or confused?

Why did he bow to pressure only to frustrate her and caused her high BP, that's an act of wickedness. As for the woman she should have left by herself, whats even the pleasure in sampling different penis up and down mtcheww

Well, your uncle is on point. But he doesn't need to remarry secretly.

jeromestarks:

What are you; a male, female or confused?

Oh sorry I didn't check your moniker.
You're the dude obsessed with virgin
Virgin on the brain

*go back and read my modified post

Puss360:
Which kain of post is dis?? Justifying promiscuity in men... Na wa o....
So men can cheat...but if women open leg, don't forgive.. lols ... Abeg Next Case Please... I don tire for all these weak men for nairaland...
Small data wey dem get, na to carry women matter for head...
Tomorrow now, drink all roots and bitters just to make sure say dem complete 3 rounds.. make their transport money no waste...
It's high time we begin to distribute dildos to women and girls....

Weak men? You call us weak men?

So a strong man would accept his wife after knowing she fvcked another man?

Do you know that a woman that can cheat on her man can kill that man in his sleep?
Sometimes, you don't need strength (or try to claim"strong man" ) to stay alive: all you need is to prevent death.

Better to be "weak" and happy than to be strong and sad.

Westerhoffe:
Well, your uncle is on point. But he doesn't need to remarry secretly.

She hasn't left for hospital when he fell in love with the other lady.
If he married her openly at that time, the family of the cheating wife will come for his head. Some Igbo traditions are very complicated.

Once she cheats, chances are that she will kill you. She will always follow instructions from the dick outside as long as he fuccks her well and ofcourse he will because you as husband have family problems and the fucckboy doesn't. So she will start seeing you as an obstruction to better dicking and one day, she will plot to eliminate the obstruction by every means possible. Delilah gender people act before they think, that's how their tiny brains work. As soon as someone else fucck your wife, send her packing. Don't say you are not warned.

IconicR:
Why did he bow to pressure only to frustrate her and caused her high BP, that's an act of wickedness. As for the woman she should have left by herself, whats even the pleasure in sampling different penis up and down mtcheww

Sometimes, when people beg you too much, you just let your lips agree with them and keep your decision in your heart.

Lols,

This OP na very WUCKED Guy o!

PoliteActivist:


Oh sorry I didn't check your moniker.
You're the dude obsessed with virgin
Virgin on the brain

*go back and read my modified post

I just did.

Open relationship with a woman who cheated on you is also a form of revenge.
According to you, women hate it. That's revenge.

jeromestarks:

She hasn't left for hospital when he fell in love with the other lady.
If he married her openly at that time, the family of the cheating wife will come for his head. Some Igbo traditions are very complicated.

Then I withdraw from his/her case.

Nonexisting:
Once she cheats, chances are that she will kill you. She will always follow instructions from the dick outside as long as he fuccks her well and ofcourse he will because you as husband have family problems and the fucckboy doesn't. So she will start seeing you as an obstruction to better dicking and one day, she will plot to eliminate the obstruction by every means possible. Delilah gender people act before they think, that's how their tiny brains work. As soon as someone else fucck your wife, send her packing. Don't say you are not warned.

One bottle of COVID-19 for you.

Vinnie2000:


Lols,

This OP na very WUCKED Guy o!

Woman wey know say fvcking another dicck fit bring doom to you but still go open leg for another man no deserve anything but wuckedness ooo.

Those who don't learn by knowledge will learn by experience (the hard way). Before I forget, you have spoken well

Nonexisting:
Once she cheats, chances are that she will kill you. She will always follow instructions from the dick outside as long as he fuccks her well and ofcourse he will because you as husband have family problems and the fucckboy doesn't. So she will start seeing you as an obstruction to better dicking and one day, she will plot to eliminate the obstruction by every means possible. Delilah gender people act before they think, that's how their tiny brains work. As soon as someone else fucck your wife, send her packing. Don't say you are not warned.

I agree 💯

talented321:
As u about to forgive her for cheating'' remember she is the one that put the penis inside when he slip out.
A cheating woman should be treated like a fish.
'''With my innocent loud'''

🤣🤣🤣
This one don break the table pkatapata

jeromestarks:

I just did.

Open relationship with a woman who cheated on you is also a form of revenge.
According to you, women hate it. That's revenge.

