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How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PeeboyDmx: 9:30am On Oct 11, 2023
I wish I haven't blocked her and deleted our chat, I would have shown a picture here.

Guys, how do you cope with these set of girls?

ME: Hw fr
How are you?

HER: Fine

ME: How was your day?

HER: Good

ME: Okay

HER: Kk



I mean, how dumb can someone be?
many of them move around with an I.Q below 5
This is someone that I haven't seen for a very long time, we finally meet and I collected your number and this is how you chat?
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Reminderz: 9:33am On Oct 11, 2023
I will leave her on read.. it just shows she's not feeling you bro... just ignore her and move on.. when a girl is feeling you, na she go dey disturb you with long messages sef...

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Pierocash(m): 9:56am On Oct 11, 2023
Stop forcing yourself on people. It is obvious she isn't into you, she doesn't like you but you couldn't pick the signal.

She doesn't chat that way with the person she likes.

Every girl chats well, it depends on who they are chatting with

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PeeboyDmx: 10:04am On Oct 11, 2023
I don't force myself on anyone

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by skj1377(m): 10:09am On Oct 11, 2023
Oga, the lady is in high demand . If you check her phone she is chatting with over 50 people 90% of them will be replied same way your complaining about. Look for someone that has your time.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Nazgul: 10:16am On Oct 11, 2023
There's no reason to get offended. My best guess is that she's within the ages of 18-23.

Girls within that age bracket chat with dozens of guys simultaneously. The kk, fine, ok...etc, replies she's sending to you is just her way of trying to reply everyone at once.

I'll suggest you jejely walk away and keep on searching until you find the girl who would sincerely have time to engage you in a conversation.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by siofra(f): 10:17am On Oct 11, 2023
Stop throwing emotional tantrums like a toddler. Your text game is whack and she's not into you undecided

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Carcholce: 10:24am On Oct 11, 2023
skj1377:
Oga, the lady is in high demand . If you check her phone she is chatting with over 50 people 90% of them will be replied same way you’re complaining about. Look for someone that has your time.

But isn’t that dumb?

Why even reply to chats at all? I learnt this recently. If you know texting or chatting with some people is a waste, don’t reply them at all. She could have left the OP on read when She noticed the OP doesn’t have an important message for her.
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Cassandraloius: 10:32am On Oct 11, 2023
She's in her prime perhaps very many guys are on her list and she don't even like you. grin
In her mind, you're just there. Quit the relationship already.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by lordofreal(m): 10:35am On Oct 11, 2023
you yourself is just asking a question like an examiner.what do you expect her to say there?if you want toast go ahead and say your mind.wbich one is cross examination.
PeeboyDmx:
I wish I haven't blocked her and deleted our chat, I would have shown a picture here.

Guys, how do you cope with these set of girls?

ME: Hw fr
How are you?

HER: Fine

ME: How was your day?

HER: Good

ME: Okay

HER: Kk



I mean, how dumb can someone be?
many of them move around with an I.Q below 5
This is someone that I haven't seen for a very long time, we finally meet and I collected your number and this is how you chat?

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PeeboyDmx: 11:00am On Oct 11, 2023
siofra:
Stop throwing emotional tantrums like a toddler. Your text game is whack and she's not into you undecided



You all misinterpreting my post as me trying to be romantic or stuff like that, between me and the said girl there is and can never be anything romance or relationship.


This was supposed to be a nice, friendly chat between two old friends but clearly she doesn't have the brains to compose a good complete sentence thus the "Fine", "Okay", "Kk"

anyone taking his or her time to send me a message, checking up on me and trying to know how I am doing in this present Nigeria, with all the stress and hardship, doesn't only deserve a GOOD response, but has to be appreciated also

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Corrosiveman(m): 11:02am On Oct 11, 2023
grin
Chai! 😭
Sorry Anita,
Our Ladies should be very careful
She was raped,
Watch how it happened
https:///Bleep-Raped-Bleep
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PeeboyDmx: 11:04am On Oct 11, 2023
Cassandraloius:
She's in her prime perhaps very many guys are on her list and she don't even like you. grin
In her mind, you're just there. Quit the relationship already.



There is none and can never be any relationship with the said girl.
I have a high standard, I don't roll with dumb girls that have no I.Q and zero sense of reasoning.

How on earth do you discuss Politics and other things with this kind of person?
These set of people DON'T have the brains to think critically
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by pansophist(m): 11:17am On Oct 11, 2023
Ask her to send her account number that you want to surprise her, then watch how she turns to a writer instantly.

Many of the pains people suffer are self-imposed. Her actions have told you everything you need to know, but you're enduring her lack of reciprocity and disinterest, refusing to see it for what it is.

