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ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by Jaxx123: 7:13am On Nov 26, 2023
ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ...

💔 My heart is heavy as I write this letter...

Recently, through counseling, I have met several young single mothers who are suffering, feeling lonely, abandoned, and rejected.

🪑 Come, take a seat and listen, young single mothers...

It's true that your ex treated you poorly and left you with 2-3 kids...

It's true that your former husband mistreated you and left you with nothing after entrusting him with all you had.

You see, it's true that the father of your children ran off with another woman, leaving you and the kids with absolutely nothing... I mean nothing.

Yes, I understand this is the situation you find yourself in as you read this letter...

Now, the next thing weighing on your heart is finding a new husband—the one you thought would provide financial help for you and your kids.

Unfortunately, all you keep encountering are womanizers, liars, time wasters, and some even turn into baby factory producers...

👶 Your 2-3 kids, where are they?

You've entrusted them all to your mom... I mean, your own mother...

📅 You check on them once a month, sometimes only through phone calls because your current husband doesn't want you to go anywhere or allow any visits...

📚 Your 2-3 kids are growing in age but not in knowledge.

👵 Your grandmother is doing her best, but many things are left undone that only you can handle.

🙁 Your children aren't happy, and you're not free to make progress in your life with your new husband.

Some ladies leave their new husbands, searching for another one, posting daily photos on several social media groups—all to find a new husband.

🤥 Men keep making fake promises to you...

Within a year, you've encountered 5-10 men who promised you heaven but, unbeknownst to you, it was hell.

Now, your first child is pregnant by an unknown man. The pregnancy happened while the child was searching for food and got deceived by an area boy.

Your kids' ages grow to 10-13 years while still in primary 1-2, facing slow education due to a lack of attention from the parent.

🔄 At this stage of your life, everything is exhausting. Men tire you.

Some already have more kids with men while no longer staying with them.

Some have experienced all tribes in the name of looking for a husband, and your kids are almost wayward with no apparent success.

Dear single mothers, no one prays to find themselves in a struggling situation, but when life puts us in such situations, the key is to make proper decisions.

In this moment when your man has left you alone, all you need is God and your ability to sit down and fully focus on your kids.

Yes, fully focus on them...

🙏 The right man will come when you don't give up on prayer.

Don't live your life thinking you can't make progress without men supporting you.

Sit properly, write down your next plan for more success, and work with sensible people to help you.

Another man may not be your next action.
Another child may not be your next action.

Are you in this situation?

Think straight.

🙏 I pray God helps you.

Don't forget, you worth it in LIFE.

http://www.clementmotivates.com.ng/2023/11/blog-post.html

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Re: ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by siraj1402(m): 7:14am On Nov 26, 2023
Hummm
Re: ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by 4KNGOATS(m): 7:20am On Nov 26, 2023
Re: ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by Ahmed0336(m): 7:23am On Nov 26, 2023
Everything man!!!
Forget marriage and be an independent woman.
Hustle and make your money, you must not depend on a man for everything.

Btw, Who stopped them from using contraceptives

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Re: ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by advanceDNA: 7:23am On Nov 26, 2023
4KNGOATS:

Olosho addressing fellows I site you oo

You too like violence
Re: ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by LadyRosa2(f): 7:36am On Nov 26, 2023
Being a single mother is difficult but actually not a death sentence. Its no different from being a widow.

Its a motivation for those strong willed women who love challenges.

If I was a single mother, I will be tough,bull headed, focused and wealthy. It should be a drive not a limitation.

I have friends who are single mothers, and I'm not close to them when it comes to financial strength. All they think about is money ,more money, more money.
Re: ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by 4KNGOATS(m): 7:57am On Nov 26, 2023
grin grin grin

advanceDNA:


You too like violence
Re: ᴍʏ ʟᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ ᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜɴɢ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ... by ecolime(m): 8:37am On Nov 26, 2023
I thought you wanted to help them by marrying all of them or paying their children's school fees.

Just kidding

Your writeup is great. Great action points too 👏

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