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Reasons Why Some Guys Leave Their Old Girlfriend After They Made It. by fineboynl(m): 9:20pm On Sep 02, 2023
There is this old sentiment when someone who knows you before while you were suffering. Lack of respect and when you talk she will reply “because you done get money na” since he now has money why won’t he raise voice or misbehaved.

No guy want to be in that shoe. Were he can not talk or be in control again just because the babe knows him when i was suffering. The fact he was once poor before and had no choice or a voice shouldn’t make him less of a man. The relationship can become toxic when the guy keep misbehaved or reminding him of where she met him. When he was broke he was taking alot of things she thrown at him even though they have been together all the while. But when the mulla enters he will likely changed and there will be issues and it would be only a matter of time before he moves on to find someone else who never suffered with him.

Two people are living together for years doesn’t mean everything is fine with them.

I know some guys can misbehaved when money enters, as money can bring the real character of humans both women alike.

But most guy will find peace with a new girl than their former girl. Because this new girl will respect them and take things thrown at her compared to the former.

A prophet has no respect in his home town. Its of similar thing.

The chance for a struggling guy to leave his babe when he finally made money is so high like 80%.
Re: Reasons Why Some Guys Leave Their Old Girlfriend After They Made It. by Jeon(f): 10:32pm On Sep 02, 2023
Very funny.
So many excuses.



What pinned your bumbum down in the relationship when she was disrespecting and insult you during the rainy days ?.
Because you know that you won't be accepted by others .



Staying with someone during the rainy days doesn't guarantee loyalty and faithfulness, even though you're more than Angel Michael.



But Op, are you sure you're not talking about yourself?.

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Re: Reasons Why Some Guys Leave Their Old Girlfriend After They Made It. by talented321: 1:43am On Sep 03, 2023
Where did u get ur statistics from?
If you talk about cheating, it will be more considerable. Nobody mess with a man who has money not even ur parents it doesn't matter whether you was suffering or you was drinking garri everyday.. If the story don change he don change.
It is ur duty to let ur woman understand that things has change and she have to accept the reality and how you started the relationship matters unless she is the one that was feeding u if not i don't take such words as a threat.
If she was cheating on me when i was broke then that is advisable to let her go.
It is immaturity and lack of sympathy that make many men to reject the woman who sufferred with them despite resisting many temptation to stand by you. If she really sufferred with you then she also have the right to remind you of the former days because a wrong decision you take might also affect her.
Rejecting a woman because u think her yansh, breast and maybe she is not beautiful again in ur eyes is immaturity.

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Re: Reasons Why Some Guys Leave Their Old Girlfriend After They Made It. by fineboynl(m): 6:57am On Sep 03, 2023
talented321:
Where did u get ur statistics from?
If you talk about cheating, it will be more considerable. Nobody mess with a man who has money not even ur parents he doesn't matter whether you was suffering or you was drinking garri everyday.. If the story don change he don change.
It is ur duty to let ur woman understand that things has change and she have to accept the reality and how you started the relationship matters unless she is the one that was feeding if not i don't take such words as a threat..
If she was cheating on me when i was broke then that is advisable to let her go.
It is immaturity and lack of sympathy that make many men to reject the woman who sufferred with them despite resisting many temptation to standy by you. If she really sufferred with you then she also have the right to remind you the former days because a wrong decision you take might also affect her.
Rejecting a woman because u think her yansh, breast and maybe she is beautiful again in ur eyes is a very bad behavior..

Some guys had no choice while dating a woman. So many things might be wrong with the relationship which will makes him laments within himself I'd I had options you would have move on many before he make money.

When money enters he now has power to be in control and that includes the choice to choose the right one for his own peace.

I'm not supporting the act but only starting my observations.

There are alot of guy who choose not to date a woman when things are rough. To avoid a scenario like this. "I suffered with you" I'm one of them.

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Re: Reasons Why Some Guys Leave Their Old Girlfriend After They Made It. by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:24pm On Sep 03, 2023
Okay cool, so men should stop being mad when women leave broke men for high class men. They also have genuine reasons for that like disrespect, misbehavior from the man, and peace, simple.

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Re: Reasons Why Some Guys Leave Their Old Girlfriend After They Made It. by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:05pm On Sep 03, 2023
fineboynl:
There is this old sentiment when someone who knows you before while you were suffering. Lack of respect and when you talk she will reply “because you done get money na” since he now has money why won’t he raise voice or misbehaved.

No guy want to be in that shoe. Were he can not talk or be in control again just because the babe knows him when i was suffering. The fact he was once poor before and had no choice or a voice shouldn’t make him less of a man. The relationship can become toxic when the guy keep misbehaved or reminding him of where she met him. When he was broke he was taking alot of things she thrown at him even though they have been together all the while. But when the mulla enters he will likely changed and there will be issues and it would be only a matter of time before he moves on to find someone else who never suffered with him.

Two people are living together for years doesn’t mean everything is fine with them.

I know some guys can misbehaved when money enters, as money can bring the real character of humans both women alike.

But most guy will find peace with a new girl than their former girl. Because this new girl will respect them and take things thrown at her compared to the former.

A prophet has no respect in his home town. Its of similar thing.

The chance for a struggling guy to leave his babe when he finally made money is so high like 80%.



money gives you access to things you never has access before, by that your are exposed to new things

If you were doing shopping by the market or street corner, you now drive to the supermarket and the super market you are exposed to more people, who are glowing not those under the shade at the market

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