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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by SeriouslySense(m): 2:54pm On Oct 26, 2023

Rocktation:
Well, that's why I plead with ladies to look well before entering any kind of serious commitment with nobody. Any man whose drive for it, does not match yours by the long shot, best run from such people. You don't need to have a baby to know.

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by advanceDNA: 2:54pm On Oct 26, 2023

GenderMix:
It's only a man that lacks common sense that would put the wife under such pressure because of sex.

By the way, can people just drop that crap that once you are married your body belongs to your spouse 😒. For Pete's sake, you guys are 2 different entities and will remain so until you die. Lol

Everything in marriage must be mutually agreed eventhough there can be compromises here and there. You shouldn't force your spouse into sex.

May God grant us wisdom.

Weda man or woman.....Any one that sees ordinary sex that both party enjoys as pressure has no business being married....

What most women want is to have sex only when u women want it ....that's wrong..

...many of u don't even want ur husband to come close to you.....yet if he does u will get in the mood...so why not let him get u into the mood instead of pushing him away until ur body naturally into mood once a month or once in 6 months...that's just wickedness and controlling sex just because u can....

.. It's not only when u are starving that u eat.. sometimes, u just make effort to eat and still enjoy the food ....

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by SeriouslySense(m): 2:56pm On Oct 26, 2023

African males have the biggest sexual organ. It is not so for no reason. They always think of sex.

Biologically, they alway have sexual needs. So the problem is how the wife can meet all this needs.

With discipline the eman can learn how to control himself and be reasonable, i know its conflicts the biological adaptation.

Its will be kinder to think more with the brain than the with sexual organs.

Some men try donkey from early age, i see a lot of African males trying donkeys too. So what i am trying to say, is that, thinking with sexual organs could transfer to the children, but if you discipline yourselfs, your child may inherit such discipline biologically, because you are adapting to discipline.

CHoccolaTE:
Men and their disgusting obsession with sex.

See how they are crying and shouting all over this thread because OP said they should be considerate and not behave like sex maniacs.

I wonder how Nigerian women tolerate you sociopaths.

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by Atarakpa: 2:56pm On Oct 26, 2023

With this write up my follow men what do have to say.

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 2:56pm On Oct 26, 2023

Chetas81:
Who care, greedy mentality on the beat, NIGERIAN WOMEN ALWAYS HAVE REASON TO JUSTIFY THEIR IGNORANCE, WHEN COME TO MAKE LOVE

It is not. Son of you don't know what child birth entails. A woman's body must change and has to heal over time.
As a man you can kill the urge those moments , you won't die

Besides, some of you should understand that in marriage sometimes sex is more of work than pleasure 😆 jokes apart. You will get stressed sometimes

In all, as reasonable humans we must be considerate in any relationship whether between spouses or friends.

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by EnvyandHate: 2:57pm On Oct 26, 2023

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

What's wrong with a second wife?

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by Oesophagus99(m): 2:57pm On Oct 26, 2023

👆 I REBUKE YOU!

..you diabolically demonic; evil poster😈

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by dododawa1: 2:57pm On Oct 26, 2023

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by lanre316: 2:58pm On Oct 26, 2023

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

You're very right and men should be considerate of their wives and cut them some slack when they're unable to perform their wifely duties.

Now I ask you this: How many women cut their husbands some slack and are considerate to them when they are unable to perform their duties eg when they're broke and unable to provide.

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by SeriouslySense(m): 2:59pm On Oct 26, 2023

Oesophagus99:
👆 I REBUKE YOU!

..you diabolically demonic; evil poster😈

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by Beverlyjean(f): 3:00pm On Oct 26, 2023

Emeka71:
How possible ¿

U can Google it

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by LaRosa01: 3:01pm On Oct 26, 2023

let us face fact women of this generation are very lazy,and very entitled.all this excusses dont fly,infact the only value a woman in nigeria today has is just sex and even that is excusses.go ask your sisters abroad how worthless they are in the picking order.

