Good am all , pls I will be brief with my message as I need urgent advice 🙏
3 months after I met my gf now my wife in 2019, i had a terrible sickness I never experienced all my life.. my di*k hardly get erected and even when it does, i can't last 4secs.... honestly it was a disgusting and shameful to behold that I quickly sought for solutions after 1week I noticed it.. A friend of mine referred me to a haberlist where I went a bought medicine for 22k. The haberlist advised that I take the medicine with her but she didn't take it stressing that it's too bitter. I took the medicine all alone and my di*k came back to reality.
After some months, babe told me she's having some discharge from her V and we went together to buy the herbal medicine again for only her , yet she didn't take it .. reason again that is too bitter.
Now fast_forward 2021, we officially got married.
All through our dating stage, she never missed her period for once and we are happy that we are playing despite even without using condoms... since 2021 to this Yr no child us forthcoming... this Yr, we have gone 3 different lab and all they can discover is that my wife has heavy growth of staphy while mine is just scanty growth... we have been on medication, even the herbal one I bought last, she took it all with me.
Here is the problem, she cries even night especially night she sees her visitor..I'm not too worried but seems she needs a child more.... I do express my concern though..encouraging her things will get better as God's time to no avail... I'm confused and sad seeing her cry...


Pls what advice can you give me right now🙏.

IYANU MASELE

Your story sha

They say make I tell you say Na spiritual husband
Dey dem talk am oo
No be me

She be ogbanje.

Go to a good hospital.

It's normal for women to cry when they are waiting.

May your carry your bundle of joy soonest.

As I see it ... red flags been waving in your face from the onset of the relationship. What was her background?... how did you get to know each other? ... online? From what you wrote .... your wife been carrying STDs from the time you met her ... been infecting and reinfecting you. The worse is her refusing to have it treated. Some STDs if remain untreated turn into something else and can no longer be treated. Such can also rule out the possibility of pregnancy. Why is she suddenly willing to take the "bitter medicine% and anything else? .... and be crying at nights when now she should be full of hope and less stressed? I strongly believe unknown to you ... she went to a good hospital .. got tested... and was told she had a deadly STD .... maybe syphilis/gonorrhea... the one that has no cure ... and will cause sores to break out . That's a diagnosis that will make one cry at nights. She knows the life she been living... she knows what she has been doing ... she most likely knows she can't have a baby .... while you remain clueless. If interested... maybe you can ask her ... but you must have guts to face the truth. My advice to you .... go to a good hospital ... get tested for STDs ... and HIV. If you must have sex.... use condoms ... two. Your choice your life.