I had a very serious argument with my fiance this morning. Can you imagine this babe?🤬

She asked me if we get married and have kids
And let's say God forbid armed robbers invade our house
Who will be the one to fight and protect the family and kids.

I told her simple,
BOTH of us will hide the kids to safety and BOTH of us will put hands together and fight whatever threat that is coming.

This babe went crazy, saying why should she fight?
That she will carry the baby and run to safety
While I stay and fight off the enemies

Heeyyyy God

Telling me that I should be a man and defend my family.
Unto say I be cat wey get 9 lifes abi

So I go kneel down for floor do like mumu
Still buy you expensive ring.
Still pay your bride price.
Still cover all your monthly expenses

But when danger comes, you run away
And leave me to fight it alone.

Ahhhhhh, Men dey suffer for this life ooo

you don't have fiancee you are just a clout chaser

A reasonable man will let his wife take the children and run, he can also run along with her if that's possible.

But you can't let your wife to stay back and help fight the robbers when she's not trained to fight because the both of you could get killed, leaving your children to struggle by themselves... And if the robbers catch her while helping you fight them, chances are she'll be raped and probably get pregnant during the process... And they'll rape her in your presence.

But they can't rape you if they catch you... Now tell me this, will you be able to spend the rest of your life with images of your wife getting raped in your presence just because you told her to stay back and help fight the robbers? And will you be able to accept her wholeheartedly with one of the robbers baby?