@ OP, I suggest you channel this grievance towards something beneficial to you and your family, it’s your turn to prove you’re nothing like your parents, don’t give your family a hint that you’re still hurting, when you successfully raise a family, then I’ll say that’s the best revenge you could ever give to your parents… just think about it

Wilpraise55:
your story aniehe eba.

Ejaka mi

ok we hear , but forgive them if it real

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother. Who come be your elder brother... This story no clear!

Wodu89:




Will you keep kwayet there. I had way more hard experiences than this. If the whole world keeps on lamenting about 20+ years trauma, the entire world would be a horror movie.

Oga, like I said earlier, everybody with their level of understanding and temperament, person wey suffer pass you and OP still Dey this Nigeria, so no feel say cus you escape your hell mean say everybody supposed escape and rap with their hell

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

You better forgive forget and move forward what about those who don't know their parents at all

omoh.........sorry 4 ur story bro,bt guy,u must 4gv them and move on with life.

ur experience is nt the worst in history.

Just forgive them... God don dey bless you

Now listen son,

A father DOES NOT abandon his children,

Your father did what he did for a reason, get back close to your father and find out.

Maybe your father found out that the kids were not his or your mom was hell to him and he couldn't continue living with her.

It could just be anything.

There is nothing a man desires in life like peace of mind, most women on the other hand drive with unending drama.

But if the same blood that runs in you runs in your father as well, go back to your father, he is your root.

And when you do this, mind you, do not go to him cursing chaos. Go with all humility.

Be blessed.

peretei2024:


I thank God, today am a graduate, married with 2 kids without their 1kobo contributed.

🤔

jackmrandy:
Sorry about your story. The challenges most young people are facing today is /was as a result of the mistake their parents made. And both parties could not resolve issue either due to pride, arrogance.

My word for you, move on and act like they don't exist anymore. One day they will surely need you..... But for now concentrate on yourself and look for a way out to solve your problem.

Try dey read now.
The mum is dead.

peretei2024:


I thank God, today am a graduate, married with 2 kids without their 1kobo contributed.

Allihamdulilahi


AllahuAkbar

May God give you the grace and heart to forgive. Pray hard and ask God why this has to happen in your life the way it did.
I know how painful this is to you that your parents would abandon you. It's traumatic. But thank God for keeping you alive against all odds.
Live well with your children and spouse and place yourself in God's hands for His purpose to be fulfilled in your life.

God bless.

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

Wodu89:
You are holding on to grudge that's how many years old now please ? You have two children plus youre now an adult. Meaning up to 20-25 years old situation?


Na wa o

People who has never tasted hell will just open their mouth and talk rubbish. You think that it is easy to forgive... People who have mind to abandon the gift that God gave to them do they have a good heart at all? Do they deserve forgiveness to start with? Some forgiveness is a sin on its own

You should have the heart to forgive, just as the Lord has forgiven us our sins.

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

Your best bet now is just to concentrate on Yourself and also help your sister out too ..If you are very capable try and convince her and her husband to relocate to a better city and make sure that they have a better life...

My brother God has settled you. Forgive them and let the burden roll off natural.

To hell is human and to forgive is divine. Pray for the grace, cos it will not be easy to forgive such a parent.

jackmrandy:
Sorry about your story. The challenges most young people are facing today is /was as a result of the mistake their parents made. And both parties could not resolve issue either due to pride, arrogance.

My word for you, move on and act like they don't exist anymore. One day they will surely need you..... But for now concentrate on yourself and look for a way out to solve your problem.

This is the best advice. OP listen to this guy. Act as if they don't exist. The more you think about them the more you get psychological trauma

Wooow...am happy for you

peretei2024:


I thank God, today am a graduate, married with 2 kids without their 1kobo contributed.

peretei2024:


I thank God, today am a graduate, married with 2 kids without their 1kobo contributed.

Congratulations God will continue to enlarge you

Truly, your parents failed you. I know it is hard to forget about that type of your early life experience, but you have to move on with your life. And remember never to fail yourself and your children.

peretei2024:


I thank God, today am a graduate, married with 2 kids without their 1kobo contributed.

Eheee. You have revenged. Remember to rehabilitate your sister. You shall look back someday and smile at how far God has taken you.

Wodu89:



Oga God has settled.you, if you are not seeing people telling you that you're as wicked as your father,.then you've been meeting the wrong people. Carry that unforgivenmess to your grave and you'll hate where you'll find yourself.


You graduate

You are married

You have kids

You have businesses


Yet you're whining like a toddler. Delete this thread and grow up plz. Men talk business, not 25 + years trauma

U don't know what he went through and here u are judging and blabbing. U r wicked and evil.

peretei2024:


You can see I didn't reply him bcz if I do I will curse his generation

Forget him, the guy doesn't understand what trauma means.

shantti:


U don't know what he went through and here u are judging and blabbing. U r wicked and evil.

I am not. You gossip monger. Find your fix elsewhere.

Zonefree:
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So, you started tapping palm wine at the age of five

😅😅

Archtype:
People who has never tasted hell will just open their mouth and talk rubbish. You think that it is easy to forgive... People who have mind to abandon the gift that God gave to them do they have a good heart at all? Do they deserve forgiveness to start with? Some forgiveness is a sin on its own

He has a right to grief. The situation is bad enough

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

Well get a religion and a way of life
So that you can appreciate the fact that they brought you into this life
Else you will be worse than them in the near future

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.

I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).

On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried ,
and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.

Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.

Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.

When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.

After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.

Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.

My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.

Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.

My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.

From what I see your family has another 700 years in poverty , you people are not ready yet

C2Ok:

Oga, like I said earlier, everybody with their level of understanding and temperament, person wey suffer pass you and OP still Dey this Nigeria, so no feel say cus you escape your hell mean say everybody supposed escape and rap with their hell

He has a right to be traumatized. I pray he finds healing

OP,

Ur story is NOT well constructed.😒

Starting Tapping wine @Age 5 or 6 and selling it to make money.

Hope no be LIES you dey blow for here? 😏😕

peretei2024:


I thank God, today am a graduate, married with 2 kids without their 1kobo contributed.

Glory to God. God’s blessings will continue to increase in your life