I started dating this girl and up until recently she left me and she didn't even act mature about it, after so many days of giving me unnecessary attitude I asked her to come out let's meet and she said she can't come out because she doesn't feel like and cut the call, called her about two time and I just read the situation and left her alone for good.

I've been doing good for the past two months because I completely cut her out of my life and started my self improvement journey all over again after the relationship drained all my energy from focusing on myself.

Now this Sunday I found myself thinking about her and I went ahead to unblock her and check what's she's up to and the feelings are coming back as guilt heavily on me like I was the one that bleeped up.

I always used to scold this girl alot almost everytime we had an issue but it's not because I liked it it's because anytime I tried to talk normally to her to solve an issue she'll keep gaslighting me like I don't know what I'm saying, giving exclamations like hmm, nawa oo and all that when I'm speaking so it always made me angry that all the things she did it me we never got to talk about it we'll but it was always about her and how I made her angry.

She just sits there and doesn't make an effort to talk when it comes to solving issues, she'll just be silent and sometimes she'll look at me and just throw her face away and it pissed me off that's why I always shouted for her like why in the hell are you acting this way.

She only responded to when I scoud her or treat her like a child that's when she behaves her self that I no longer even talked normally to her when we have issues all I do is go there scold her and bounce out then we keep malice for some days until she calls or I call.

I was fustrated in the relationship honestly but I started the scolding when we first started dating that everything I did always made her angry, every day she'll vex for everything and I'll be apologizing like everything about me is wrong so I got pissed went to meet her and shouted for her since then misbehavior started.

so I'm confused and filled with guilt that was I the one to broke my relationship because honestly as a person I don't even know myself anymore after the relationship that's why I'm trying to work on myself again.

People around there think I'm an abusive partner now, at that time when I scold her she'll always tell our mutual friends and there was time she even recorded me scolding her. Honestly I'm filled with so much regret because all I wanted was peace and logical reasoning then all these

Now after the relationship anytime something I'm not expecting happens my heart's starts beating so fast it's uncomfortable (it think it's anxiety) it developed when this girl started giving me attitude my silly self started panicking. After two months of dating this girl everything changed after our first argument I don't even know, everytime she met me she was frowning from start to end of relationship, she's always rushing home, always has something on her mind, doesn't want to discuss serious issues. It's not even like I was not okay losing her but whenever i thought she wasn't interested she'll come back again it was a rollercoaster or emotions.

I'm not an emotional but the way I got attached to this girl I don't understand. Guys pls help me with advise I need it did I do wrong?

when you put your hand into the fire, would it not get burnt?

both of you are not compatible, you would get destroyed at the end if you insist on rebonding this doomed relationship.

DamianDd:
I started dating this girl and up until recently she left me and she didn't even act mature about it, after so many days of giving me unnecessary attitude I asked her to come out let's meet and she said she can't come out because she doesn't feel like and cut the call, called her about two time and I just read the situation and left her alone for good.

I've been doing good for the past two months because I completely cut her out of my life and started my self improvement journey all over again after the relationship drained all my energy from focusing on myself.

Now this Sunday I found myself thinking about her and I went ahead to unblock her and check what's she's up to and the feelings are coming back as guilt heavily on me like I was the one that bleeped up.

I always used to scold this girl alot almost everytime we had an issue but it's not because I liked it it's because anytime I tried to talk normally to her to solve an issue she'll keep gaslighting me like I don't know what I'm saying, giving exclamations like hmm, nawa oo and all that when I'm speaking so it always made me angry that all the things she did it me we never got to talk about it we'll but it was always about her and how I made her angry.

She just sits there and doesn't make an effort to talk when it comes to solving issues, she'll just be silent and sometimes she'll look at me and just throw her face away and it pissed me off that's why I always shouted for her like why in the hell are you acting this way.

She only responded to when I scoud her or treat her like a child that's when she behaves her self that I no longer even talked normally to her when we have issues all I do is go there scold her and bounce out then we keep malice for some days until she calls or I call.

I was fustrated in the relationship honestly but I started the scolding when we first started dating that everything I did always made her angry, every day she'll vex for everything and I'll be apologizing like everything about me is wrong so I got pissed went to meet her and shouted for her since then misbehavior started.

so I'm confused and filled with guilt that was I the one to broke my relationship because honestly as a person I don't even know myself anymore after the relationship that's why I'm trying to work on myself again.

