When I am around my fellow guys, I don't get this urge to impress or try to get validation from them but when I am around girls, God! I tend to always act in a way that impresses them. I have tried all means to stop this attitude but it's not working. It is as though it is a normal feeling but I hate it. I act normal in every situation but when girls come into the scene, I become nervous, starts acting shy, happy and feeling a rush within me, I hate it. I want to stop impressing girl, how can I do it? Please help me. Give me some tips please

Walk away

xtheunknown:
Walk away

it is my shop. Different girls always come to my shop.

bahdpersona:
it is my shop. Different girls always come to my shop.

Chose to ignore that feeling. It's that simple. My case was worst. It's all abt mindset. I overcame

xtheunknown:

Chose to ignore that feeling. It's that simple. My case was worst. It's all abt mindset. I overcame

xtheunknown:

Chose to ignore that feeling. It's that simple. My case was worst. It's all abt mindset. I overcame

. Emotion can be overwhelming, tell me how I can ignore it, I mean the process. It is not simple .

Just be yourself, only you can do it.

Including ur mom and sister?

muyico:
Including ur mom and sister?

no, I don't have feelings for them. I feel like they are me, we are one. That are different.

You're just an idi0t.. no offence meant.
Did you have problem with girls growing up or what?.. they are just like you, but of opposite gender so why feel the urge to embarrass your generation when around them?.

Might be generational curse affecting you sef.. who knows.

The feeling is common, you are not alone.

Women are the mirror that tells men to level up, and what you are experiencing are just symptoms of it.

If you observe yourself, you will notice you do not do it to mothers, older women, and women you aren't attracted to.

If you want it to end organically, you need to improve yourself to a point where getting those kinds of girls will fall within the category you date, not the exceptions.

To impress comes from a place of insecurity. To be secure in yourself means it is others that have to impress you. The better you become in whatever you do, the lesser your desire to impress.

Give yourself time, you are probably young. In reality, you will feel like this way into your 30s, so don't expect it to end soon. But set your eyes on the goal towards self-actualisation, and it will go naturally, because you are a heavyweight.

legendary simp

I won't be blackmailed emotional by a woman. because i don't give a Bleep about their behaviour. am saying this as a keke driver.

bahdpersona:
When I am around my fellow guys, I don't get this urge to impress or try to get validation from them but when I am around girls, God! I tend to always act in a way that impresses them. I have tried all means to stop this attitude but it's not working. It is as though it is a normal feeling but I hate it. I act normal in every situation but when girls come into the scene, I become nervous, starts acting shy, happy and feeling a rush within me, I hate it. I want to stop impressing girl, how can I do it? Please help me. Give me some tips please

maybe you are still a teenager or you need help.