Stop infusing your bias on things that is as clear as sunlight. I like like lions, but I see the beast for what it is, it will eat me for breakfast.

So because you like her, if she treat you anyhow, don't let your likeness for her distort your logic, or to see kerosene as fuel. Being in love and being dumb are not the same.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PeeboyDmx: 11:22am On Oct 11, 2023
pansophist:
Ask her to send her account number that you want to surprise her, then watch how she turns to a writer instantly.

Many of the pains people suffer are self-imposed. Her actions have told you everything you need to know, but you're enduring her lack of reciprocity and disinterest, refusing to see it for what it is.




Funny, but true.


I have zero endurance for DUMB people, she has been blocked

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by ruggedtimi(m): 11:29am On Oct 11, 2023
Bt u didnt spice up the conversation...which one be howfar..how are you..both of una boring.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PeeboyDmx: 11:36am On Oct 11, 2023
ruggedtimi:
Bt u didnt spice up the conversation...which one be howfar..how are you..both of una boring.




A sensible human with a working brain would reply "I am fine, thank you, how are you too?"

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by LarryCork: 3:38pm On Oct 11, 2023
siofra:
Stop throwing emotional tantrums like a toddler. Your text game is whack and she's not into you undecided



Todilar korrrr...todilar niiii!!! angry
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Makaveli217(m): 5:18pm On Oct 11, 2023
PeeboyDmx:





A sensible human with a working brain would reply "I am fine, thank you, how are you too?"

My brother save yourself the stress, it's guys that can't control themselves that makes girls of today feel too important.
These days if I meet an old time female friend or class mate, I don't bother to take number, we'll just talk, say goodbye and part ways, it's no use taking their number, unless it's strictly for business, chating with them leave you empty and dumb, they'll expect you to keep the chat going. Those who say if a girl is feeling you she'll be the one to bug you with chat are dreamers, I hope they wake up. They'll chat you up because they want something from you, not because they are feeling you, if you think they care, THEY DON'T.
If I spend few minutes chating with someone, I want to learn something new, you can't do that with girls of today, a 4 -6 year old kid in America can hold up meaningful conversations of different topics that will leave you speechless better than girls in Nigeria. It seams they are all wired the same way.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PeeboyDmx: 7:03pm On Oct 11, 2023
Makaveli217:


My brother save yourself the stress, it's guys that can't control themselves that makes girls of today feel too important.
These days if I meet an old time female friend or class mate, I don't bother to take number, we'll just talk, say goodbye and part ways, it's no use taking their number, unless it's strictly for business, chating with them leave you empty and dumb, they'll expect you to keep the chat. Those who say if a girl is feeling you she'll be the one to bug you with chat are dreamers, I hope they wake up. They'll chat you up because they want something from you, not because they are feeling you, if you think they care, THEY DON'T.
If I spend few minutes chating with someone, I want to learn something new, you can't do that with girls of today, a 4 -6 year old kid in America can hold up meaningful conversations of different topics that will leave you speechless better than girls in Nigeria. It seams they are all wired the same way.




Brotherly your wisdom is divine.

You are the only one saying something sensible, others are just deceiving themselves, saying she is my girlfriend or I want to make her one.

Some girls are just too Dumb

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Spiff20(m): 7:46pm On Oct 11, 2023
Makaveli217:


My brother save yourself the stress, it's guys that can't control themselves that makes girls of today feel too important.
These days if I meet an old time female friend or class mate, I don't bother to take number, we'll just talk, say goodbye and part ways, it's no use taking their number, unless it's strictly for business, chating with them leave you empty and dumb, they'll expect you to keep the chat going. Those who say if a girl is feeling you she'll be the one to bug you with chat are dreamers, I hope they wake up. They'll chat you up because they want something from you, not because they are feeling you, if you think they care, THEY DON'T.
If I spend few minutes chating with someone, I want to learn something new, you can't do that with girls of today, a 4 -6 year old kid in America can hold up meaningful conversations of different topics that will leave you speechless better than girls in Nigeria. It seams they are all wired the same way.
Nigerian girls are 70% dumb. A guy can comfortably hold conversations with 50 girls and still respond to them very well. But Nigerian girls are both mentally lazy and dumb. It really sucks. I was chatting with a Zimbabwean and her chat game was so lit, I added an emoji to her name. All you get from most Nigerian girls is fine, tank u, okay, lol, hmmm, really, good,
They're too lazy to compose a sentence and it doesn't matter if they are into you or not. Their lazinesss will outweigh their love for you. Unless you call them on phone. Now that's the person that will do assignments for your kids.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PinkNature: 7:49pm On Oct 11, 2023
No need to waste your time and people who text like that. Be it male or female.
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by PinkNature: 7:56pm On Oct 11, 2023
Those saying if a girl is into you, she's going to text you properly. Well this isn't a general concept.