People around there think I'm an abusive partner now, at that time when I scold her she'll always tell our mutual friends and there was time she even recorded me scolding her. Honestly I'm filled with so much regret because all I wanted was peace and logical reasoning then all these

Now after the relationship anytime something I'm not expecting happens my heart's starts beating so fast it's uncomfortable (it think it's anxiety) it developed when this girl started giving me attitude my silly self started panicking. After two months of dating this girl everything changed after our first argument I don't even know, everytime she met me she was frowning from start to end of relationship, she's always rushing home, always has something on her mind, doesn't want to discuss serious issues. It's not even like I was not okay losing her but whenever i thought she wasn't interested she'll come back again it was a rollercoaster or emotions.

I'm not an emotional but the way I got attached to this girl I don't understand. Guys pls help me with advise I need it did I do wrong?

... Move on, you'll not die!
Just let it all go in peace before you'll go back to her and everything would end in pieces!!!

How old are you?

Who told you to unblock her? And besides aren't you supposed to delete her contact from your phone unfriend and unfollow her on every social media you two are? Before you check up on any ex "if at all" give it like 2-3years after breaking up.

Better find something meaningful to do with you life and stop guilt tripping yourself over nothing. Someone that has moved on with her life. Please before your next relationship, work very hard on your emotions.

You need to grow up bro. You are the problem here and not her.

Any relationship that's instigating anger, rude behavior, violence in you, is not healthy for you.
A relationship where you're doing the scolding and talking, while she isn't interested in positive communication for positive change is not good enough for both of you.

And you need to take life easy as well. Not every action from her, need scolding. She's not your daughter or student.

The truth is, when you meet someone who genuinely love and care for you, he/she will not stress you. He/she will love to make effort to make himself/herself better for you.
Two can not work together, unless they agree

You are scolding her or you are beating her?

Why would you even be scolding Ur babe repeatedly till the extent that she recorded it?

Sort ursef out first b4 getting a GF

Any relationship that does not give you peace of mind, cut it off

Does your scolding mean beating her? If yes she is right to leave you, so move on and work on your anger issues.

You got drained in the relationship, you had the chance to escape and refill yourself, now you want to go back to suffer??


Girl that was giving cold feet and bad attitude and disrespect?
A man should never tolerate disrespect, you are already doing well for your self feeling proud and accomplished, don’t you think you deserve better

Don’t you think you deserve seven women at your beck and call, that would respect you like the king that you??

Better focus harder and cast your nets where bigger fishes are, your next girl should always be better than the last, peace ✌️

DenreleDave:
You are scolding her or you are beating her?

Why would you even be scolding Ur babe repeatedly till the extent that she recorded it?

Sort ursef out first b4 getting a GF

Was in a very dark part of my life then, finances and all. Maybe that was why

Gadafii:
You got drained in the relationship, you had the chance to escape and refill yourself, now you want to go back to suffer??


Girl that was giving cold feet and bad attitude and disrespect?
A man should never tolerate disrespect, you are already doing well for your self feeling proud and accomplished, don’t you think you deserve better

Don’t you think you deserve seven women at your beck and call, that would respect you like the king that you??

Better focus harder and cast your nets where bigger fishes are, your next girl should always be better than the last, peace ✌️

As it should be. Thanks man

DenreleDave:
You are scolding her or you are beating her?

Why would you even be scolding Ur babe repeatedly till the extent that she recorded it?

Sort ursef out first b4 getting a GF

Never done that in any relationship I was in before, I'm a very very chill guy that's why I said it was shocking to me as well. The heart aches and all well I feel it's because I was broke so the feeling of losing one of the last things I had that's what got me always angry. I few girls I dated was when I had good finance so I really didn't mind losing anybody.

Move on already. It’s because you haven’t find someone yet that why you are still thinking of her.

When you find someone interesting you will forget her for good.

How much is in your savings account...

It baffles me when I read stories like these...

Bro, move on with your life......Not every relationship is bound to lead to marriage..... Some are meant to teach us lessons while others are meant to either build us up,or doom us forever....

Move on.

Sir with all due respect focus on yourself.... let love find it place on mutuality,...

If someone likes you, they will show it....

And it's rare under this regime 😂😂😂😂

Good luck