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Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by mopegirl(f): 8:58am On Sep 13, 2007
Mope girl here again,
i am a girl, 20 years of age and i am a very close friend to this guy, 22 years, there is a strong bond between us, and i think we are both in love, but the problem there is that no one want to talk, we behave like lovers most of the time and pple dont believe that we are not in a relationship

Y i really nid help is because i have bin in this type of case b4 and the guy left but later told me he loved me, bt wen i did not tell him, he told me that he did mot want to offend me, thats y he did not talk

so please i need ur help, should i tell this new one?

i really love him and don't wanna loose him the way i lost the other guy.

SHOULD I TELL HIM I LOVE HIM?

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Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by olanajim(m): 9:25am On Sep 13, 2007
Tell him!
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by olanajim(m): 9:26am On Sep 13, 2007
Tell him!
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by Easybaby(f): 9:33am On Sep 13, 2007
Don't tell him! undecided
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by NaJaHaJe(f): 9:34am On Sep 13, 2007
erm,,,,,,,,, I am a lil worried as to the reason he has not come with his feelings for you.

Personally i wont tell him I LOVE YOU.

I will definitely lay it down for him with something like;  'babe, do you really like me? cos I think am starting to like you a lot and i wana know if we are on the same page so am not wasting my time.'

But you need to understand your closeness to know how to approach him.

I am really not impressed that he has not said anything to that effect to you. Is he shy or just enjoying the attention that he's receiving from you with no strings attached.
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by acidrop(f): 9:39am On Sep 13, 2007
dont tell him, let him tell u
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by hucarson(m): 9:46am On Sep 13, 2007
tell him . . . its the best u can do.
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by jkpretty(f): 10:02am On Sep 13, 2007
Oh please don't tell him

This has occured to me several times, but i never for once helped any guy out, to spit his mind.

Let him come out, on his own, he eventually will, if he has mutual feelings. Again maybe he is still studying u & u are already thru with ur own part of studying.

I would not out rule the fact that he may be shy or afraid of rejection. Guys usually face this, but, If a real guy actually wants something, he should go for it, & be bold. cool
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by swiftycool(m): 10:12am On Sep 13, 2007
Be creative send him some ambigous not to direct love texts that will make him think hard, but dont tell him outright if he's wise butterflies will start moving in his tommy and he'll feel confident to ask u and tell u what he feels 4 u. cheers
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by NaJaHaJe(f): 10:53am On Sep 13, 2007
don't tell him you love him. talk to him but don't tell him you love him not unless you're ready for embarrassment!!!!
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by sniperwolf(m): 11:51am On Sep 13, 2007
From falling in love with your gardner to the other person. Who are you mopegirl
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by saucekid(m): 12:14pm On Sep 13, 2007
sniperwolf:

From falling in love with your gardner to the other person. Who are you mopegirl

help me ask am
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by Easybaby(f): 1:42pm On Sep 13, 2007
sniperwolf:

From falling in love with your gardner to the other person. Who are you mopegirl

lmao . . .maybe, the same gardner cheesy grin undecided tongue
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by lafile(m): 1:51pm On Sep 13, 2007
All responses so far split evenly along sexual lines:
Males - Tell Him (thats their Ego talking).
Females - Dont tell him (thats their pride talking).

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Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by desgiezd(m): 1:54pm On Sep 13, 2007
I'm sure its the gardener, he's afraid of loosing his job thats why he hasnt opened up. Poor guy, if only he knows that Mope wont tell moomy.
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by NaJaHaJe(f): 2:11pm On Sep 13, 2007
lafile:

All responses so far split evenly along sexual lines:
Males - Tell Him (thats their Ego talking).
Females - Dont tell him (thats their pride talking).


For the ladies------ its actually common sense. (a trait that is wonderfully lacking in many males)

You see my dear lafile, women have this uncanny ability to see very well into the future because of our sensitive and emotional nature.

Don't you just love us. grin wink
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by fawwyb(m): 2:13pm On Sep 13, 2007
LOL grin grin grin  The gardener will never talk because of the fear of losing his JOB shocked shocked Better tell him, no gwark am ooo grin
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by somze(f): 2:20pm On Sep 13, 2007
Girls . . .
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by Easybaby(f): 3:04pm On Sep 13, 2007
fawwyb:

LOL grin grin grin The gardener will never talk because of the fear of losing his JOB shocked shocked Better tell him, no gwark am ooo grin

LMAO . . . grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by mellow(m): 3:07pm On Sep 13, 2007
Tell him don't tell him.

I think you know you himbetter.
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Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by PastorSly(m): 4:12pm On Sep 13, 2007
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Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by druggie233(m): 4:15pm On Sep 13, 2007
Don't tell him oh tongue tongue

When will guys start letting out their feelings undecided undecided

Let him tell you how he feels jare
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by sylvao2000(m): 4:35pm On Sep 13, 2007
@poster so you are in love with someone else abi, well good for you

back to your question, tell the gardener, he will never tell you because of his job but na waoo for you sha you are alwys in love who knows if you will not fall for another gardener again tomorrow.

@poster one question for you why do you always fall in love with your gardener is there anything special about gardener you see that make you fall easily for all the gardener in you street . l am very sure if the very gardener is remove from your house same thing will happen to the new one
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by NaJaHaJe(f): 4:36pm On Sep 13, 2007
druggie233:

Don't tell him oh tongue tongue

When will guys start letting out their feelings undecided undecided

Let him tell you how he feels jare


beta person!
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by druggie233(m): 4:48pm On Sep 13, 2007
NaJa HaJe:


beta person!
Thank u tongue
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by mopegirl(f): 4:55pm On Sep 13, 2007
thank you all for your contribution, but i never said that i fell in luv with a gardner, i said a friend of mine needs help.

saucekid:

help me ask am

pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee i did not fall in luv with a gardner o shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

all i need is ur help sad sad sad

plz 4get the issue of the  sad sad sadgardner and answer this one.
dont say cos he is scared  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked of ma dad or something


More to come. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

wink wink wink wink wink wink
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by mopegirl(f): 5:02pm On Sep 13, 2007
druggie233:

Don't tell him oh tongue tongue

When will guys start letting out their feelings undecided undecided

Let him tell you how he feels jare

tru tru u be beta person

thx ya
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by druggie233(m): 5:04pm On Sep 13, 2007
mopegirl:

tru tru u be beta person

thx ya
Welcome girl cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by saucekid(m): 7:08pm On Sep 13, 2007
by my calculations, i am 99.9% sure its the same gardener too
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by ssRhino: 7:36pm On Sep 13, 2007
Why do i like nairaland, it is a place to watch a movie without paying and where you see some comedian doing their thing, without being in same room with them, from gardner to another man, from another man to more to come, mopegirl, i raise yansh for you jare, tell him, ask him out jare.
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by mopegirl(f): 8:23am On Sep 14, 2007
@sauce kid,

i did not fall in love with gardner o

it was ma friends that needs help

this place is a place for rendering help

don't look at the previous post in replying someone pls sad sad sad sad sad
wink wink wink wink
Re: Ladies Corner 4; Should I Tell Him? by sylvao2000(m): 10:58am On Sep 14, 2007
@poster ==== gardner lover,  keep it up,  who knows your next love could be your driver grin grin grin grin wonders shall never end lol,

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