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Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Sirchiboy: 9:33am On Oct 21, 2023
Is it a crime to be a single mum?
Please stop this discrimination.
It is not good
Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Mhizzard(m): 9:36am On Oct 21, 2023
Are you one?

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by verybadmouth(m): 9:38am On Oct 21, 2023
Cos we can't take another man's responsibility. Single mothers in Nigeria are always needy

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Pierocash(m): 9:39am On Oct 21, 2023
Sirchiboy:
Is it a crime to be a single mum?
Please stop this discrimination.
It is not good
it is not a crime.

But however, being a single mum has reduced your beauty, your form, and reduced your market value. It is not a crime, but it is a fact. Once a woman puts to bed, she loses her worth compared to single sisters

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Roboto11: 9:50am On Oct 21, 2023
Too many reasons.

What happened to the father(s) of your children?

Was he so bad that you couldn't persevere?

Are you still in great physical shape?

Who would be responsible for your child(ren)?

How much time do you really have?

Have you truly settled down or are you on Gentry roll?

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Quality20(m): 10:10am On Oct 21, 2023
Its just a case of ashewo men despising fellow ashewo women

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by BareFacedLies(m): 10:11am On Oct 21, 2023
Pierocash:
it is not a crime.

But however, being a single mum has reduced your beauty, your form, and reduced your market value. It is not a crime, but it is a fact. Once a woman puts to bed, she loses her worth compared to single sisters

Rubbish!

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Savedday2: 10:14am On Oct 21, 2023
We don't despise them. We only see them for what they are. Simple!

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by narite: 10:21am On Oct 21, 2023
I actually do feel very sad for them. We all make mistakes, sadly; there are mistakes you will have to live with for the rest of your life. It sad because this type of mistake will keep cropping up in your life forever, having negative effects.

It a mistake that can never walk away, it can only be managed. That is the situations this single mother have found themselves. I have a lots of these people as a friend but they use to see me as their white knight.

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by holybabayo(m): 10:22am On Oct 21, 2023
It's not all men that despise them.
Men that are in their late 30s upward and single prefer single mum. They like to inherit the kids and start training them from get -go.

Men that are windows without kids go for them.

Now there are higher preference for single mom that were never married than those that were married and divorce.

I'm in my late 30s, single. I'm talking to one. She is doing Shakara sha. I just give her space for now.

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Fahvvy: 12:15pm On Oct 21, 2023
Sirchiboy:
Is it a crime to be a single mum?
Please stop this discrimination.
It is not good

Ever heard of the word "Preference" or "Specs"? undecided...

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by SIMPonPatrol(m): 12:24pm On Oct 21, 2023
Single mothers are also human beings who deserve love
Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by MidasTouch15: 12:31pm On Oct 21, 2023
As for me , i don't despise them. I wish i can find one
Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Babamide(m): 1:33pm On Oct 21, 2023
Everyone has baggage but if your baggage is alive and breathing, it had better be a pet.

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Slaveman343: 1:36pm On Oct 21, 2023
Many guys here are mean spirited. See them spitting bitterness all over like this is some personal shlt to them. Oya let women tell us they can't date so so and so men and you will see them running mad.

Me, I won't marry single woman but I pray they get a second chance. People make mistakes

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by talk2hb1(m): 1:49pm On Oct 21, 2023
Sirchiboy:
Is it a crime to be a single mum?
Please stop this discrimination.
It is not good

Please preach this to women/ladies to stop discriminating against broke guys, they deserve love too.

I am very sure you are still young and naive, but know this and know peace:

No Woman/Lady will want to have anything to do with you if you have no value to her, it’s unfortunate the game didn’t skew in their favor(Baby Mamas ) that’s why you think they are discriminating against them.
So it’s market demand and supply

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by ednut1(m): 2:48pm On Oct 21, 2023
Men are no longer allowed to have their own preferences There are men who want single mothers. The women should go for those men na. Most 9ja men dont want to take care of another man pikin or get involved in baby daddy drama. Single mother should not be pained if many guys prefer non single mothers. Make una rest

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by DyingFetus: 4:03pm On Oct 21, 2023
Single mothers will place on you both bills and troubles of her and her offsprings


Desist from single mothers



A widow is much better

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Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Culer: 4:28pm On Oct 21, 2023
FFS This topic has been over flogged on NL. Are y'all this generically stoopid??
Re: Why Do Men Despise Single Mothers? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Oct 21, 2023
A single mother is not always the first option when it comes to dating. There are many young single ladies who do not have kids that are available to date.

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