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by tollyboy5(m): 3:02pm On Oct 26, 2023

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cooking, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

First of all. A house wife giving this kind of excuse is an id i ot but its left for her and her husband to sort it out.
Secondly Many men don't have self control so ladies used that as their way of taking charge, not me. I am really sensitive and proud.
If i be the one in such situation i will try to understand her and help her through, if she continues with such decision i will still try to understand her better and also make sure i loose sexual interest towards her.

Thirdly If she start maintaining celibacy i will understand her more better and not worry her but look for some else that we're are both attracted to each other sexually with similar drive.

Fourthly if she finds out and offer me sex i will definitely reject because I'm not sexually attracted to her and since I've been an understanding man since, she also need to understand me henceforth.

Fifthly if she tries to cause a scene honestly speaking she will be in her fathers compound.

Lastly if there will be any resolve at that point it has to include her top elders from both family with her signing and accepting to be co-wife.
If she agrees then we meuve, if first wife no dey d mood second wife go dey mood. And if both decided to agree not to be in the mood of which its not possible one must snitch go get favor. Then i go hands up for them grin

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 3:03pm On Oct 26, 2023

SeriouslySense:

These guys are just too funny on this forum 🤣

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by SeriouslySense(m): 3:04pm On Oct 26, 2023

Women please understand this is something inherent, try to be nice and if he can talk about how to control himself, then you can talk about it.

Just be nice and diplomatic. He may respect you in that way.

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by Atolu01: 3:05pm On Oct 26, 2023

The childish, immature, overgrown bully, me, me, me, and my overgrown; must be catered to, all the time; ego, grossly insensitive, rule bending gender? Seems you are asking for the moon.

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by AlphaHakimi: 3:07pm On Oct 26, 2023

Women think sexual urge is something you can suppress. Can anyone suppress hunger or thirst?

Childbirth is difficult on both the man and the woman. You cannot sex starve your husband for 3 months and expect him not to get satisfaction outside. You must be a very Wicked person to starve a man and complain if he decides to get satisfaction outside.

For men, the urge to have sex is natural. You cannot deny your husband food and then complain if another woman feeds him.

If a child is hungry and his mother tells him " stop crying, learn to control your hunger, you have to be disciplined to control your hunger, I will feed you in 3 months time", that gives you an idea of how Women sound when they give reasons why a man should not have sex with his wife.

As a man, except on health grounds, if your wife denies you sex, do not complain. Just look for a girl and get the satisfaction you need. Also, deny her whatever you normally provide for her. She should go outside and get it.

It's about time men view marriage the way Women view marriage. It's appalling that married men beg their wives for sex. It's a shame. Any night that she is not in the mood, the next morning the man should not also be in the mood to provide for her. Or better still, when there is a threat to her life, the man should not also be in the mood to defend her.

Shalom

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by izadi: 3:07pm On Oct 26, 2023

Africans need to spend less time on sex topics and refocus their time/energy on other value adding engagements. Their mates in the west are busy inventing everything while we just dey carry jiggy jiggy matter for head like gala, chai!

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by SeriouslySense(m): 3:09pm On Oct 26, 2023

yes

GenderMix:

These guys are just too funny on this forum 🤣

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by SeriouslySense(m): 3:09pm On Oct 26, 2023

izadi:
Africans need to spend less time on sex topics and refocus their time/energy on other value adding engagements. Their mates in the west are busy inventing everything while we just dey carry jiggy jiggy matter for head like gala, chai!

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by AlphaWolf27: 3:09pm On Oct 26, 2023

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

If na so, then wives no suppose vex if husband goes for plan B.
At least side chick go benefit na.

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by 1Sharon(f): 3:09pm On Oct 26, 2023

AllDModsAreMaad:
Story for the gods...

As long as I married you, it is ME first before YOU.

No compromising on that standard or rule for any reason whatsoever.

When I dey work my ass out to give you and the kids soft lives, where're you?

If you don't like it, you can take the exit door.

