Hi everyone,

Please we’ve been looking for my uncle for a very long time. The last time my grandma saw him last was about 20 years ago in Ibadan, his last known location was in Ijora Lagos about 19 years ago.

My grandma is in dilemma rn as she is old and he is the only son of my grandma. He should be around 43 years now.

His name is Ayodele Ayoola.

Please help me

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Did he just up and leave, or what do you mean by you've been looking for him? Perhaps something has happened to him and he's no longer alive? If he's alive, does he want to be found? It's not uncommon for people to disappear and create a new life for themselves, hence that could be the case, that is, if he's still alive.

TheWinterBird:
Did he just up and leave, or what do you mean by you've been looking for him? Perhaps something has happened to him and he's no longer alive? If he's alive, does he want to be found? It's not uncommon for people to disappear and create a new life for themselves, hence that could be the case, that is, if he's still alive.

The last time we saw him, he just came home pick up two shirts and he said he is coming. That was the last time we saw him

osuolale95:


The last time we saw him, he just came home pick up two shirts and he said he is coming. That was the last time we saw him

It sounds like this was an intentional disappearance then, meaning he went away intentionally and most likely does not want to return home. It's either he's still alive and will never return home (why he chose to leave in the first place isn't something anyone can answer), or will someday return (although if 20-years have gone by, the likelihood of him returning are next to nil), OR he is no longer on earth.

A male buffalo weighs over 2000 pounds. Isn't that amazing

TheWinterBird:

It sounds like this was an intentional disappearance then, meaning he went away intentionally and most likely does not want to return home. It's either he's still alive and will never return home (why he chose to leave in the first place isn't something anyone can answer), or will someday return (although if 20-years have gone by, the likelihood of him returning are next to nil), OR he is no longer on earth.

You said it right, but I didn’t see it as intentionally. Grandma is old, and he is the only child of our grandma and who knows it is time for him to return home

Fatbam005:
A male buffalo weighs over 2000 pounds. Isn't that amazing

And what does that means?

osuolale95:


You said it right, but I didn’t see it as intentionally. Grandma is old, and he is the only child of our grandma and who knows it is time for him to return home

You said he came to "pick up two shirts and he said he is coming" and never returned home since then. That sounds like someone who knew what he was doing. Was he going through anything at the time that you knew of? Any mental illness? In any case, did y'all go to the police to report him as a missing person? Did you put up posters with your contact numbers for people to get in touch with y'all if they spotted him? Did you put his pictures up on social media? Or you're now just trying to find him 20-years later? Because these are actions you should've taken immediately because someone might've seen him somewhere not long after and that could've helped with locating him.

Anyways, I pray he's still alive and well, IJN. In your previous post, you said he's your grandma's only son but here you're saying he's her only child. Does grandma have other kids? I understand it must be tough either way not seeing her son all these years and not knowing what has happened to him. If he's still alive, I pray for God to lead him home soon, IJN. Keep up the faith and do your best to cheer up grandma.

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Fatbam005:
A male buffalo weighs over 2000 pounds. Isn't that amazing

What happens When a female Buffalo rides a male Buffalo in bed?

TheWinterBird:


You said he came to "pick up two shirts and he said he is coming" and never returned home since then. That sounds like someone who knew what he was doing. Was he going through anything at the time that you knew of? Any mental illness? In any case, did y'all go to the police to report him as a missing person? Did you put up posters with your contact numbers for people to get in touch with y'all if they spotted him? Did you put his pictures up on social media? Or you're now just trying to find him 20-years later? Because these are actions you should've taken immediately because someone might've seen him somewhere not long after and that could've helped with locating him.

Anyways, I pray he's still alive and well, IJN. In your previous post, you said he's your grandma's only son but here you're saying he's her only child. Does grandma have other kids? I understand it must be tough either way not seeing her son all these years and not knowing what has happened to him. If he's still alive, I pray for God to lead him home soon, IJN. Keep up the faith and do your best to cheer up grandma.

Thanks a lot, he is not into drugs and he doesn’t even drink then. He was working as an iron bender then. Lots of efforts has been made to find him for the past years, I was with grandma today and I couldn’t hold it to myself again, I have to voice out again here on nairaland. We’re trying possible best to make grandma happy. But you know. May God just intervene

TheWinterBird:

It sounds like this was an intentional disappearance then, meaning he went away intentionally and most likely does not want to return home. It's either he's still alive and will never return home (why he chose to leave in the first place isn't something anyone can answer), or will someday return (although if 20-years have gone by, the likelihood of him returning are next to nil), OR he is no longer on earth.

I doubt anyone would run away for 20 years without looking back

FatherCHRISTMAS:

I doubt anyone would run away for 20 years without looking back

Read my posts again. Reading comprehension is important.