So I've been friends with this babe, are we even friends? Sha since 2021, we met at a neighbours shop and honestly how we became friends still eludes me. Initially the friendship was turning my head na, as she's a fine babe that knows how to dress and all, while me I was just an okay person, make up, dressing wasnt and is still not my thing.
Anyways I overlooked so many things because I wanted to be her friend, like how she talks down on me and the rest, and lest I forget this hanty is among those eude people that guise their rudeness on I am a very straight forward person, my landlady then chased me away because she spoke rudely to her( sha the woman has her own issues sha)

Fast forward to 2023 this babe is living with me, how she came to stay with me eludes me because I can't remember giving my consent, I just saw her one day with her load ( sha I fit talk am because I don't pay attention to what she says most times)
This babe is a torn on my flesh, dictating how things would be in my own house, throwing shades that she thinks I don't get. I'll cook, wash plate, clean , I practically do everything in the house, she doesn't even contribute money for food( though she doesn't work) oya wash plate, arrange house, story!! Only to complain the house is this, the food is that, are we eating beans again.

So a couple of weeks ago I sent aunty messages if I should buy things we would use and make stew for dinner, she said yes, I now said "sha you'll cook because I'm tired o" this babe sent me message that " is that why you offered to buy things, so I'll cook? As if I knew when I saw your message" I got pissed and sent a message back telling her if she cooks is it wrong? And that me I've eaten so na she sabi, I bought food for myself and went home

The babe don day carry face for me, so I'm thinking was I wrong to scold her? Should I have ignored her? And e be like say this friendship don reach the end of the road. You guys should just tell me what you think.

For clarity sake o : I'm a lady, so the sex part is out of the question.

I dey with loud'' so i dey come.
I'm back'''''
'''anyways i overlooked so many things because i want to be her friend like how she talks down on me and the rest'''
This is where i stopped reading.

Ignore her.. Cook your food and eat it alone.

Ok .. nice write-up you have there ...
The way I see it, it seems you are afraid of that girl....
That's the truth...
Now what's the solution?
Have you both had sex? If no, then find way no matter what and have sex with her, then you can dispose her.. As it is, if you both breakup, you have nothing to gain and everything to lose, cuz you have fed her times without number...
She is rude!!!
And if at this stage of joblessness in her life, she is this way, then once she touches 100k, she will insult from your grandfather down to you .. and worse, nothing you can do ...
Don't continue the relationship...
End it...
If you can't, then you are afraid of her.... And a fearful man in the hands of a woman is on the same level or below, with a houseboy ...
Be wise....

You no get any problem... Na just nice you nice

You av low self esteem.

You see her as the best thing that could ever happen to u, she saw through you and she's acting on it.

Start by telling her that u want her out of your space.

Lol
You have a very low self esteem and the lady is banking on that. You see her as someone you are looking up to or something.
Her porch lifestyle maybe.

Your shame dey shame me walahi

Justbehave:
Your shame dey shame me walahi

Nna even me saf, attimes I wonder if na jazz, but I feel its just crush I had on her, and it made me blind to her nasty character.

Nemesis0147:
Lol
You have a very low self esteem and the lady is banking on that. You see her as someone you are looking up to or something.
Her porch lifestyle maybe.

Yeah I've always had a crush on her, nothing sextually per say, but I was just in awe of her.
And living with her showed me that the babe is more broke than a church rat, all na packaging

Ellaunbothered:

Nna even me saf, attimes I wonder if na jazz, but I feel its just crush I had on her, and it made me blind to her nasty character.

If you know Wetin good for you now just send her out of your life ASAP

Foodqueen:
You av low self esteem.

You see her as the best thing that could ever happen to u, she saw through you and she's acting on it.

Start by telling her that u want her out of your space.

Now she is the worst thing that has ever happened to me!

Ellaunbothered:

Yeah I've always had a crush on her, nothing sextually per say, but I was just in awe of her.
And living with her showed me that the babe is more broke than a church rat, all na packaging

do the needful by kicking her out of your life and apartment.

I’m just seeing everything from Lesbo perspective but in absent of that, you have to be dominant. Why I don’t like been in people’s lane is because I don’t like wasting time in kicking people outta my lane.
She won’t waste time to snatch any of your way to do guys she had opportunity to meet ✌️

Wtf is going on here?

Georgekyrian:
I’m just seeing everything from Lesbo perspective but in absent of that, you have to be dominant. Why I don’t like been in people’s lane is because I don’t like wasting time in kicking people outta my lane.
She won’t waste time to snatch any of your way to do guys she had opportunity to meet ✌️

Iol There's no sextual tensions between us, it's just how you are just in awe of someone because they are pretty and all. That's all.

The rate at which young girls are becoming lesbians is quite alarming I think the government needs to do something about it

The real problem here is that you two are lacking gbola, I assure una that once gbola enters into your lives everything will be solved on it’s own

Hmmm... From the beginning of the story I thought that it was a guy, but a lady, something is not clear.

Huanty is a diva..... continue to enable her o.

Everything just dey elude you
I dey house you, I come still dey feed you... You no come give me my deserved respect?
Wahala go dey o. You no know say I be your god?