As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

What you need is a good career and source of income

Cruise777:
What you need is a good career and source of income

At 47, he not only needs a good job but a side project or gig as well. Many of his mates are out there trying to solve real life problems while his focus seems to be entirely only solving the twitching of the extra meat between his legs.

Kobojunkie:
At 47, he not only needs a good job but a side project or gig as well. Many of his mates are out there trying to solve real life problems while his focus seems to be entirely only solving the twitching of the extra meat between his legs.

I said a career.... That's a job he would love and would take atleast 9 hours of his daily time, and he would be very happy to return the next day

From my own personal experience... When you are so enmase in career work that you enjoy and you are making good money, hardly will you have time for addictive behavior like oloshoing around

Cruise777:
What you need is a good career and source of income

I have my own house, A good business what source of income are you talking about?

Cruise777:
■ I said a career.... That's a job he would love and would take atleast 9 hours of his daily time, and he would be very happy to return the next day

From my own personal experience... When you are so enmase in career work that you enjoy and you are making good money, hardly will you have time for addictive behavior like oloshoing around

There are 24 hours in a day. If you subtract 9, you have about 15 more hours to go. Most folks sleep 6 - 8 hours so leaving about 6 hrs to do what with? The same career/job?

A job can be a way to make immediate money but nothing like engaging in a project one is passionate about to stave oft boredom and the need to focus on silly things like the itching of the piece of meet between one's legs.

xin5:

I have my own house, A good business what source of income are you talking about?

So how exactly is your sex life affecting your productivity or your life in general

Cruise777:


So how exactly is your sex life affecting your productivity or your life in general

Pressure from mother to carry her grandchildren

You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

slimjohn2k5:
You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

Nor talk am, premium own dey dey well

slimjohn2k5:
You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

Indeed!!!. No one can change a person, so stop encouraging ladies to engage in someone's mess.

YourGFsnatcher, are you seeing this!. Your gender are also pushers.

Jeon:


Indeed!!!. No one can change a person, so stop encouraging ladies to engage in someone's mess.

YourGFsnatcher, are you seeing this!. Your gender are also pushers.

You can only change yourself when you have another perspective, not because someone just want you to change and you just change like that. There are people that don't need changing. They are good as they are, but your gender won't go for them, they want us to change for them, and they end up getting hurt. I know how many girls are completely hard broken by dating me, they know I wasn't good for them but they keep coming with the "he will change for me" theory. Why don't girls go for the already food guys? This is what I can't answer

U don't have a problem...every choice is a good choice as far u the doer,i don't see any problem in what u are doing.

Enjoy your life...after 50yrs birthday just take a proper assessment of ur life and ask yourself if u have progressed or regressed.

Op I don't know your religion but you need deliverance asap, those power that held you captive to prostitute might be the one preventing you from getting married. Like someone earlier said you are the only one that can stop it if you are ready, deliverance, fasting and prayer is the solution.

God will deliver you

ayomilore:
Op I don't know your religion but you need deliverance asap, those power that held you captive to prostitute might be the one preventing you from getting married. Like someone earlier said you are the only one that can stop it if you are ready, deliverance, fasting and prayer is the solution. God will deliver you

Stop lying to him!

Baba sorry 4 dis abeg,'na d day wey a mad man knw say him mad,na dat day e cure'. Reason about dis

xin5:

Pressure from mother to carry her grandchildren

When you're willing to be truthful to yourself, you yourself know it's way deeper than that.

Lol... So far so good there's nothing wrong with the OP...
The first step to treating someone is if the person is willing to agree that he/she is Ill....
The OP Neva gree say him wan solution..
Coz as e dey so, he still pays an exorbitant amount of money to hook-ups... And he really enjoys the sex...
Let your Mama rest...
The fact is dat, you aren't ready to Rest...
Well, life they say is once...
You live Only once....
Do what gives you joy...


Chai, so some men fit pay 80k per night....

And some people go come online say olosho no be work...
Well, make my house rent expire first and I no see money pay..

What is the meaning of the last line?

Puss360:
Lol... So far so good there's nothing wrong with the OP...
The first step to treating someone is if the person is willing to agree that he/she is Ill....
The OP Neva gree say him wan solution..
Coz as e dey so, he still pays an exorbitant amount of money to hook-ups... And he really enjoys the sex...
Let your Mama rest...
The fact is dat, you aren't ready to Rest...
Well, life they say is once...
You live Only once....
Do what gives you joy...


Chai, so some men fit pay 80k per night....

And some people go come online say olosho no be work...
Well, make my house rent expire first and I no see money pay..

talented321:
What is the meaning of the last line?

🤣🤣🤣🤣It means, it's always good to have more than one source of income.... Hope you understand now

Puss360:

🤣🤣🤣🤣It means, it's always good to have more than one source of income.... Hope you understand now

where are you based

80 percent of nigerian men are addicted to prostitutes.....I'm not lying.

Go to Cynergy hotel at Festac or Jolly friends hotel at Ikeja on a Friday night and see rich, matured married men looking for hoes to fvck.

The situation of things in this country is not helping at all.... For me,I fvck prostitutes at least four times a week and I know how much I do spend.

Going into a relationship too is crazy because the woman you dating might have up to 20 boyfriends not to talk of toasters.

It's a crazy world out here.

Addicted maybe you are under a yoke

Just cut off you gbola.. Thats permanent solution bro.

I like the fact that you speak up, addiction is properly managed when exposed.

Since you're well established then try out marriage, pray, be born again as they say it, be in the midst of people who can reignite your conscience and fear of the Lord over immoral things then re-invent yourself. At 47, your first born should be out or close to finish from high school.

The begining of the change can be difficult but if you don't engage in the change process you might have a bigger regret with nothing to show with your life at age 55 when you're ought to be a grandpa and relaxing, think about how you wanna spend your old age.

Look for lady of like 28 below and let her know that you have a high libido, also stop using sxxx enhancër.

As a Christian the first i will recommend is pray and ask God for help.

At 47 And You Are Pricing Ladies 25k, 30k, Etc Just To Sleep With Them For Just 5 - 30 Minutes... Seek Jesus! Not Married At 47 But Following Prostitute. One Thing Is, You Don't Know What You Are Doing Until It's Too Late, Jumping From Different Women Makes A Man Useless, Even When He Think He Is Doing His Best. There Is A Spiritual Bond In Sex.

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