This is why I insist Nigerian women should contribute financially in a marriage so men won't do shakara like this 👆🏾

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by tollyboy5(m): 3:13pm On Oct 26, 2023

CHoccolaTE:
Men and their disgusting obsession with sex.

See how they are crying and shouting all over this thread because OP said they should be considerate and not behave like sex maniacs.

I wonder how Nigerian women tolerate you sociopaths.

I'm really surprised and I've come to notice many men cant discipline themselves.

Well house wife were actually married for the sake of reproduction and hot sex so they should maintain their duty post while the man provides.

And men should let their woman breath after child birth.

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by arjunm: 3:16pm On Oct 26, 2023

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by GenderMix: 3:17pm On Oct 26, 2023

advanceDNA:

Weda man or woman.....Any one that sees ordinary sex that both party enjoys as pressure has no business being married....

What most women want is to have sex only when u women want it ....that's wrong..

...many of u don't even want ur husband to come close to you.....yet if he does u will get in the mood...so why not let him get u into the mood instead of pushing him away until ur body naturally into mood once a month or once in 6 months...that's just wickedness and controlling sex just because u can....

.. It's not only when u are starving that u eat.. sometimes, u just make effort to eat and still enjoy the food ....

Sometimes you can be stressed and not be in the mood to have sex. Nothing wrong with that if it's once in a while. Marriage is beyond sex

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by laluski(m): 3:17pm On Oct 26, 2023

Reminderz:
sure it's not easy, but a wife who's considerate and respects her husband will find ways to satisfy and perform her duties... nor be she go first do am... it's not easy on the husband as well...

if she's not in the mood for sex, she should do bløwjob or dry hump, or anything to empty his balls, not she throwing tantrums and blaming it on mood swings anytime his husband ask for intimacy... men want to find solace in the wife they marry, and if he feels his peace is being threatened, he would be forced to do what he once vowed to never do...

Simple

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by Achor1111(m): 3:21pm On Oct 26, 2023

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

This your write up, explain in relation with extra marital affairs with married ladies.
Story

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by Fullfledged(m): 3:21pm On Oct 26, 2023

GenderMix:
It's only a man that lacks common sense that would put the wife under such pressure because of sex.

By the way, can people just drop that crap that once you are married your body belongs to your spouse 😒. For Pete's sake, you guys are 2 different entities and will remain so until you die. Lol

Everything in marriage must be mutually agreed eventhough there can be compromises here and there. You shouldn't force your spouse into sex.

May God grant us wisdom.

I can't believe you mentioned God yet you are calling His word crap. 1 Corinthians 7:4 says that the wife has no power over her body but the husband and vice versa. Please mind your language so you don't incur the wrath of God upon yourself!

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Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by ceejay80s(m): 3:23pm On Oct 26, 2023

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

Lol on discipline pen*s

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by SeriouslySense(m): 3:24pm On Oct 26, 2023

YEs it says so, and The husband should be considerate and kind to his wife and the wife should be repectful, kind, gentle and considerate to her husband.

Therefore they should understand each other, respect their boundaries and treat each other with love.
Treat each other as they would treat themselves, for instance will the man do something disgusting to himself no, so he should not force the woman to do something, she hates.

Sometimes people use scriptures to justify something bad

Fullfledged:

I can't believe you mentioned God yet you are calling His word crap. 1 Corinthians 7:4 says that the wife has no power over her body but the husband and vice versa. Please mind your language so you don't incur the wrath of God upon yourself!

Re: Be Sensitive To Your Wife’s Feelings Too! by advanceDNA: 3:26pm On Oct 26, 2023

GenderMix:

Sometimes you can be stressed and not be in the mood to have sex. Nothing wrong with that if it's once in a while. Marriage is beyond sex

What exactly is stress?? That word is what u women use to push ur husband away ....

Madam... if u are not incapacitated, or sick...u can't be hiding under stress for many weeks, yet u wake up go to work and do everyother thing ........ It's just witholding sex because u want to do so....

.. We all don't feel like paying bills.. we pay it anyways......and like I said earlier..we all don't have to be starving before we eat

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