Better to make it clear than be sneaking around like lots of men do.
Men are monogamous by nature (remember they did not make themselves - nature did), and women are definitely NOT. Men also like being FREE. So, generally speaking, commitment favors a woman and is easy for her, while open relationship favors a man!

jeromestarks:
Men don't forgive cheating. Once you cheat on him and he found out, please leave the relationship.

My uncle's wife cheated on him and he chased her out.
Family members begged and begged. He bowed to their pressure and took her back but he made up his mind to frustrate her until she leaves the marriage or dies in it.
After a couple of months, I introduced him to my beautiful colleague and they started dating. He married her secretly and they were very happy.

Due to the frustration he weighed on her shoulders, the first wife developed high BP, sunk into depression and landed in a hospital. My uncle showed shallow care towards her while she was in hospital. After some days, her family members came and ferried her to the village.
This was the last we heard about the stupid cheat.

Her two children are currently happy living with my uncle and his beautiful second wife.


I too, like most reasonable men, will never forgive a cheating wife or girlfriend. I will keep her in the relationship and frustrate her until she contemplate suicide (while I look for another woman).

Never forgive a cheating woman.
Cheating women, never believe that your spouse will truly forgive you. We don't forgive!

@nlfpmod

what if it was otherwise that your uncle cheat on his wife and have a child outside marriage. If you are not ready to forgive somebody than say it bodly rather than giving her silent suffering.
If the woman dies today, her blood will be on your uncle neck.

What is so difficult in been faithful to somebody you agree to date or marry? What is difficult in that please? It's simple, if you're no longer in love with your partner, respectfully call that relationship be it dating or marriage a quit.
True i see no dignity in that shameless act. It shows the cheater is very irresponsible and lacks self respect.

youngsahito:
what if it was otherwise that your uncle cheat on his wife and have a child outside marriage. If you are not ready to forgive somebody than say it bodly rather than giving her silent suffering.
If the woman dies today, her blood will be on your uncle neck.

If it was my uncle who cheated, it will be wise of his wife to accept the baby and forgive her husband: he will shoulder the bill of the child and his baby mama. If she leaves him because he cheated on her, she will suffer. We both know that to be true.

Her blood is on her hands if she dies today. Which I really hope she does.

She decided to open her legs for another man.

She decided to fvck another man even though she knew she had a husband.

She decided to use her body they way she want.

She chose her path. She made a choice! If she dies today, she killed herself.

fyzaila:
What is so difficult in been faithful to somebody you agree to date or marry? What is difficult in that please? It's simple, if you're no longer in love with your partner, respectfully call that relationship be it dating or marriage a quit.
True i see no dignity in that shameless act. It shows the cheater is very irresponsible and lacks self respect.

When a woman is too comfortable, cheating comes to her mind naturally.

jeromestarks:


When a woman is too comfortable, cheating comes to her mind naturally.

Ok that's for the woman, what of the man? What makes him cheat?

fyzaila:


Ok that's for the woman, what of the man? What makes him cheat?

A man is naturally polygamous. He does not need a reason to cheat.

jeromestarks:

If it was my uncle who cheated, it will be wise of his wife to accept the baby and forgive her husband: he will shoulder the bill of the child and his baby mama. If she leaves him because he cheated on her, she will suffer. We both know that to be true.

Her blood is on her hands if she dies today. Which I really hope she does.

She decided to open her legs for another man.

She decided to fvck another man even though she knew she had a husband.

She decided to use her body they way she want.

She chose her path. She made a choice! If she dies today, she killed herself.

so if your uncle cheat, the wife should accept and forgive him with a full arm with his baby mama.
I think your uncle is using his wealth as a weapon against the wife cos if she is financially boyant, she won't bother about your selfish and tormentor uncle. Your uncle might be part of the reason why she cheats on him.
You just believe that because your uncle is rich and cruel with it.
I leave you with this quote "To err is human to forgive is divine".

fyzaila:


Ok that's for the woman, what of the man? What makes him cheat?

on point,comrade

jeromestarks:

A man is naturally polygamous. He does not need a reason to cheat.

very much on point

When a banny cheats on her man, there's every tendency that she has equally dined and wined with the devil.......And it'd be left for you as the man to determine your own fate by accepting her back,which is indirectly like a suicide mission... Or letting her go,which is more preferable.