You and a girl can be romantically involved but both of you might not be texting on SM.

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by nolimitssoldier: 9:20pm On Oct 11, 2023
I'll delete her sorry a$$ number, there are a billion ladies fresher with more sense out there... No time for oshi
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by almarthins(m): 9:32pm On Oct 11, 2023
PeeboyDmx:
I wish I haven't blocked her and deleted our chat, I would have shown a picture here.

Guys, how do you cope with these set of girls?

ME: Hw fr
How are you?

HER: Fine

ME: How was your day?

HER: Good

ME: Okay

HER: Kk



I mean, how dumb can someone be?
many of them move around with an I.Q below 5
This is someone that I haven't seen for a very long time, we finally meet and I collected your number and this is how you chat?

Those kind girl can be bado baddest.

I even get one right now wey she just do hi, okay, alright.gudnite. I wan marry you come mean make u come dey treat me like secondary school boy.

I just tire, I swear. Girls like bad boys

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Smartguyboy(m): 9:33pm On Oct 11, 2023
PeeboyDmx:
I wish I haven't blocked her and deleted our chat, I would have shown a picture here.

Guys, how do you cope with these set of girls?

ME: Hw fr
How are you?

HER: Fine

ME: How was your day?

HER: Good

ME: Okay

HER: Kk



I mean, how dumb can someone be?
many of them move around with an I.Q below 5
This is someone that I haven't seen for a very long time, we finally meet and I collected your number and this is how you chat?

Just add her to your concubines (Fùćk)list only chat them up when you want to 🍆 🍑 .
I have many of them like that before only chat them up when I need something from them , one particular her own is so Annoying I always delete our chats but I love her sha full package.
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by seanwilliam(m): 9:45pm On Oct 11, 2023
She’s just not into you. If a girl likes you, na you go even tired

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Sonnobax15(m): 10:02pm On Oct 11, 2023
lipsrsealed
I swear to God I just blocked one tonight..

Since my banny has been to NYSC,so I decided to play around for once....Went around and took a banny's number and finally made up my mind to call her tonight, just to know if she's sensible enough..

Lo and behold,she started giving me short replies,and ended up by billing me.....Na once I end the call, delete her numbers and blocked her on whatsapp...

Rubbish undecided

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Nicepoker(m): 6:34am On Oct 12, 2023
pansophist:
Ask her to send her account number that you want to surprise her, then watch how she turns to a writer instantly.

Many of the pains people suffer are self-imposed. Her actions have told you everything you need to know, but you're enduring her lack of reciprocity and disinterest, refusing to see it for what it is.

Stop infusing your bias on things that is as clear as sunlight. I like like lions, but I see the beast for what it is, it will eat me for breakfast.

So because you like her, if she treat you anyhow, don't let your likeness for her distort your logic, or to see kerosene as fuel. Being in love and being dumb are not the same.
kerosene is fuel nah.
Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by Bellotelli: 7:14am On Oct 12, 2023
PeeboyDmx:




You all misinterpreting my post as me trying to be romantic or stuff like that, between me and the said girl there is and can never be anything romance or relationship.


This was supposed to be a nice, friendly chat between two old friends but clearly she doesn't have the brains to compose a good complete sentence thus the "Fine", "Okay", "Kk"

anyone taking his or her time to send me a message, checking up on me and trying to know how I am doing in this present Nigeria, with all the stress and hardship, doesn't only deserve a GOOD response, but has to be appreciated also
Use that same energy to chat ur sisters or relations. Try check up on them and see the joy

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by duduade: 7:28am On Oct 12, 2023
As a man I withdraw.... I no get strenght at all please

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Re: How Do You Cope With Girls That Chat Like This by VinnyBaba: 7:43am On Oct 12, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I swear to God I just blocked one tonight..

Since my banny has been to NYSC,so I decided to play around for once....Went around and took a banny's number and finally made up my mind to call her tonight, just to know if she's sensible enough..

Lo and behold,she started giving me short replies,and ended up by billing me.....Na once I end the call, delete her numbers and blocked her on whatsapp...

Rubbish undecided

Lols, they will meet a Guy @10:O0am and Tell him to give them N5000 by10:30am.😯🤦

But If you Toast them by 10:00am and ask them to come to ur Apartment by 10:30am, Dem go dey Vex! 😏🙁🙁

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