Hello, Fams
I have been at this corner for a very long time and it is highly mentally draining me. I felt manipulated and caged by this girl. If you have read my previous post in August, you won't ask me questions.

But what exactly do we as NIgerian Men GAIN from an average NIgerian Girlfriend?

Actually, I once decided in 2015 never to date a Nigerian girl again. Something from somewhere push me, I fall in love in 2019 and broke up in 2021. Due to family pressure, I decided to try luck again with an Enugu girl. This girl is something else, she is too commanding and, I just see her as a competitor in terms of physical strength with me. You know what, no man can allow another in his house as a wife. Never

I drop that girl off and move on, come this year, I fell into the hands of this one now, I decided to try her. To be very honest, her parents told me already that the girl is a VERY STUBBORN GIRL, but I didn't listen, I thought she will be a good girl because I CAN LOVE AND SHOW LOVE TO A WOMAN.

To be honest, fast forward to this period, for the past 2 months now, this girl is becoming a thorn inside my bone marrow. Actually, I can't tell her anything and she will listen to me. She will come back and be telling me advice her male friends gave her and she will work with her.

Also, due to her stubborness, I had lost 150k within a space of 3 weeks, that is 50k per week. Yet, she has learnt her lessons.

Pls guys, I think, I need a very powerful force to pull me out from this vector, because I don't have that kind of mind to throw her properties away. I seriously need to walk away but looking at her, she looks helpless but can never ever listen to me for about 2 months now. I have complained and complained, and complained, her deaf ears are still there.

What do we Men GAIN from a typical Nigerian Girlfriend?

If I finally get this girl out of my life, I WILL NEVER DATE A NIGERIAN GIRL AGAIN. Even if I will do, maybe, in my mid 40s cause, I am very very tired of them all.